OK, serious discussion amongst us guys. NO GIRLZ ALLOWED

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  • mbajrami
    mbajrami Posts: 636 Member
    In my 20s, it was intriguing... not so much in my 30s.

    As a woman, I agree with this. I experimented in my 20s. Now in my 30s, I feel like I'm past that. If you're bi-sexual or lesbian, great. But the whole, "OMG I'm gonna try this because it's hot and boys will like it/me, not because I'm actually confused or interested in girls" thing is kinda sad. I got to cross it off my bucket list, yay me...but it wasn't for me, so there's no need to revisit.

    Along the lines of nphect's post.... well, at least you tried it. Speaks to your sexual liberality and/or enjoyment of sex itself.

    I think everyone should at least visit the same sex thing, if there's even a possibility/question that they might be interested but they're not sure. You'd be doing yourself an injustice if you didn't. This goes for guys too. :wink: At the very least, you'll learn something(s) about yourself and what you like/don't like...from a different perspective.
  • _JR_
    _JR_ Posts: 830 Member
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  • Evey_bee
    Evey_bee Posts: 77 Member
    I'm a bisexual woman and I lean much more towards women than men. I would consider myself a lesbian if I wasn't currently dating a guy. That said, it doesn't effect him one way or the other (except that if I comment on a girl he's like hell yeah good eye) but at the same time, I'm in a relationship. That means I wouldn't talk to girls, touch them, have a threesome, whatever. Cheating is cheating so it's a moot point and I don't share what's mine. This stereoptype that it's so hot only applies to what is considered a hot woman.

    This! Guys instant reaction is to think "Awesome, threesome!" But I think more often than not you don't want to share and neither do they when it comes down to it!
  • wolfpack77
    wolfpack77 Posts: 655
    Less desirable.
  • Colonel_Brandon
    Colonel_Brandon Posts: 256 Member
    This stereoptype that it's so hot only applies to what is considered a hot woman.

    This is why it was meant to be a "Guy's only" discussion. You don't see us busting into the TOM threads and giving our 2 cents.

    THIS.

    All due respect, gals, I'm trying to discuss with other guys more... I think it's funny that more gals have posted in here than guys! LOL!




    EDIT: OK, OK.... you don't have to be so sensitive.... girls welcome. But I'm more curious to hear what other guys think.
  • Adina81
    Adina81 Posts: 252 Member
    I am bi-sexual.
    My new-found husband will not be talked into a threesome.
    And if I go fondle a girl by myself its cheating....

    Which one of you men want to have a chat with this one.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    I'm bi and my husband likes it.
  • NotSoBigNeil
    NotSoBigNeil Posts: 215 Member
    Completely turned on. Now let's let the ladies in :bigsmile:
  • _JR_
    _JR_ Posts: 830 Member
    Completely turned on. Now let's let the ladies in :bigsmile:

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    Indeed, I'm sure they're dying to give their opinions too. :laugh:
  • solyhhit
    solyhhit Posts: 97 Member
    I'm pretty traditional so not really. Never did float my boat.

    And I don't need the extra competition, because you know, they're girls and the better choice for sure.
  • frj85
    frj85 Posts: 62
    total turn on....experimenting with sex in many ways is always good
  • solyhhit
    solyhhit Posts: 97 Member
    total turn on....experimenting with sex in many ways is always good

    So you're not opposed to doing a dude?
  • DaughterOfTheMostHighKing
    DaughterOfTheMostHighKing Posts: 1,436 Member
    sad...
  • Vincentsz
    Vincentsz Posts: 407 Member
    More! How the hell can you have an amazing threesome if the girls aren't bi?

    Because otherwise you get http://www.thelonelyisland.com/video/3-way

    That was friggin hilarious!!!!!
  • SpecialSundae
    SpecialSundae Posts: 795 Member
    Cheating is cheating so it's a moot point and I don't share what's mine.

    Cheating's only cheating if your partner considers it cheating. So if your partner is happy for you to fondle other girls then it's not cheating.
  • talentjar
    talentjar Posts: 19
    Hmmm I have a friend who is bi that fooled around with a girl in front of her boyfriend at the time. The boyfriend threw a hissy fit and after he begged her for months to do it, he freaked. He got jealous and after a big argument, actually started crying. Now that friend is married to a different guy and he knows she is bi and that she super enjoys hot lesbian porn and thinks it is so hot...but her husband would not want a threesome as it is cheating either way so they leave it up to a fantasy in their relationship. At least my friend has no jealousy between her guys porn of choice and her own ;)
  • klacount77
    klacount77 Posts: 270 Member
    I am a bi-sexual and would love to hear the men and women's opinion on this. Great post.

    Being bi-sexual is difficult. No one person has everything I want / need sexually. While monogamy is something I want, it is hard to sleep with only a penis or a rough manly body. On the same side it is hard to sleep with soft curves and sweet perfumed skin when I want to feel something hairy and strong beneath me. Keeping both sides satisfied is extremely difficult as a bisexual.

    I'd love to hear the opinions of non-bisexuals on this issue.

    Note that I did NOT give my opinion on the subject. LOL
  • Vincentsz
    Vincentsz Posts: 407 Member
    Hmmm I have a friend who is bi that fooled around with a girl in front of her boyfriend at the time. The boyfriend threw a hissy fit and after he begged her for months to do it, he freaked. He got jealous and after a big argument, actually started crying. Now that friend is married to a different guy and he knows she is bi and that she super enjoys hot lesbian porn and thinks it is so hot...but her husband would not want a threesome as it is cheating either way so they leave it up to a fantasy in their relationship. At least my friend has no jealousy between her guys porn of choice and her own ;)


    First guy was gay!

    Second guy well Any man who turns down two hotties, well, he's gay too!
  • Hellguy76137
    Hellguy76137 Posts: 53 Member
    I honestly do not care either way. I only care if she is in to me. Beyond that it does not matter.
  • nphect
    nphect Posts: 474
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  • SVCat
    SVCat Posts: 1,483 Member
    It really doesn't change how attractive I find her. It's not like that *kitten* gets any jucier because she is Bi.
  • frj85
    frj85 Posts: 62
    total turn on....experimenting with sex in many ways is always good

    So you're not opposed to doing a dude?

    never would I do a dude, but if its your type of thing, try it, I dont look bad at people doing whatever they want
  • Vincentsz
    Vincentsz Posts: 407 Member
    It really doesn't change how attractive I find her. It's not like that *kitten* gets any jucier because she is Bi.

    No your are correct

    however that cat does get jucier!
  • solyhhit
    solyhhit Posts: 97 Member
    total turn on....experimenting with sex in many ways is always good

    So you're not opposed to doing a dude?

    never would I do a dude, but if its your type of thing, try it, I dont look bad at people doing whatever they want

    I was just pointing out the double standard of experimentation.
  • TangledUp_InBlue
    TangledUp_InBlue Posts: 397 Member
    I am a bi-sexual and would love to hear the men and women's opinion on this. Great post.

    Being bi-sexual is difficult. No one person has everything I want / need sexually. While monogamy is something I want, it is hard to sleep with only a penis or a rough manly body. On the same side it is hard to sleep with soft curves and sweet perfumed skin when I want to feel something hairy and strong beneath me. Keeping both sides satisfied is extremely difficult as a bisexual.

    I'd love to hear the opinions of non-bisexuals on this issue.

    Note that I did NOT give my opinion on the subject. LOL

    Something’s got to give. Monogamy can’t exist if you want to be with one and desire another. Hubby either has to be open to playing or allowing you to do so or you’re going to have to make it happen without him.
  • EDesq
    EDesq Posts: 1,527 Member
    Don't YOU know the way to get the OPPOSITE of what you asked for on the INTERNET is to try to Restrict People! A Christian only post will get atheists and agnostics; Want only Blacks, every white person on the Internet is an authority on Black people...So why should YOU be any different!

    Now, as a Lesbian the idea of a bi-sexual or bi-curious woman/women are REPULSIVE...Nasty, who wants to "eat" behind a sperm whale. Bi women are NO Nos for Lesbian women!
  • Colonel_Brandon
    Colonel_Brandon Posts: 256 Member
    total turn on....experimenting with sex in many ways is always good

    So you're not opposed to doing a dude?

    never would I do a dude, but if its your type of thing, try it, I dont look bad at people doing whatever they want

    I was just pointing out the double standard of experimentation.

    He can defend himself of course, but I don't equate him saying "many ways" as saying "everybody should try bisexuality.

    I think he terms women experimenting with women as one of those "many ways"... but that it may not be for everyone.
  • Vincentsz
    Vincentsz Posts: 407 Member
    Don't YOU know the way to get the OPPOSITE of what you asked for on the INTERNET is to try to Restrict People! A Christian only post will get atheists and agnostics; Want only Blacks, every white person on the Internet is an authority on Black people...So why should YOU be any different!

    Now, as a Lesbian the idea of a bi-sexual or bi-curious woman/women are REPULSIVE...Nasty, who wants to "eat" behind a sperm whale. Bi women are NO Nos for Lesbian women!

    that's funny because most lesbian women are repulsive to MEN!
  • mavrick7
    mavrick7 Posts: 1,607 Member
    I am a bi-sexual and would love to hear the men and women's opinion on this. Great post.

    Being bi-sexual is difficult. No one person has everything I want / need sexually. While monogamy is something I want, it is hard to sleep with only a penis or a rough manly body. On the same side it is hard to sleep with soft curves and sweet perfumed skin when I want to feel something hairy and strong beneath me. Keeping both sides satisfied is extremely difficult as a bisexual.

    I'd love to hear the opinions of non-bisexuals on this issue.

    Note that I did NOT give my opinion on the subject. LOL

    Something’s got to give. Monogamy can’t exist if you want to be with one and desire another. Hubby either has to be open to playing or allowing you to do so or you’re going to have to make it happen without him.

    I agree that if you are in a relationship, its not cool to lust anyone else. I had a close friend, happily married with three girls. His wife cheated, then left him with another soccer mom. :sad:
  • VelociMama
    VelociMama Posts: 3,119 Member
    Don't YOU know the way to get the OPPOSITE of what you asked for on the INTERNET is to try to Restrict People! A Christian only post will get atheists and agnostics; Want only Blacks, every white person on the Internet is an authority on Black people...So why should YOU be any different!

    Now, as a Lesbian the idea of a bi-sexual or bi-curious woman/women are REPULSIVE...Nasty, who wants to "eat" behind a sperm whale. Bi women are NO Nos for Lesbian women!

    Classy.
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