Men: Do you prefer soft or firm lol

Jonesie86
Jonesie86 Posts: 446 Member
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I want to get some men to weigh in on this subject (ladies, you're more than welcome also): Do men prefer a woman who has thighs that are very firm and toned, or to be a bit on the softer side?? I'm in pretty good shape, but the back of my thighs are the least tone part of my body, I told a guy friend I need to firm em up and he about had a fit! lol, he said "a girls thighs need to give a little and not be overly tone".....survey says???
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  • djsupreme6
    djsupreme6 Posts: 1,210 Member
    both are good..but you look amazing already
  • ThustonHowell
    ThustonHowell Posts: 43
    Guy friend is right, or you're doing it wrong.
  • erickirb
    erickirb Posts: 12,294 Member
    Depends on the guy you ask. Men have differing tastes, some like short some like tall, some like fit, some like chubby and some like it all.

    That said, strive for the body you want to achieve and there will be men that find it attractive.

    For survey purposes.... If she is with me and willing to get naked, who cares.
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    Survey says: Women should have the bodies that make them feel sexy and confident. If they are, men gloss over details.
  • MrsNelson0904
    MrsNelson0904 Posts: 122 Member
    I personally think we women need to be a little softer. Toned is great but I don't find rock hard very attractive. My aunt is a personal trainer and fitness competitor and although she is gorgeous! she's so tight and toned that it almost HURTS to hug her! lol
  • guapogringo
    guapogringo Posts: 201
    I like firmly tones with a touch of softness but it really depends on the lady. This wouldn't be the deciding factor in the least. Personality trumps all.
  • _the_feniks_
    _the_feniks_ Posts: 3,412 Member
    ...he said "a girls thighs need to give a little and not be overly tone"...

    :indifferent: I'm guessing he failed sex-ed.
  • Sailatsorf
    Sailatsorf Posts: 161 Member
    Survey says: Women should have the bodies that make them feel sexy and confident. If they are, men gloss over details.

    What she said. It's all about attitude!
  • roachhaley
    roachhaley Posts: 978 Member
    I doubt any man's deal breaker will be slightly flabby thighs.

    If so, they have some self evaluating to do.
  • zombie_porno
    zombie_porno Posts: 199 Member
    Who cares what they think? Do what makes you happiest & the right person will love you for exactly who you are. That being said, there is no generalized opinion, because all people have different opinions. Some like thick, soft, curvy. Some like tiny & bony. Some like firm & toned. Which is exactly why you should only please yourself ;)
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
    depends on the woman
  • Sick_Beard
    Sick_Beard Posts: 407 Member
    Sorry but for a guy the last thing he notices is your thighs when completely naked....I can't even remember what my ex's thighs looked or felt like.
  • northernbeaver
    northernbeaver Posts: 29
    I think you have to be happy with your body. so its not what we (men) prefer. its you that has to be happy with it. if you look at your legs and want them toned up then tone them up. When you are happy with your body, your mind, your soul. then the right man will come along and love it to. because the one thing that turns a man on more then any specific type of body is confidence. being sexy is 90% mental and 10% physical.
  • jeddy3mcc
    jeddy3mcc Posts: 177 Member
    No guy cares. as longs as they are wrapped around your man he shouldn't care, and if he really cares that you are tight everywhere and a little less tight in your thighs, he needs to be slapped.

    If I had a woman who was tight everywhere and a little less tight in her thighs, she wouldn't even have the opportunity to put up posts in the forum.

    IJS
  • HMD7703
    HMD7703 Posts: 761 Member
    Even a chubby girl's flabby thighs will feel toned while on her back with her knees pressed against her chest.

    If you are in a position to touch and see the back of her naked thighs, does it even matter at that point?
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    While some women believe men to be simple and all similar in their thought process....

    I have been very delighted to see in my life that all types of men like all types of women.
    Some men like soft women. Some men like firm women.
    See, they're all different! Like, indiviual!


    IT'S SO AWESOME!
  • _JR_
    _JR_ Posts: 830 Member
    I don't usually decide until they're wrapped around me. :wink:
  • ironanimal
    ironanimal Posts: 5,922 Member
    Even a chubby girl's flabby thighs will feel toned while on her back with her knees pressed against her chest.

    If you are in a position to touch and see the back of her naked thighs, does it even matter at that point?
    LMAO. This is the truth.
  • peuglow
    peuglow Posts: 684 Member
    Attractive is attractive. Firm or soft, if a woman has it going, I'm in.

    That being said, I'm a happily married man so really, I'm out lol
  • Iceman1800
    Iceman1800 Posts: 476
    Doesn't matter to me. I'm just happy to be with a naked woman :)
  • katamus
    katamus Posts: 2,363 Member
    Even a chubby girl's flabby thighs will feel toned while on her back with her knees pressed against her chest.

    If you are in a position to touch and see the back of her naked thighs, does it even matter at that point?

    Best. Response. Ever. :drinker:
  • thatguynick
    thatguynick Posts: 106 Member
    To me, soft thighs are more sensual than toned.
  • shimewazaMan
    shimewazaMan Posts: 413
    Survey says: Women should have the bodies that make them feel sexy and confident. If they are, men gloss over details.

    Perfectly said!!!! :o)
  • shimewazaMan
    shimewazaMan Posts: 413
    Even a chubby girl's flabby thighs will feel toned while on her back with her knees pressed against her chest.

    If you are in a position to touch and see the back of her naked thighs, does it even matter at that point?

    I just about spit Diet Coke all over my laptop! :o)
  • nikic50
    nikic50 Posts: 209
    Depends on the guy you ask. Men have differing tastes, some like short some like tall, some like fit, some like chubby and some like it all.

    That said, strive for the body you want to achieve and there will be men that find it attractive.

    For survey purposes.... If she is with me and willing to get naked, who cares.
    Is it really that easy???? I've been working so hard & it's THAT easy!??!? ;)
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    Survey says: Women should have the bodies that make them feel sexy and confident. If they are, men gloss over details.

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  • iamshells
    iamshells Posts: 46 Member
    try doing some stiff legs....those will def get those hamstrings toned and firm...i dont really care if its firm or toned....
  • shimewazaMan
    shimewazaMan Posts: 413
    Depends on the guy you ask. Men have differing tastes, some like short some like tall, some like fit, some like chubby and some like it all.

    That said, strive for the body you want to achieve and there will be men that find it attractive.

    For survey purposes.... If she is with me and willing to get naked, who cares.
    Is it really that easy???? I've been working so hard & it's THAT easy!??!? ;)

    Yep! Guys are far easier to please than women realize!
  • HeidiMightyRawr
    HeidiMightyRawr Posts: 3,343 Member
    Boyfriend says: He doesn't mind either way, but he prefers toned.
  • cheerforsteelers
    cheerforsteelers Posts: 686 Member
    I've had a guy comment saying he thought my thighs were firm. Personally I don't completely agree, but I don't have a problem with them...no one else has either. ;)

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