OK, serious discussion amongst us guys. NO GIRLZ ALLOWED

Colonel_Brandon

Dudes.

So let me ask you this.

When you find out a gal is either bi-sexual or at least bi-curious, does that tend to make her MORE desirable (as in, it turns you on) or LESS desirable (as in, it's a turn-off) in your eyes?

DISCUSS.

JessieGurlJb

Im a rule breaker and bi-curious so will will be following this thread.

ScumbagSteve

Im a rule breaker and bi-curious so will will be following this thread.

NO GIRLS ALLOWED GTFO

_JR_

In my 20s, it was intriguing... not so much in my 30s.

jerbear1962

If I was back to being single I'd be turned on...

Colonel_Brandon

OK, I'll start out.

For me, it's a major turn on.

My ex-wife was bi-curious, and it was something we talked about a lot - kept the "fantasy" realm pretty great for a long time.

I know there are some guys out there that are intimidated by the prospect of their lady wanting to play with other ladies.

But not me. Nope.... not me.

JenSpinnaChick

I'm a rule breaker as well but I can offer my husbands insight.....He finds it a total turn on, no lie!!!

saxmaniac

More! How the hell can you have an amazing threesome if the girls aren't bi?

Because otherwise you get http://www.thelonelyisland.com/video/3-way

crazyellybean

I'm a rule breaker as well but I can offer my husbands insight.....He finds it a total turn on, no lie!!!

Yup, my husband would so be turned on if I was "bi" ... He always tells me, "you know if you want to explore with girls you can" .. dork!

ScumbagSteve

I find it pathetic and just downright rude for you women to come into a no girlz allowed thread.

jmc0806

not sure how this could ever be a turn off...

qtiekiki

I am pretty sure my husband would like it, and will try to get a threesome out of it.

SpecialSundae

Im a rule breaker and bi-curious so will will be following this thread.

Bisexual here and married. My husband certainly tells me he likes it.

_JR_

Wanna know how to get a woman's opinion.... just ask a guy for his! :laugh:

TangledUp_InBlue

Total turn-on. (may have to clip some these responses and give to the wife!)

YoungDoc2B

Doesn't make her either more or less desirable..

nphect

Its not top of my list of things i am attracted to or not first of all. So i don't really care either way. But as a non issue, i find it more attractive, because i know her sexual nature is at least not inhibited, which lends me to think she is more open with herself at least in some sense. But i would take a smart interesting heterosexual in a heartbeat to a dip**** bisexual.

Colonel_Brandon

Wanna know how to get a woman's opinion.... just ask a guy for his! :laugh:

Apparently.

I know that women are going to busted up into 3 camps:

Bi-sexual: "hell yes, it's cool!"

Bi-curious: either "sounds fun" or "i won't admit it to myself so i will condemn it out of hand"

Straight: "yuck!"

nphect

I am pretty sure my husband would like it, and will try to get a threesome out of it.

aww why u no single *cry*

mbajrami

In my 20s, it was intriguing... not so much in my 30s.

As a woman, I agree with this. I experimented in my 20s. Now in my 30s, I feel like I'm past that. If you're bi-sexual or lesbian, great. But the whole, "OMG I'm gonna try this because it's hot and boys will like it/me, not because I'm actually confused or interested in girls" thing is kinda sad. I got to cross it off my bucket list, yay me...but it wasn't for me, so there's no need to revisit.

Colonel_Brandon

Its not top of my list of things i am attracted to or not first of all. So i don't really care either way. But as a non issue, i find it more attractive, because i know her sexual nature is at least not inhibited, which lends me to think she is more open with herself at least in some sense. But i would take a smart interesting heterosexual in a heartbeat to a dip**** bisexual.

Well-said. You're right, it's not a major influencing factor - but a factor nonetheless.

CorvusCorax77

I'm not a girl, I'm a woman.

Also, I think everyone is gay. I seriously can't think of anything to *not* like about men or women. Or maybe I'm just awesome like that.

Colonel_Brandon

In my 20s, it was intriguing... not so much in my 30s.

As a woman, I agree with this. I experimented in my 20s. Now in my 30s, I feel like I'm past that. If you're bi-sexual or lesbian, great. But the whole, "OMG I'm gonna try this because it's hot and boys will like it/me, not because I'm actually confused or interested in girls" thing is kinda sad. I got to cross it off my bucket list, yay me...but it wasn't for me, so there's no need to revisit.

Along the lines of nphect's post.... well, at least you tried it. Speaks to your sexual liberality and/or enjoyment of sex itself.

VelociMama

More! How the hell can you have an amazing threesome if the girls aren't bi?

Because otherwise you get http://www.thelonelyisland.com/video/3-way

LOL!!!

dalehall64

not sure how this could ever be a turn off...

^^^^^^This^^^^^^^^

Evey_bee

I'm Bi and find that at first guys find it hot, but if I end up in a serious relationship with them then it doesn't matter. They still don't want me to go around kissing/sleeping with anyone else whether it's a guy or a girl.

Erienneb

I'm a bisexual woman and I lean much more towards women than men. I would consider myself a lesbian if I wasn't currently dating a guy. That said, it doesn't effect him one way or the other (except that if I comment on a girl he's like hell yeah good eye) but at the same time, I'm in a relationship. That means I wouldn't talk to girls, touch them, have a threesome, whatever. Cheating is cheating so it's a moot point and I don't share what's mine.

BFarnsworth

Its something that should at least be discussed before you start sleeping with her .... Even though it's cool it has it's perils and pitfalls.

Colonel_Brandon

I'm Bi and find that at first guys find it hot, but if I end up in a serious relationship with them then it doesn't matter. They still don't want me to go around kissing/sleeping with anyone else whether it's a guy or a girl.

There seems to be an unusually high number of gals from Scotland that are bi. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....

CorvusCorax77

I'm Bi and find that at first guys find it hot, but if I end up in a serious relationship with them then it doesn't matter. They still don't want me to go around kissing/sleeping with anyone else whether it's a guy or a girl.

My original response was going to be along these lines. It's not about bi or straight, it's about monogamous or not. In the end, that's what we're talking about. And if the dude is the possessive monogamous type, it just sucks because he's not only threatened by men, but by women also.

pawnstarNate

I would raise and eyebrow if my wife said she wanted to play with another woman....make her more or less desirable? no. I desire her equally either way