"You have lost SO much weight"....

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  • tryinghard71
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    What is a Mil?

    Mother In Law. :)

    Wow, I feel dumb. Thanks! LOL
  • DivineRED1
    DivineRED1 Posts: 134 Member
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    Yea, that must totally suck to have someone compliment you on your progress many times over. Man, people are so rude.

    Honestly, two women in my office has lost some weight. Everyone goes on and on about it, it's annoying. I'm trying to lose weight but I really dread when it becomes really noticeable and that constant attention about my body that follows weight loss. I find it embarrassing. Occasionally it's fine but everyday or all the time, makes me uncomfortable. I understand that everyone wants to celebrate someone's success but constant gushing is too much.

    When I saw my grandfather last thanksgiving (who I haven't seen in years and have never been close to) saw me he just said "Hi. Good to see you. Stephanie looks so good lately, doesn't she? Tiny little thing." (My SIL, she's lost some weight a few years ago and kept it off.) I found it to be a dig. Like that was literally the extent of our conversation.