Unsupportive friend... HELP!

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  • CountessKitteh
    CountessKitteh Posts: 1,505 Member
    Desterknee wrote: »
    This is really upsetting and I don't know what to do.

    So my cat is really not supportive of my weight-loss. She was the last one I expected to act this way. She used to come over to me, hop on my belly, massage my fat, purr, and snuggle. This morning she comes over, puts a paw on my belly, gives me stank-eye and walks away. We barely hang out anymore.

    You know what else? When I am clearing a path to do walking lunges she ALWAYS lays down right in the middle of it. And when I put my exercise mat on the floor she sits on it. When I get into push up position, she goes under my belly and gets in my way. SHE IS TRYING TO SABOTAGE ME! Why would she do that?

    Do you think my weight loss is making her insecure? I don't understand why she would do this to me. I think I need to confront her but I'm not sure if I'm overreacting.

    HELP!!

    I think you're my favorite.
  • CSARdiver
    CSARdiver Posts: 6,252 Member
    Think this may the origin story of "skin the cat".
  • LiftingRiot
    LiftingRiot Posts: 6,946 Member
    Sit down with the cat and have a talk with it. Don't throw away that beautiful relationship
  • MommysLittleMeatball
    MommysLittleMeatball Posts: 2,064 Member
    My dogs do the same thing! My alarm goes off at 5am to go run and they just lay on me and snuggle. Or when I'm trying to stretch they lay on my mat or stick their big cute noses in my face.
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  • Spnneil06
    Spnneil06 Posts: 18,745 Member
    My cat keeps bringing me mice, I fear she thinks I am becoming too thin and wants to force feed me.
  • Cindy4FunFit
    Cindy4FunFit Posts: 2,732 Member
    Either improve your communication & relationship with the cat, or take your meds:

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