What do you look for in a partner?

deejayblitz
deejayblitz Posts: 38 Member
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What characteristics do you look for in a partner?
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  • SeaRunner26
    SeaRunner26 Posts: 5,143 Member
    breathing
  • deejayblitz
    deejayblitz Posts: 38 Member
    So anything goes as long as their breathing?
  • SeaRunner26
    SeaRunner26 Posts: 5,143 Member
    No, just being cute. I suppose I look for someone with a similar personality. Of course, I can't say that looks don't factor in.
  • Bex2Bslim
    Bex2Bslim Posts: 1,092
    I'm attracted to a nice smile, after that as long as we click then that's all I ask for.
  • Sick_Beard
    Sick_Beard Posts: 407 Member
    - Friendship
    - Sexual compatibility
    - Communication
    - Ambition
    - Compassion
    - Strong personality and self worth (Can't date woman with a low self esteem)
  • BelindaDuvessa
    BelindaDuvessa Posts: 1,014 Member
    Someone who can put up with me. No, seriously. I am a very difficult person to live with. Thankfully, I don't have to go looking for Mr. Right-For-Me. I've been with him for 8 years and have 3 awesome kiddos with another on the way.
  • simplythefreakingbest
    simplythefreakingbest Posts: 109
    1.beard 2. tattoos 3. nice shoes 4. funny 5. intelligence :)
  • SeaRunner26
    SeaRunner26 Posts: 5,143 Member
    1.beard 2. tattoos 3. nice shoes 4. funny 5. intelligence :)

    1. Got it.
    2. Can get it.
    3. Twenty-five or so pairs.
    4. A man walks into a bar...
    5. The bar is made of atoms, which are in turn made of protons, neutrons, and electrons, which are in turn made of quarks.
  • Slimat30
    Slimat30 Posts: 142
    Humour
    Creativity
    Sexual compatibility
    Intelligence
    Passion
  • yoyogirl68
    yoyogirl68 Posts: 38
    Honest
    Faithful
    Funny
    "feels good" to be around them
  • StillChangingAmie
    StillChangingAmie Posts: 46
    Someone I feel comfortable joking around with,
    I like bookworms. Someone who gets really attached to the characters like I do :]
    Someone who has realized it's better to have 2 or 3 close friends than fifty acquaintances
    No smokers
    And, really, but must love dogs :]
  • simplythefreakingbest
    simplythefreakingbest Posts: 109
    haha searunner26 most people I know only get to atoms and protons !! ;)
  • kraebear
    kraebear Posts: 66
    Physically pretty hair, big beautiful eyes, facial hair (unless its like a chin strap.. ew) tattoos.

    I'm attracted to men that are funny and caring. A man who believes his woman is the only one in the world. Hardworking. A man that has no problem painting tiny fingernails and toes.

    Luckily I have this man already.
  • SeaRunner26
    SeaRunner26 Posts: 5,143 Member
    haha searunner26 most people I know only get to atoms and protons !! ;)

    LOL. The sad thing is I know the six flavors of quarks too: up, down, top, bottom, strange, and charmed. Why I remember this from school is a mystery.
  • Iceman1800
    Iceman1800 Posts: 476
    Compatibility. My opinion, the #1 reason relationships work or fail.
  • lauraatkinson85
    lauraatkinson85 Posts: 84 Member
    It used to be the bad boy type, the challenge for me to fix.

    Now, someone who loves me as much as I love him, who laughs with me, and who would do anything not to hurt me. Thank god I found him!
  • DarwinChick95
    DarwinChick95 Posts: 144 Member
    I dont really have a checklist of what I look for. Don't really have a type of guy I suppose.
    Cant manage to tell my heart who to love, that things got a mind of its own! But I love a
    guy who is sweet and caring and who can make me laugh :) I know he's out there somewhere
  • scottg1024
    scottg1024 Posts: 224
    Cuteness, shorter than me, and ability to make a mean sammich.
  • Candyapplebabe
    Candyapplebabe Posts: 70 Member
    Tall, over 6 ft
    Nice head of hair
    Intelligent
    Similar interests
    Sexually compatible
    Genetic predisposition to little body hair
  • Candyapplebabe
    Candyapplebabe Posts: 70 Member
    Tall, over 6 ft
    Nice head of hair
    Intelligent
    Similar interests
    Sexually compatible
    Genetic predisposition to little body hair

    Forgot the most important thing! Good sense of Humor!
  • coullmom
    coullmom Posts: 133 Member
    I want someone who has similiar morals. I want honesty, trustworthy and reliable. I also like a man with a sense of humour. We have to be friends, above all else. I haven't had much luck finding someone who has all the things I want. And its not that I am picky but some things are deal breakers!!! I deserve a person who is all of these things and more...I won't settle. I would rather be alone!!
  • NatashaB8
    NatashaB8 Posts: 202
    Someone who has a sense of humour and can make me laugh, that is one of the most important things.
    Intelligent
    Caring
    Great chemistry
    Does not take themselves too seriously
    Does not get a complex when I wear heels and tower above them!
    My boyfriend is 5'10 and I am 6'0 so when I wear 3 inch heels.. yeah. Luckily he loves having a tall woman!
    Hahaha.

    A nice smile always gets me too :)
  • OllyReeves
    OllyReeves Posts: 579 Member
    Tall, over 6 ft
    Nice head of hair
    Intelligent
    Similar interests
    Sexually compatible
    Genetic predisposition to little body hair

    Forgot the most important thing! Good sense of Humor!

    Genetic predisposition to little body hair.............wow you'd be the first girl to ever turn me down for a genetic reason. Many many other reasons have been cited over the years, but that's a first for me....
  • djsupreme6
    djsupreme6 Posts: 1,210 Member
    unselfishness, warmth, honesty, a love for sports, passionate, versatility, intelligence, humor, inner and outer beauty and she gotta like massages :)
  • 0MissErin0
    0MissErin0 Posts: 92 Member
    Intelligence.
    Genuine kind hearted.
    Somewhat introverted geeky types :))))

    I'm lucky i found a good looking guy with all of the above <3
  • MissMormie
    MissMormie Posts: 359 Member
    When I was dating a few years ago I always said I wanted someone with an IQ of at least 130. If he doesn't understand my jokes, it's not gonna work.

    So lucky I found a guy who doesn't just know about quarks, but was also very enthousiastic to get into the car with me a drive for about 15 hours to visit the open day at CERN, to go and see the LHC (Large Hadron Collider).
  • LindseySprake
    LindseySprake Posts: 333 Member
    Genetic predisposition to little body hair


    hehehehe ^^^ this one made me giggle ... although I am partial to a bit of body hair.
    Like a manly man, but still has style, can make me laugh and be compassionate and caring. Sexual Compatability is a must obviously ;-)
  • Candyapplebabe
    Candyapplebabe Posts: 70 Member
    Tall, over 6 ft
    Nice head of hair
    Intelligent
    Similar interests
    Sexually compatible
    Genetic predisposition to little body hair

    Forgot the most important thing! Good sense of Humor!

    Genetic predisposition to little body hair.............wow you'd be the first girl to ever turn me down for a genetic reason. Many many other reasons have been cited over the years, but that's a first for me....

    It sure is a tough one! I love a man with a beard and a full head of hair but don't really like a man that must do much grooming for me to see the muscles, tattoos or... other things.
  • mommy2AR
    mommy2AR Posts: 2,796 Member
    Physically~Eyes with depth and a smile that can stop my heart ( well not literally, hehe) I do like someone that takes care of themself as well.

    Non-physical~ humor, depth, honesty, humility, willingness to work through things and not fly off the handle, someone that is my best friend as well as lover.
  • vicky1804
    vicky1804 Posts: 320 Member
    Someone who can make me laugh/knows how to chear me up/ Kind & considerate.

    I found my guy and married him 3 weeks ago ! Yey me

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