What pushes you?

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  • what motivates me is everyone here who has a better body then me.

    Wingman, I will trade you any day, but really maybe one day I'll be in a position to motivate you.

    Before and now pics motivate me.

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  • dakitten2
    dakitten2 Posts: 888 Member
    Actually I push myself. I've always been able to do this in lots of things but my love for food always kept me from wanting to go thru the process and then maintain. I generally have tremendous willpower when I start something and see it thru to the finish. But it took me a lot of years to put my health first. I wish I had this willpower when I was much younger.
  • 13inchestogo
    13inchestogo Posts: 296 Member
    Saying I can. Sounds so simple. But I don't realise how powerful telling myself I can is until I'm gasping for breath running farther and farther each day all because I told myself I can. When I am not feeling positive when I am telling myself I can't, music gets me where I want to be. Put on my headphones and BAM I'm wanting to sweat!
  • TrailRunner61
    TrailRunner61 Posts: 2,505 Member
    I'm walking/jogging/biking 1,000 miles this year for a friend's 4 year old son who has an inoperable brain tumor. I asked for donations of 1 cent per mile and so far I've gone about 800 miles and I've lost 41lbs. I'm raising money for St. Judes.. It's all good. :)
  • livelifebreath
    livelifebreath Posts: 14 Member
    My motivation at first was other people, but now its just myself. I feel so much better and stronger. I have worked on a lot with myself and learning to treat myself better.
  • Amy911Gray
    Amy911Gray Posts: 685 Member
    I had been told I couldn't do it. I had been told the time had passed. I had been told I would quit.

    Nope, Nope, Nope...V I C T O R Y!!! :)
  • Duckz1
    Duckz1 Posts: 145 Member
    being voted ugliest girl in my senior high school class. they put the poster right there on my locker. I remember pretending to laugh and then running to the bathroom and crying in a stall for HOURS! I vowed that i would one day be pretty.

    That pretty much pushed me to focus on fitness. Many years...later...my 20 year reunion is coming up.

    Cannot wait.

    It happened a long time ago but it still pushes me.

    That is awful. wtf???????? You're so pretty!
  • RCS17
    RCS17 Posts: 51 Member
    For the ladies:p Smaller clothes; ripped body; to be healthier, ect.
  • DominiqueSmall
    DominiqueSmall Posts: 495 Member
    What motivates me is several things. I want to prove to myself that I can do this. I also refuse to keep lugging this roll around so that motivates me. And I use to be a weight lifter in the Air Force and had a rocking body. I loved how I felt, how my body felt, how I looked in clothes and how I enjoyed lifting. THAT is my motivator. To always compete against myself and see how much more I can do and how much better I can get. I am determined to be the hawtest looking 50 year old around ! But not for others. For me. I want to know that I look the best I can look ... maybe then I can inspire others who thought 'they couldn't do it' to JUST DO IT!
  • clowdusc
    clowdusc Posts: 32
    What motivates me is...
    When I look in the mirror, I'm disgusted.
    When I'm with my boyfriend, I feel like he shouldn't touch me because I'm disgusting.
    I feel disgusting on the inside, because I'm not healthy.
    Having control of myself.
    Where do I see myself on my wedding day? In five years? In front of my kids? - not fat.

    I know I sound really harsh on myself, but I have to be. I have about 20 pounds to go, and I want at least 10 pounds gone by December. Once I give myself slack, I end up going back in the same unhealthy routine, and I just don't feel like I have time for that crap anymore.
  • Every workout and every clean eating day keeps me one day farther from the 175lb unhappy girl I used to be. .I want to be bikini ready all year round so I don't have to work my *kitten* off for 3 months straight at the end of winter just to feel good about wearing a bikini. Also, my man. He strength trains everyday and it motivates me to be able to keep up with him and sometimes kick his butt in a work out. I guess it would also be great to have a great body even during pregnancy. I want to be able to workout throughout my pregnancy. When that happens. which won't be for a while!
  • Kaylee_law_123
    Kaylee_law_123 Posts: 450 Member
    The thought of feeling amazing about myself no matter what I'm wearing, and no matter who is looking ... it's been a long long time since I felt like that!!
  • sarahg148
    sarahg148 Posts: 701 Member
    I'd have to say smaller clothes (size 8 cords in my closet that I WILL FIT INTO by the end of the year!!!!), firm up my lower half so it doesn't jiggle as I run...hate that, and lose/tone enough so that my inner thighs NO LONGER TOUCH. But all of this is useless when PMS hits...so I have to learn to overcome those cravings!!!
  • Dawnhasajeep
    Dawnhasajeep Posts: 180 Member
    I just want to be healthy the weight loss is just an added bonus that comes with it.
  • Actually I push myself. I've always been able to do this in lots of things but my love for food always kept me from wanting to go thru the process and then maintain. I generally have tremendous willpower when I start something and see it thru to the finish. But it took me a lot of years to put my health first. I wish I had this willpower when I was much younger.

    You motivate me, if you can do it, so can I. Thanks. :smile:

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  • kassiebby1124
    kassiebby1124 Posts: 927 Member
    2 things:
    1) I want to be a personal trainer.
    2) I want a tattoo on my rib cage and I want to be able to SHOW it off
  • themommie
    themommie Posts: 5,033 Member
    what motivates me is to stay healthy, before starting MFP I had episodes of falling down for no reason, falling asleep in mid-sentence, was in bed at least 2-3xs a week I felt like I was no longer living but just existing. I was in constant pain and on ALOT of pain killers. Now I feel like I have my life back, I have not fallen sleep in mid=sentence or fell down since starting MFP about 2 yrs ago, this motivates me because I dont want to go back.....oh yeah and cute clothes...LOL
  • blonde71
    blonde71 Posts: 955 Member
    1. Rock a bikini at 40.
    2. Increased strength.

    Number 1 has been accomplished. Number 2 is a perpetual work-in-progress. :bigsmile:
  • AlphamaleBAMF
    AlphamaleBAMF Posts: 373 Member
    So, for my weight loss journey, I wanted to see what everyone's motivation is/was.

    I want to have lots of casual sex with attractive women.
  • heytherestephy
    heytherestephy Posts: 356 Member
    To feel sexy when my boyfriend calls me sexy. So I can look smokin', naked. Clothes, just to be able to shop more places (not all shops carry size 14s, and they're next to impossible to find in long inseams (34")). So I can get back into horse back riding without feeling like I'm squishing the horse. So I can run a full 5k without stopping, not once. So I can feel awesome next summer when we go swimming in Wasaga.
  • bluebird321
    bluebird321 Posts: 733 Member
    Life is just easier without all those extra pounds.
  • Abrowe313
    Abrowe313 Posts: 189 Member
    not getting my die on!.... that and being able to be a better dad for my son, and also to never have to buy clothes from the big and tall store again!!!
  • bushidowoman
    bushidowoman Posts: 1,599 Member
    I don't care what my scale says as long as I am healthy, but I do want to still be on my feet bouncing and ready for more when the guys around me are collapsed in a sweaty heap. :tongue: I train like Sensei is watching!
  • Heyyleigh
    Heyyleigh Posts: 268 Member
    To feel great in clothes, to not have the stomach either coming over the front or poking out the sides, I am not on a diet- I tell people this is the way I eat... they should try it! Eating clean, and oh my excercise! LOVE IT! 7 days a week.
    I love the way my thinking has changed... simple stuff I suppose, but the man reason.................all for me! no one else. I want to fit and fabulous! I want to be the lean girl!
  • Nikki31104
    Nikki31104 Posts: 816 Member
    What IS motivating me are clothes. Really cute, small, clothes. Am I going crazy?! I want to loose weight for clothes?!

    I think clothes motivate me a little too. I see all these cute clothes in what I call "model sizes". The bigger the clothes get the older they get. Pretty soon all I find is ugly sweaters with Christmas Trees on them. Not exactly what I want to wear at 34. Another odd motivator for me is my rings. I have a beautiful Mother's ring and a beautiful Valentine's day ring that I got from my honey. I can't fit into either of them. I have worn rings since I was 15 and all of a sudden my fingers look like fat little sausages and the rings won't fit. :frown:
  • ClassicPearl
    ClassicPearl Posts: 141 Member
    To look strong on the outside which reflects how strong I am on in the inside.

    Cute clothes! Those really short dresses you see at the clubs, I just want to wear it once even if I feel naked lol.

    Accomplishing my goals! :)
  • Nikki31104
    Nikki31104 Posts: 816 Member

    And, I really want to be that crazy old lady who goes to the gym and works out, putting all the young ones to shame. :wink:

    :smile: :smile: :smile:
  • 1) To become an actress
    2) To be a good role model to my cousin's 5-year-old daughter
    3) To one day when I want to get pregnant my weight won't be an issue
  • Nikki31104
    Nikki31104 Posts: 816 Member
    being voted ugliest girl in my senior high school class. they put the poster right there on my locker. I remember pretending to laugh and then running to the bathroom and crying in a stall for HOURS! I vowed that i would one day be pretty.


    What is wrong with people???????
    :angry:
  • Nikki31104
    Nikki31104 Posts: 816 Member
    what motivates me is to stay healthy, before starting MFP I had episodes of falling down for no reason, falling asleep in mid-sentence, was in bed at least 2-3xs a week I felt like I was no longer living but just existing. I was in constant pain and on ALOT of pain killers. Now I feel like I have my life back, I have not fallen sleep in mid=sentence or fell down since starting MFP about 2 yrs ago, this motivates me because I dont want to go back.....oh yeah and cute clothes...LOL

    CONGRATUATIONS on your 105 pound weight loss. That is AMAZING!!!!