Question for the ladies

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  • Aloetheresophie
    Aloetheresophie Posts: 3
    haha i love it!!! do it :D
  • weighlossforbaby
    weighlossforbaby Posts: 847 Member
    It shows she is interested in you from glancing at you occasionally so just go up to her and carry on a light conversation with her. She's probably to shy to come up to you.
  • Molly_Maguire
    Molly_Maguire Posts: 1,103 Member
    Girls love sincerity and straightforwardness, and it sounds like you've got both those down, if you approach her like that. Go for it!
  • Jennaissance
    Jennaissance Posts: 212
    I say do it but it wouldn't hurt to ask around first to make sure she's single. It would also be great if you could catch her in the parking lot pre-workout. I hate talking to people at the gym while I wipe my face with a towel. Post shower is good too.
  • kiwigal41
    kiwigal41 Posts: 1,059
    i would soooo respond positively to that......be confident, jump in and just do it.....you are right, you will regret it if you don't say something.....if you don't ask, you don't get.....the worst she could do is tell you no.....but if she is single, i doubt she will.....:)....good luck.....maybe you could let us all know how you get on.....we're cheering for ya!!!!:)
  • SMJ1987
    SMJ1987 Posts: 368
    Do it, 100%. At the very least she will probably be flattered and you will make her day. At least that's how I feel when someone asks me out!
  • bennysammysofie
    bennysammysofie Posts: 331
    Please dont slip and say this : "I generally prefer to get to know someone better before they see me covered in sweat, but I'd love to get to know you in a more appropriate setting. How about we go shower together sometime?"
  • Jennaissance
    Jennaissance Posts: 212
    Do it, 100%. At the very least she will probably be flattered and you will make her day. At least that's how I feel when someone asks me out!

    Yes, true. Either way you will make her day.
  • shannajojo
    shannajojo Posts: 192 Member
    I agree, what is there to lose?
  • kimosabe1
    kimosabe1 Posts: 2,467 Member
    oooh! You can always start talking and ask if she wants to join you in the gym. Yeah, you're the man, so make the first move for sure....Next time you catch her looking, SMILE! It works every time..... It did for me and a year later, I got married.....
  • redraidergirl2009
    redraidergirl2009 Posts: 2,560 Member
    ugh nothing creeps me out than dudes thinking the gym is a place to pick up women. It's gross
  • kbirdwell08
    kbirdwell08 Posts: 22 Member
    As long as you keep it light and don't seem like you're crowding her like a creeper, I don't see why not!
    If she says no (more fool her!), then just say "Okay, couldn't hurt to try :smile: " and go back to your work out. Try some flexing to make her quibbly, she might change her mind :wink:

    Let us know how it goes!


    Yes go for it!!
  • bennysammysofie
    bennysammysofie Posts: 331
    I agree, what is there to lose?

    Have you never been a man before?!?! :)
    Nothing to lose besides self-dignity, respect, confidence, and a place to workout. If she shut him down he could never workout there again. Just the rules! :)
  • foxfirekenzie
    foxfirekenzie Posts: 244 Member
    I hate pick up lines more than any words could ever express!
    Just talk to her like a normal human being, putting aside the sexual references for at least the first conversation :)
    I would for sure say go for it though, keeping the cheesy pick up line buried.
  • ldholcombe
    ldholcombe Posts: 97 Member
    I hate pick up lines more than any words could ever express!
    Just talk to her like a normal human being, putting aside the sexual references for at least the first conversation :)
    I would for sure say go for it though, keeping the cheesy pick up line buried.
    Agreed, pick up lines are annoying and weird. They are for losers.
  • Chelsrf
    Chelsrf Posts: 194 Member
    Go for it!
  • Dub_D
    Dub_D Posts: 1,760 Member
    Please don't say that to her. lol

    Definitely approach her, but don't try so hard. Just talk to her casually, ask her about herself, find out if she is single and then ask her out.
  • CassieLyle
    CassieLyle Posts: 50
    Go for it!!!!

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