Vacation Alone??

TylerJ76
TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
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Anyone ever go on vacation alone?

I am looking into going to Playa Del Carmen this winter, and I am thinking of going alone.

Just curious if anyone else has done this.
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  • taylor5877
    taylor5877 Posts: 1,792 Member
    I fish, so it makes sense for me, so yes.
  • ValerieMartini2Olives
    ValerieMartini2Olives Posts: 3,024 Member
    My friend and I took a 700 mile road trip to North Carolina last year. I dropped her off in Charlotte and I stayed in Winston-Salem. Vacationing alone was a great experience! No one to nag me. I got to do whatever and whenever I wanted. I met lots of new people and visited a lot of exciting places. I highly suggest to anyone to take at least one vacation alone. It's very liberating!
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    I've done tons of traveling alone and it has it's pros and cons. There are times when it's awesome not to have to ask someone what they want to eat or where to go. But there are also moments when it can be lonely. You'll never know how you feel about it until you try it though.
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    I haven't. But it sounds like the most magical thing ever. Do it!
  • orangesmartie
    orangesmartie Posts: 1,870 Member
    I went to Portugal on my own because no one else wanted to go. I had a great time - i got up when i wanted, ate what I wanted, when I wanted. I went on the trips that i wanted to go on and lounged by the pool when it suited me. In the evenings i went to the hotel bar and chatted with other people there (there were a few people also on their own). I made sure I had plenty to read (the hotel had a little book exchange as well). Had a great time.
  • corn63
    corn63 Posts: 1,580 Member
    I went to England by myself for 10 days, it was FANTASTIC. I really recommend it.

    In Playa Del Carmen, if you go to an all inclusive, you meet TONS of people anyways. I went to one in February.
  • kelseyhere
    kelseyhere Posts: 1,123 Member
    Yeah I have and I love it. When your on vacay with others it's always so hard to make a plan and get going. Everyone always wants to do different stuff and sometimes you sacrifice that museum you really wanted to see because your aunt wanted to go to the chocolate factory. Hotel room all to myself, doing what I want when I want, yes please! Plus it's fun to hit the hotel bar alone and make some stranger friends
  • coachblt
    coachblt Posts: 1,090
    I haven't been on a vacation like the one you are thinking about but I have been on a "self" vacation. It was nice, peaceful and rather enjoyable.

    I'd do it again, yet I'd rather not. Some things are just more enjoyable with others around.
  • dodihere
    dodihere Posts: 490
    I would love a vacation alone. I have never had a chance though.
  • ILoveTheBrowns
    ILoveTheBrowns Posts: 661 Member
    i went to colorado alone...drove from ohio when i was 22 and to this day have never had a better 4 days in my life....holed up in a little hotel room in estes park right at entrance to rocky mt national park.....went out everynight to the bar met tons of people had a couple from minnesota pick up a 30 dollar beer tab for me one night....another night had a guy and his girl tell me i could move out there and live with them rent free if i wanted...not sure why they wanted me to do that......:{........made many memories that week ill probably never top.....ia ctually recommend it very soul cleansing
  • RunningDirty
    RunningDirty Posts: 293
    I would definitely do it! I went to Morocco for a week on my own and it was the greatest travel experience ever! I love international travel adventures. I say go for it.
  • sizzle92
    sizzle92 Posts: 1,015 Member
    I would so do it. I love myself. lol
  • needernt
    needernt Posts: 675 Member
    Having a female partner could do me good
  • knk1553
    knk1553 Posts: 438 Member
    I told my parents that for my graduation from my masters I want a week at an all-inclusive resort by myself, or somewhere that has a beach by myself, no joke. I just want a week (or two!) to not have to do what other people want to do and spend the day laying by the pool/beach/swimming/doing whatever I want. So no, I don't think its weird.
  • secretlobster
    secretlobster Posts: 3,566 Member
    I've done vacation alone ("backpacking" sort of trip in Europe). It leaves you open to meeting a lot of new people, if you are an outgoing person who talks to strangers easily.
  • chinatbag
    chinatbag Posts: 249 Member
    Solo vacation is pretty awesome. It gives you time to really ponder upon things in life that you normally don't think about. Not only that but the silent moments really drive you to enjoy what is around you. It's like living unfiltered.
  • Kerri_is_so_very
    Kerri_is_so_very Posts: 999 Member
    I haven't. But it sounds like the most magical thing ever. Do it!

    I second this!!! :drinker: I have no problem going solo when I need to. If I could do this, I totally would!!!
  • branson101
    branson101 Posts: 173 Member
    I have a teenage son....I would give anything to get away alone. I don't even care where.
  • jasond8023
    jasond8023 Posts: 23 Member
    I take 3 vacations every year - a family trip, a trip with the guys, and a solo trip. My solo trip is always the most fun since I can do what I want, when I want, and not have to worry about anybody's else's budget, diet, or timeline. I highly recommend it! I always meet some awesome people when traveling alone.
  • CayleyRidgeRunner
    CayleyRidgeRunner Posts: 56 Member
    I would definitely do it! I went to Morocco for a week on my own and it was the greatest travel experience ever! I love international travel adventures. I say go for it.

    That sounds bad *kitten*! What a free spirit!
  • neverstray
    neverstray Posts: 3,845 Member
    OK, so I've always thought I was the type that could do this. A good friend of mine traveled all the time, before he had kids, all over the world by himself. He just said he made friends when he got there, had a blast and would come back with stories.

    I went to New Orleans for 4 days alone and I hated every second, or at least most of it. Maybe it depends on the type of vacation, I don't know. But, I just don't think I would do it alone. No fun, and boring for me. But, different personality types can make it awesome I think. It just depends on you.
  • livestar
    livestar Posts: 140 Member
    Yes, definitely go! I went to London and Paris by myself one year and had the best time ever; met lots of people, did whatever struck my fancy, I was definitely not short on company and I just loved it. But, I am pretty awesome, so hanging out with me is always fun even when it is just me. :laugh:
  • jocybee83
    jocybee83 Posts: 155 Member
    I would LOVE some time to myself, but I wouldn't be able to vacation alone. It would be really hard for me to have fun by myself, but that's just the type of person I am. Plus, I'd miss my husband and daughters way too much.
  • scottg1024
    scottg1024 Posts: 224
    My family goes on vacation without me. I stay home, take care of the pets, and work. Actually, that means I AM on vacation.
  • elisabeisme
    elisabeisme Posts: 308 Member
    I LOVE to go on vacation alone. I've taken solo trips to South Africa, Thailand, Switzerland, Poland, France, and throughout the US. Some places (like Vegas or Napa) are better with friends, but lots of places are better alone.

    Resorts are especially great alone - so much more relaxing. You always hear about people coming back from their vacation more stressed than when they left. That never happens when you go alone! Pick a flight time that you prefer, get up when you want, leave the beach when you want, and schedule that massage in the middle of the dinner hour if you feel like it.

    My tips for a solo vacation:

    -take lessons for sport activities such as windsurfing or sailboarding to make it more interactive

    -get a room with a view (feels more important when you're by yourself)

    -eating at the bar gives you a chance to chat about your day with the bartender

    -when eating at a table, always bring a book or magazine or tablet. Even if you don't read it, it gives you the option. Don't automatically sit at the first table the hostess offers. Often they try to seat you near the kitchen or next to a loud family. Scan the restaurant and ask to sit where you see a nice view. Most places will accommodate.

    -Join a day tour when you want to go somewhere remote, such as hiking. People are usually very friendly and inclusive to singles on a day tour if you introduce yourself. Also, the guide is almost always extra nice to single travellers and then you get extra inside info.

    -don't set an alarm. You'll get the best sleep ever!
  • ncahill77
    ncahill77 Posts: 501 Member
    I take 3 vacations every year - a family trip, a trip with the guys, and a solo trip. My solo trip is always the most fun since I can do what I want, when I want, and not have to worry about anybody's else's budget, diet, or timeline. I highly recommend it! I always meet some awesome people when traveling alone.

    I'm at a loss of words for how envious I am right now...good for you though.
  • usmcmp
    usmcmp Posts: 21,219 Member
    I went to San Diego by myself and had a great time! It was actually nice to just do whatever the hell I wanted instead of having to check to see what others wanted to do.
  • Turtlehurdle
    Turtlehurdle Posts: 412
    Yes. I went to Europe for a month, alone, when I was 22.
  • porcelain_doll
    porcelain_doll Posts: 1,005 Member
    I guess I am in the minority. I took a trip last year to TN alone and I came home thinking that I would not do that again. Seemed like everywhere I went, I was the only 'lone one' among families and couples and I began feeling homesick and lonely.

    Maybe I can learn something from you guys. lol
  • Aello11
    Aello11 Posts: 312 Member
    I have and will continue to have one a year. I spend the most relaxing week in the Outer Banks.

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