If you're fat, don't call someone else fat!!!!!!!!!
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SO every time I post a new picture of myself on Facebook my cousin feels the need to say I'm fat. MIND YOU, I have lost 14 lbs and I really LIKE the way I look. Everyone else is like, nice pic, or hits the like button, but she feels the need to say "you're fat" Really dude, NO ONE ASKED, and thank you for calling me fat while YOU my cousin, are clearly 100lb+ over weight. (and normally I don't care about how much someone is over weight, but don't comment on my pictures about my weight when NO ONE ASKED)
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You should definitely block her from seeing your photos. She's clearly jealous. Don't let her bring you down.0
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lol hypocrites!0
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ditto, most of my family is blocked becuse of that same kinda stuff. You are doing great and doing it for you not her, stay positive!0
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14 pounds is great. I know it isnt fun to have someone to say your fat-especially your cousin:) But keep that chin up and keep doing what you do. You will win in the end.0
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You don't need that kind of negativity - especially from a relative. 'Unfriend' her and don't feel bad about it - I did it myself with my youngest brother. He's gotta be the most miserable person on the planet, and he makes sure everyone on FB knows it....0
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Who better to call someone fat than one who is fat?.........Don't take things people say so personal.0
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I'd tell her off. But that's just me, and I clearly have no patience or tact when it comes to dealing with meanies.0
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Clearly, she is sipping on haterade.0
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I would just go with the ignore and move on motto! She's clearly an idiot. You're absolutely gorgeous...fat is NOT a word I would use to describe you.0
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How about don't call people "fat" "skinny" or "ugly" no matter what you are shaped like.
It's called tact people. Learn it, love it, live it.0 -
I dnt think it's a jealousy thing, my family is from the Islands and they're the type who even if they haven't see you in a year they'll tell you you are either too thin how fat you got. like jees, you don't look like a swim suit model yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! example: I was about 160 before my weight gain and they told me i was TOO small. now im 180 and I'm fat. let me get down to 175 and i'll be too skinny again. LIKE THANKS, NO ONE FRICKN ASKED. i don't lose weight for you.0
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It sounds like she is jealous. Have you called her out and asked her why? You are stunning-I'm a MFP creeper and looked at your photos. Don't let her bring you down. Keep doing what you are doing because you are looking amazing!0
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Who better to call someone fat than one who is fat?.........Don't take things people say so personal.0
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I totally agree with your title.
I wouldn't care if she's my cousin or not...DELETE her. If you think she's jealous now, wait until she can't comment at all about what you're posting. It'll drive her jealous *kitten* crazy.0 -
Who better to call someone fat than one who is fat?.........Don't take things people say so personal.
This is nothing against you, but I agree. I have accepted my fatness and calling me fat is like calling Ben Franklin white.0 -
I dislike people like this! Or ones that say your fat! Duh like I didn't already know this??0
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Some people will say you're fat even when you're underweight. Some people will say you shouldn't lose weight even when you are overweight.
I agree with the others who said to block her. And keep this in mind when she gives her opinion on other things. She doesn't sound nice or credible.
I understand the rant, but some people's opinions don't deserve your attention or energy.0 -
SO every time I post a new picture of myself on Facebook my cousin feels the need to say I'm fat. MIND YOU, I have lost 14 lbs and I really LIKE the way I look. Everyone else is like, nice pic, or hits the like button, but she feels the need to say "you're fat" Really dude, NO ONE ASKED, and thank you for calling me fat while YOU my cousin, are clearly 100lb+ over weight. (and normally I don't care about how much someone is over weight, but don't comment on my pictures about my weight when NO ONE ASKED)
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I say NEVER call anyone fat even when your not fat. It's not nice. I would rather be nice to people and treat them with respect. Some people are still working on it. I've been there and done that and even though I've achieved my goal I remember all to well what it was like to be obese.0 -
How about don't call people "fat" "skinny" or "ugly" no matter what you are shaped like.
It's called tact people. Learn it, love it, live it.
It's not my habit to go around calling ppl fat. but I was too pissed to think of anything else to say. I don't appreciate ppl feeling the need to call me whatever they feel like when I keep my personal opinion about them to MYself, because they didn't ask for it.0 -
if you're at an unhealthy weight, you shouldn't comment on other people's weight at all!
That said... there are settings where you don't unfriend someone, but they also can't see everything on your facebook... time to check 'em out!0
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