What was the last thing you let them do?

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  • Jennloella
    Jennloella Posts: 2,286 Member
    I say have another drink!
  • Flowers4Julia
    Flowers4Julia Posts: 521 Member
    Yeah - he's definitely not good for you. I would agree with the leave him and move on advice. You deserve so much more out of love and life than that.

    I'd also spend some time really reflecting on what makes you stay? This may answer deeper questions and lead to more happiness as you grow through life. Because that is really the secret to a happy life! Learning and growing!

    Best of Luck! :flowerforyou:

    Be strong, you can find happiness!
  • Nessiechickie
    Nessiechickie Posts: 1,392 Member
    Thank you for the replies even the brutally honest ones.
    Slap to the face to realize.
  • leejayem
    leejayem Posts: 120 Member
    I found it hard from what you wrote to see anything positive in your relationship with him at all! It sounds like a terrible situation. Not sure why you are with him really? If you were my daughter I would beg you to see the incredible value & dignity you have & GET OUT of this relationship - but your choice...
  • imchicbad
    imchicbad Posts: 1,650 Member
    By posting this very topic you have answered your own question. Do you really need to ask us here? Not trying to be mean, just brutally honest with you.

    You are the same age as my oldest daughter and she, too, had a similar situation. It turned real ugly. I point blank told her if she wanted to see how much the *kitten* cared, to stop opening her wallet and legs to him. If he was a real man and cared, he would get the message and change his ways; otherwise he would be gone in about 3-4 weeks.

    KICKED THE BUMB TO THE DAMN CURB!!!!!!!!!!

    Another point to remember ........ having sex and living together DO NOT solidify a relationship. They actually cloud the mind and inhibit true and real intimacy between two individuals. While this, to many, will be the MORAL or RELIGIOUS argument, resent scientific research is PROVING that God's way is the ONLY way.

    AMEN.
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