LADIES: Question about GYN procedures

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  • readsalot68
    readsalot68 Posts: 25 Member
    Hello,
    I had an abdominal hysterectomy about 3 yrs ago now. I had fibroids all over and in my uterus. I still have my ovaries and cervix. No medical issues since. I must say that not having a period has been great.


    But definitely do your research and do what's best for your situation.
  • jeanzbeanz
    jeanzbeanz Posts: 64
    Let me just say, I am not advocating hysterectomy in any way. It's just my personal story. It worked for me. My one, little pink ovary-that-could has been pluggin away for almost 7 years post-op. I have a little smiley-face bikini line scar that healed and faded nicely.

    I agree with everyone else here who says research, research, research. It's a very personal, hard decision. You're young age makes it even tougher.
  • supermodelchic
    supermodelchic Posts: 550 Member
    I had tubal ligation 11 years ago. I have normal periods. I have friends that had there Uterus removed due to heavy bleeding ect... no more periods for them no more cramping and bleeding. But most don't realize that by having your Uterus removed you can no longer have those deep uterine orgasams . You can still get off but the one bodypart is missing so it will be different for you . Best wishes for you.
  • alfpalmer
    alfpalmer Posts: 150 Member
    Ablations and tubals may adjust your periods (worse or better) but won't take them away.

    Not always - i had a uterine ablation almost 4 years ago and haven't had a period since.
    Best invention since the weed eater. I could not be happier.
  • breezymom81
    breezymom81 Posts: 499 Member
    Let me just say, I am not advocating hysterectomy in any way. It's just my personal story. It worked for me. My one, little pink ovary-that-could has been pluggin away for almost 7 years post-op. I have a little smiley-face bikini line scar that healed and faded nicely.

    I agree with everyone else here who says research, research, research. It's a very personal, hard decision. You're young age makes it even tougher.


    My age acctually is not an issue, both my children have chronic illness that is very likely genetic, as I would never put a child through what my daughter goes through knowingly ( personal choice - not for all) I am dead set on the NO MORE children. I am leanign towards a hysterectomy at this time, guess I will have to wait for the dr to call me back....
  • breezymom81
    breezymom81 Posts: 499 Member
    Not always - i had a uterine ablation almost 4 years ago and haven't had a period since.
    Best invention since the weed eater. I could not be happier.


    LOL

    :laugh:
  • jlapey
    jlapey Posts: 1,850 Member
    I had tubal ligation 11 years ago. I have normal periods. I have friends that had there Uterus removed due to heavy bleeding ect... no more periods for them no more cramping and bleeding. But most don't realize that by having your Uterus removed you can no longer have those deep uterine orgasams . You can still get off but the one bodypart is missing so it will be different for you . Best wishes for you.

    I can't say I've noticed much of a difference (other than the absence of pain) in regards to sexual enjoyment. Compare how often you have those types of orgasms to how often you are doubled over in pain.
  • breezymom81
    breezymom81 Posts: 499 Member
    I had tubal ligation 11 years ago. I have normal periods. I have friends that had there Uterus removed due to heavy bleeding ect... no more periods for them no more cramping and bleeding. But most don't realize that by having your Uterus removed you can no longer have those deep uterine orgasams . You can still get off but the one bodypart is missing so it will be different for you . Best wishes for you.

    I had considered this, but to counter act it after one of those lovelies I end up with cramps for hours....to the point sometimes I will fight the beauty...but I thought I was the only person who had considered this aspect
  • breezymom81
    breezymom81 Posts: 499 Member
    I had tubal ligation 11 years ago. I have normal periods. I have friends that had there Uterus removed due to heavy bleeding ect... no more periods for them no more cramping and bleeding. But most don't realize that by having your Uterus removed you can no longer have those deep uterine orgasams . You can still get off but the one bodypart is missing so it will be different for you . Best wishes for you.

    I can't say I've noticed much of a difference (other than the absence of pain) in regards to sexual enjoyment. Compare how often you have those types of orgasms to how often you are doubled over in pain.

    That is my thought on this, plsu the pain afterwards, makes me not once sex and let me tell you - 3 weeks of severe cramps will KILL a girls sex life!!!!
  • Sharon_73
    Sharon_73 Posts: 189 Member
    I had a hysterectomy due to cancer 2 yrs ago at the age of 36. My dr was going to do ablation (however you spell it) becuase of heavy periods and clotting but he did a biospy during my pap which came back cancer. The hysterectomy was the BEST thing ever as far as not having to deal with all that. I can not take hormones due to the type of cancer I had. THey got all the cancer and I am loving not having my friend each month. I was cut pretty big due to the size of my uterous. I have had very little menopausal symptoms some hot flashes that were not bad at all.

    This is almost identical to me. My surgery was January, 2011. Cancer free now!
    It was emotionally difficult for me at first to know what needed to be done but now I am glad. However, I would not opt for a hysterectomy unles it was the only solution but that is only my opinion. You have to do what is right for you. Good luck
  • jeanzbeanz
    jeanzbeanz Posts: 64
    No difference in sex life here. If anything, not having massive amounts of blood and clots falling out me, being a massive b*tch due to incredible cramping, exhausted from blood loss, and being 'out of commission' for a week to ten days out of every month has made our sex life and LOVE life even better.

    If I do say so myself - we don't do too bad for old folks pushing 50- having been married 25 years.

    TMI and FYI.

    For what it's worth.

    :-)
  • leeanneowens
    leeanneowens Posts: 319 Member
    I had a tubal ligation after my third child. MY periods were extremely heavy afterward.
  • jeanzbeanz
    jeanzbeanz Posts: 64
    Let me just say, I am not advocating hysterectomy in any way. It's just my personal story. It worked for me. My one, little pink ovary-that-could has been pluggin away for almost 7 years post-op. I have a little smiley-face bikini line scar that healed and faded nicely.

    I agree with everyone else here who says research, research, research. It's a very personal, hard decision. You're young age makes it even tougher.


    My age acctually is not an issue, both my children have chronic illness that is very likely genetic, as I would never put a child through what my daughter goes through knowingly ( personal choice - not for all) I am dead set on the NO MORE children. I am leanign towards a hysterectomy at this time, guess I will have to wait for the dr to call me back....

    Similar circumstances here. My second child is autistic and has Turner's Syndrome (genetic disorder). I was pregnant with my third when my second was diagnosed. I chose to continue on with the pregnancy knowing he could have problems (he's 17 and only issue is being a teenager!). But, I knew for a fact I didn't want any more kids because of my daughter's diagnosis.
  • hjleavitt
    hjleavitt Posts: 1
    I would opt for the hysterectomy. The surgery is much less invasive that in the past (they do it laparascopically) and recovery is better. The chances of the ablation stopping the bleeding is not incredibly high. If you are done having children, then the hysterectomy is the way to go.
  • briebear77
    briebear77 Posts: 253 Member
    I don't really know anything about it but based on these replies I'd get my tank yanked if I were you!
  • Maryaly40
    Maryaly40 Posts: 551 Member
    hysterectomy...he left my ovary and cervix. Best thing I ever did for myself (other than quitting smoking and losing weight)
  • cobrien830
    cobrien830 Posts: 16
    I had the Ablation 3 years ago and have not had a period since. I have recommended it to 5 friends and no one regrets having it done!
  • supertracylynn
    supertracylynn Posts: 1,338 Member
    If your periods are heavy and painful, get the hysterectomy NOW.
  • family_girl2626
    family_girl2626 Posts: 46
    I am an LPN in an obs/gyne clinic here in Canada and am currently going thru some of this myself. As easy as the hysterectomy would be to just get it all done and over with you need to keep in mind years down the road. How old are you? If you take out the uterus too soon then later on in life you may have some issues with prolapses. The uterus does keep things in place. Something to consider!!! Hope it helped and didn't make your decision harder.
  • Zumbagurl64
    Zumbagurl64 Posts: 155 Member
    I was having cramps, ongoing bleeding discharge etc...... I opted for the ablation, Oct 2010, havent had a period since, although I still have some of the monthly symptoms (an occasional migraine, food cravings)..... but have been totally happy/satisfied with it! good luck to you!
  • NHmomtotwo
    NHmomtotwo Posts: 5 Member
    I had ablation 2 years ago and it never worked. After many tests I found out I have endometrial hyperplasia. Super heavy periods and in less than 2weeks I will be having a hysterectomy. The cells I have will most likely turn cancerous so it's really a no brainer.cannot wait to be period and cramp free once and for all. Good luck!
  • Maryaly40
    Maryaly40 Posts: 551 Member
    BTW...I have more intense orgasms now :happy: :tongue:
  • 1PoisonIvy
    1PoisonIvy Posts: 933 Member
    I have had all three, and here is my opinion.

    A tubal made my periods worse for 17 years
    An ablation was only a temporary fix
    And a hysterectomy was something I wish I would have done instead of the tubal.

    My ovaries were removed, and I where a patch, so I don't have any mood swings, or hot flashes, again, I wish I would have had my hysterectomy 17 years ago

    Good Luck,
    Ivy
  • pbamerson
    pbamerson Posts: 17 Member
    I had a vaginal hysterectomy and have nooo regrets. The surgery was fast, I only had one tiny stitch in my belly button and I recovered quickly.

    If I may ask a super personal question, and if you are willing to answer...has it caused any issues in bed? We have a great sex life and I worry that the way I work will change.

    Had a hysterectomy at age 28 -- NO REGRETS!! "Relations" improved immensly!!
  • mommyrox05
    mommyrox05 Posts: 238
    I had a tubal ligation almost a year ago, but for diffrent reasons than why you are considering. I feel great. Periods haven't changed much. I would say that if you have heavy aweful periods and you gyn has suggested hysterectomy-get it now and be pain free! <3
  • xTattooedDollx
    xTattooedDollx Posts: 426 Member
    Novasure/Thermachoice ablations are just quick and easy. If you get a hystetectomy make sure go home the same its robotic. You get to go home the same day and you will feel better right away. If cancer runs
    in the family would suggest removing the ovaries. If your dr does not do robotic hysterectomies i suggest finding one who does.
  • jlapey
    jlapey Posts: 1,850 Member
    I would opt for the hysterectomy. The surgery is much less invasive that in the past (they do it laparascopically) and recovery is better. The chances of the ablation stopping the bleeding is not incredibly high. If you are done having children, then the hysterectomy is the way to go.

    Unless like mine, your uterus has become too large to be removed laparoscopically or vaginally. Had mine abdominally. Now have a 6-inch scar across my lower abdomen, but it was done below the bikini line so no one sees it except me, my partner and my doc.

    Also, I'm not sure what the reason for your surgery is, but if it's something like fibroids or endometriosis you should also have your cervix removed as it is made of the same tissue as your uterus and therefore prone to the same ailments. Keep your ovaries if at all possible.
  • _CowgirlUp_
    _CowgirlUp_ Posts: 585 Member
    I had a vaginal hysterectomy and have nooo regrets. The surgery was fast, I only had one tiny stitch in my belly button and I recovered quickly.

    If I may ask a super personal question, and if you are willing to answer...has it caused any issues in bed? We have a great sex life and I worry that the way I work will change.

    ^^ This. I had the same due to severe, severe endometriosis and have not regretted it for one day. My mom had ovarian cancer though, so they took everything, ovaries and all. It took a few months to get the right hormone replacement cocktail for me but once we did, the bedroom has been as hot as ever! :love:
  • BR3ANDA
    BR3ANDA Posts: 622 Member
    I had the ablation done 4 years ago, it was great at first, but now my periods are back to a full super heavy flow with major cramps again. I wont do it again because the procedure is excruciatingly painful. I'm opting for partial hysterectomy next, although I'm hoping that with my weight loss and nutritional change that some of my problems will lighten up.
  • jeanzbeanz
    jeanzbeanz Posts: 64
    Prolapse can be an issue once the uterus is removed. Research that as well. I talked about this with my GYN and that's part of the reason I am on this website - to avoid it, he suggested reducing my weight and exercising (surprise) - especially keeping the abdominal muscles strong. And, eat more fiber to reduce the chance of straining during a BM. Ack! TMI again!

    Hmmm... exercise and eating right seem to be the answer to everything.

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