Some people are just plain MEAN :(

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avrilamor
avrilamor Posts: 30
in Motivation and Support
I am saddened by the whole, "motivate yourself, don't add me as a friend because it's on you" attitude around here. The friends I have are AWESOME! I love the few MFPs I do have. I'm afraid to add ppl so if you're friendly and need a little extra motivation or someone to share your accomplishments with, that's me. Feel free to add me.

:)

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  • virichi08
    virichi08 Posts: 465 Member
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    now i feel bad for laughing at that post =(
  • TravisBurns
    TravisBurns Posts: 353 Member
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    Yeah. You'll find ****s everywhere you look. But there aren't always people like that.
  • likearadiowave
    likearadiowave Posts: 445 Member
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    What, people are like that on here?

    Anyone who acts like that needs to pull the stick out of their *kitten*.
  • cowgirlashlee
    cowgirlashlee Posts: 301 Member
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    What, people are like that on here?

    Anyone who acts like that needs to pull the stick out of their *kitten*.

    I agree with you...unsupportive and mean people like that should keep to themselves. Supportive people rock!
  • Sierramist
    Sierramist Posts: 11
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    I feel you,I find the same problem for a year I've been here and I never talked with anyone,its like a party that no one talks to you,you sit in the corner eating alone and when you had enough you go home....lol I log in,put in my meals and exercises and I leave,it would be nice to challege myself with someone but either way I'm doing this..
  • Melanie_RS
    Melanie_RS Posts: 417 Member
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    LOL!
  • Articeluvsmemphis
    Articeluvsmemphis Posts: 1,987 Member
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    haha. sure add me.
  • rhoyalenigma
    rhoyalenigma Posts: 6
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    Everyone I met on here so far has been really supportive... I ran out of my allotted 25 requests I can send today but I am always open to new supportive people! Feel free to add me!
  • reneelee
    reneelee Posts: 877 Member
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    It is on you, you make the choices for yourself. Why do you need a cheerleader?
  • runmybunsoff
    runmybunsoff Posts: 224 Member
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    I know how you feel some days!!! It's ok!! feel free to add me. I actually like to communicate with people via MFp though and vice versa, ;-) not just add people for the sake of adding people, you know!? Good luck!!
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
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    inspiration is different from motivation. motivation comes from within.
  • almostfortysix
    almostfortysix Posts: 69
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    PLease add me. I don't judge or talk politics. We all need motivation or we wouldn't be on here.
  • Angel1066
    Angel1066 Posts: 816 Member
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    Don't be disheartened, there are some great people on here you just haven't met them yet. if you want fell free to add me always open to meeting new friends.
  • avrilamor
    avrilamor Posts: 30
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    It is on you, you make the choices for yourself. Why do you need a cheerleader?


    I don't... You missed the point of the thread. I enjoy FRIENDLY people! I don't need a cheerleader as I am not a FOOTBALL TEAM!

    (see what I mean...)
  • CynGoddess
    CynGoddess Posts: 188 Member
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    I agaree there some just plain mean people on MFP, they are not here to support but to brag. on the other hand. I have awesome and supportive friends and I love them. feel free to add me. I love to help motivate and inspire others and I love people who do the same for me. whether it is encouraging me to do that last set of push ups I don't want to do or helping me not freak out over a scale that won't budge after I have worked so hard. .
  • Mountainbiker2015
    Mountainbiker2015 Posts: 129 Member
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    I have not run into the MEAN people here yet. I have a small group of friends here who cheer me on and who I cheer on daily. I HAD to initially make the final decision to lose this weight, no one could do that for me. Maybe that is what they meant by "It's On You" although I could be wrong. At any rate, you can add me as your friend and I will support you 100%!
  • elfo
    elfo Posts: 353 Member
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    It is on you, you make the choices for yourself. Why do you need a cheerleader?

    No one needs a cheerleader, but it's good to have a support system and a little sympathy.

    I'm sorry you're getting these replies from people. Dieting is not a trivial thing, and the support I've had has really made the difference. Be indifferent to these selfish people and keep looking for the supportive people.
  • kimberlyhaddix
    kimberlyhaddix Posts: 21
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    I know what you mean.!!! Please feel free to add me I love meeting new friends and I try to be encouraging. :smile:
  • avrilamor
    avrilamor Posts: 30
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    Thanks to everyone that wasn't a a**hole! :) I enjoy talking and swapping stories with ppl here. Not looking for a "cheerleader" (smart as*) but I'm just a people person. They're definitely more nice ppl here than not... :)
  • mizzesberry
    mizzesberry Posts: 15 Member
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    Wow, some ppl.. :( SMH. I WILL PROUDLY BE PART OF ANYONES SUPPORT TEAM!!!

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