Did you marry your first love from high school or before

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  • km202
    km202 Posts: 112
    My husband and I started dating when we were 14. We dated 4 years. Got engaged. We were engaged 4 years. Got married. Been married 1 1/2 years and plan to be forever! :D
  • auroranflash
    auroranflash Posts: 3,569 Member
    Nope!
  • honestykay
    honestykay Posts: 32 Member
    I met my husband at age 14. He was dating my bestfriends sister. We started dating at 16 for 4 months. We broke up and then he showed up at my door 9 months later. We dated 5 1/2 years had 2 kids. We broke up again for 9 months again. We been back together for 4 years and married about an year and 1/2. So the last 12 years have been hard and so worth it.
  • 388gigi
    388gigi Posts: 485 Member
    I'm engaged to my high school sweet heart :-)

    We had a 4 year break though....hahaha
  • HeatherPH
    HeatherPH Posts: 125 Member
    I met my husband at 16, when I was in high school but he was at uni (he was 21). Met him at our karate class :) We've been together 13 years now and married for 8 years this coming Monday!
  • imchicbad
    imchicbad Posts: 1,650 Member
    I had 2 kids from him and we were together from 13 years old till i was - 20 years old. No I did not marry him THANK YOU JESUS!
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  • missigus
    missigus Posts: 207 Member
    Yes. I met him at age 14. Dated in High school. He moved. Got back together in College. Got married after getting our college degrees at 22. We have been married 21 years now but have known each other for 29 years. I've known him for more than half my life now. Crazy!
  • 6swolcott
    6swolcott Posts: 38 Member
    this October i will be married 30 years to my bff, my first love.
  • PetulantOne
    PetulantOne Posts: 2,131 Member
    Yes! But we've only been together a year and a half now. I dated him my freshman year. I moved, we broke up, and I didn't talk to him for about thirteen years. He found me on FB, and we got back together. Best thing I've ever gotten from facebook. :heart:
  • mellynat
    mellynat Posts: 345 Member
    Yes, we became neighbors when I was about 11years old. He was 2 years older then me. We had our innocent fun as kids. Became an "official" couple when I was 17. He proposed a year later.
    5.5 years later still going strong. Love him more each day. We are expecting our 3rd baby. :)
  • coachblt
    coachblt Posts: 1,090
    I loved my high school sweetheart enough to leave her. It was best for both of us.

    I married but was in love with idea of marrying more than being in love with her. It wasn't until we divorced and I met another years later that I understood what love really meant. I lost that one too because of a job...ARGH!

    The way I see it, I'm not suppose to be married, which is sad when you think about it. Oh well, that's my story and I'm sticking to it!
  • Finigan84
    Finigan84 Posts: 85
    Yes. We met at 15, had a baby at 22, got married at 25 (he was 26). We have been together for 12 years, married for 2 and a half. Our wedding was on the 10th anniversary of the first time he told me he loved me. Love him to pieces!!!
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    I'm pretty sure if I'd married my first boyfriend, I'd be sitting on death row now for having murdered him and his mother. Think Howard Wolowitz's mother.... x 10,000.
  • Frozen300
    Frozen300 Posts: 223 Member
    yep, then divorced @ 30, *kitten* happens
  • Sailatsorf
    Sailatsorf Posts: 161 Member
    Marrying my high school sweetheart in two years. We were together for about a year, broke up for four years, grew into the people we needed to be, and got back together a year ago this coming Saturday. :) Even though we're totally meant to be together, the long breakup gave us time to sort out the things that we didn't like about ourselves and the things that made our relationship not work before. It amazes me how much we've both grown and how ready we are for this now.
  • tomomatic
    tomomatic Posts: 1,794 Member
    Nope. But I met my wife in college when we were 20. Got engaged at 23. Married at 24. and we've had two kids since. It's been awesome.

    The girl who I had a crush on in highschool friend zoned me because my sister didn't like her. We were best friends for a long time. She's now my daughter's pediatrician and my wife kinda hated her. I'm kinda hoping that I get to be godfather to their first baby.
  • jflint86
    jflint86 Posts: 74 Member
    Yep! Been together for 9 years. Married each other at 19, married for 6 years now :)
  • VelociMama
    VelociMama Posts: 3,119 Member
    My high school sweetheart turned out to be a self-centered turdmonkey. I didn't even meet my husband until my second year of grad school.
  • MelisRunning
    MelisRunning Posts: 819 Member
    Met the first day of 8th grade (got sent to the principals office :). Dated nine years and have been very happily married almost 28 years now:smile:
  • Derpina7
    Derpina7 Posts: 552 Member
    No - thank goodness!!
  • Jellyphant
    Jellyphant Posts: 1,400 Member
    Sure did! Gonna be 8 years this October; 2 married. <3
  • kr1stadee
    kr1stadee Posts: 1,774 Member
    I started dating him before 12th grade. Tomorrow is 10 years since he asked me out!
    We're married for 4 years and have 2 children!
  • Seriousmom3
    Seriousmom3 Posts: 164
    NO, boy did I dodge a bullet on that one. He ended up a TOTAL loser. Going to prison, the whole nine yards...sheesh.
  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
    I met my husband when we were 12. I refused to date him when we were kids, my mom always said there are boys you date and. It's you marry and that you don't wan to ruin the relationship with the ones you'd marry by dating them in your adolescents. He was my best friend and we frequently kissed but never dated. When we were 24 we found ourselves reunited, moved in together at 26, married at 29, we have a beautiful 3 year old.
  • honeysprinkles
    honeysprinkles Posts: 1,757 Member
    We're not married yet and we're still young, but we're engaged. Started dating when I was 14 (he was 15), I'm 20 now. We'll be getting married when we're done with college (2 years to go).
  • LucilleHighball
    LucilleHighball Posts: 107 Member
    I met my husband in 6th grade. We started dating after high school. We have been together for 10 years, and we got married in January of this year. Tomorrow we are going on our honeymoon (finally).
  • HypersonicFitNess
    HypersonicFitNess Posts: 1,219 Member
    No, we met when I was 20 (he was 29), 42 days later we got married. We're celebrating our 23rd this year and we love each other more than ever before. We're best friends and lovers; we enjoy a lot of the same things, but we also have hobbies that are different. <3<3<3 One child who's grown; we're empty-nesters. :)
  • Rebekah718
    Rebekah718 Posts: 134 Member
    If so are you still together. How many years?
    Yes we have been married now for 14 years it hasn't always been easy we got married one month after I graduated it probably would of been easier if we both would of grown up before hand but we just put God first and not let the word divorce enter our vocabulary.
  • shaleasymphony
    shaleasymphony Posts: 172 Member
    lol i know it sounds like something out of a movie, but i married my best friend.

    we met when we were in 7th grade and became instant best friends. dated guys through the years and had breakups and he was always there.
    then my sophmore year i started dating a guy who was a year older. we dated until his senior year and were engaged. he went to the marines and came back a totally different person that i didn't want to be with anymore. we broke up and i was heartbroken over it.

    once again chris was there for me. the more he was there for me the more i realized i was starting to like-like him even more. finally after a few weeks of debating, i just went with my gut and asked him out. he said yes of course. (later i found out he liked me since he met me!)

    here we are now, we are married, have a beautiful little girl that just turned 3, and this december we will have been married for 4 years. and he is STILL my best friend♥
  • OnionMomma
    OnionMomma Posts: 938 Member
    We met when I was a freshmen and he was a Junior in high school. Didn't start dating until the end of my Junior year (he was out of high school then). I asked him out first.

    We dated 4 years, got married in 1998 and we are still together and have just one son. :heart:

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