What do you look for in a partner?

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  • Easywider
    Easywider Posts: 434 Member
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    Self sufficiency. Social mobility. Character. Class. Charisma.
  • FitnFabMichelle
    FitnFabMichelle Posts: 161 Member
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    Funny
    Passionate
    Happy / Optimistic
    Trust-worthy
    Intelligent
    Good communicator
    Great smile
  • wrevhn
    wrevhn Posts: 864 Member
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    I agree with the self esteem thing. In general, man or chick, its irritating to deal with whining.

    I thought my hubs was an opposites attract situation, after I got to know him I realized I married a younger male version of myself. Ppl even say we look alike. So I guess I look for me in a partner.

    Butt, I like butts. He has the biggest roundest perkiest butt. He has actually gotten it grabbed randomly while on army base before.
    faces are big on list. Gotta look at them. Eyes and smile.

    Loving, I am not into the cold logical type. I don't care how manly a guy needs top pretend to be to make up for shortcomings. I want a real man, not afraid to be romantic. I want a LOVER.

    I agree with character too. Character and honor.

    And can make me laugh. Thats big.
  • evereadysmile
    evereadysmile Posts: 137
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    No scrubs. If he's all hanging out the passenger side of his best friend's ride trying to holla at me, then no, that guy that can't get no love from me. Right? Because his game is kinda weak and I know that he cannot approach me. Especially since I'm looking like class and he's looking like trash. I just really can't get with a dead-beat *kitten*.
  • rjcelmer
    rjcelmer Posts: 431 Member
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    A strong forehand and the ability to rush the net.
  • iLoveMyPitbull1225
    iLoveMyPitbull1225 Posts: 1,690 Member
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    sexual and emotional compatability
  • Determinednoob
    Determinednoob Posts: 2,001 Member
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    "willing"
  • shelbyfrootcake
    shelbyfrootcake Posts: 965 Member
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    "willing"

    *snort*

    How very modern.
  • Determinednoob
    Determinednoob Posts: 2,001 Member
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    "willing"

    *snort*

    How very modern.

    Am I catching a wiff of willingness?!?!
  • shelbyfrootcake
    shelbyfrootcake Posts: 965 Member
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    Compatible sense of humour.
    Similar morals.
    Some common interests, but they should have interests I don't give a toss about too.
  • shelbyfrootcake
    shelbyfrootcake Posts: 965 Member
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    "willing"

    *snort*

    How very modern.

    Am I catching a wiff of willingness?!?!

    Is this that flirting malarkey I keep hearing so much about?
  • Determinednoob
    Determinednoob Posts: 2,001 Member
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    "willing"

    *snort*

    How very modern.

    Am I catching a wiff of willingness?!?!

    Is this that flirting malarkey I keep hearing so much about?

    Could be a low grade form of it. Who knows?
  • EvgeniZyntx
    EvgeniZyntx Posts: 24,208 Member
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    The capability of of keeping things interesting - whether it's humor, interests or anything else - a viewpoint and actual actions that keep me intrigued, interested, learning and respectful and hopefully the same quid pro quo (do ut des) for my partner.

    And a very high capacity to communicate becuase I tend to be a river and a sinkhole.
  • shoppingmaniac86
    shoppingmaniac86 Posts: 2,067 Member
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    good sense of humor
    determination
    passion
    someone with goals
    a great smile
    someone with similar values and morals
  • Determinednoob
    Determinednoob Posts: 2,001 Member
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    good sense of humor
    determination
    passion
    someone with goals
    a great smile
    someone with similar values and morals

    Determined is my name
    my goals are to show you my passion and great smile
    was this humorous?
  • MandaPaigeSparkles88
    MandaPaigeSparkles88 Posts: 1,289 Member
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    I have given this a lot of thought. I love a guy with a nice smile and a wonderful personality. I want a gentleman, someone chivalrous. Someone who has a great sense of humor and can make me laugh. Someone who is sexually compatible. There's probably more but this is all I can think of right now.
  • kimg68
    kimg68 Posts: 64
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    Look for? This will probably be just me, but I find this depressing... It's cooler to encounter things you weren't looking for, surprises are good. Plus if you just look for certain things, you get tunnel vision and won't necessarily have a heart open enough to let in someone truly special. I feel like those qualities we can't immediately "see" end up the most valuable.

    Lightbulb moment for me....time to open the mind and let go of the checklist.
  • melissafaith24
    melissafaith24 Posts: 251 Member
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    personality (keeps me laughing, good hearted, sweet but not smuthering)
    looks sure do help but personality goes a long way
    good with kids
    similar interests but with a few differing ones and willing to share each others
    financially responsible
  • ChunkieNuts
    ChunkieNuts Posts: 135 Member
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    Compatibility. My opinion, the #1 reason relationships work or fail.
    ^ this, else it goes tits up
  • Determinednoob
    Determinednoob Posts: 2,001 Member
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    Compatibility. My opinion, the #1 reason relationships work or fail.
    ^ this, else it goes tits up

    But tits up sure is fun for a bit

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