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  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
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    Act exactly the same to him when he's up late.
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
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    Oh hey, maybe he's afraid of the dark and is afraid to sleep without you. But he's too embarrassed to tell you!

    I have single handedly saved your marriage. You're welcome.
  • SirRunningShorts
    SirRunningShorts Posts: 77 Member
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    Ok... I"m not trying to be the kind of poster that is trying to start trouble. It sounds suspicious. Like maybe he didn't want you staying up because you might check his computer. I wonder what would happen if you stayed up and in the room with him? Last just as long as he does?

    interesting to see if the web browser history is cleared every late night..lol...or if he's smart he uses the incognito window.
    incognito window aka lack of browsing history for the HOURS he is awake.
  • vice350z
    vice350z Posts: 1,066 Member
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    Act exactly the same to him when he's up late.

    eh, i hear what your saying but that wont really accomplish anything. I'd pretty much just tell him "STFU, you stay up late and I don't say jack to you...deal with it, hun"....but that probably wouldn't accomplish anything either.

    On a related note I am a big abuser of the "...."
  • Starbuck2020
    Starbuck2020 Posts: 173 Member
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    Ok... I"m not trying to be the kind of poster that is trying to start trouble. It sounds suspicious. Like maybe he didn't want you staying up because you might check his computer. I wonder what would happen if you stayed up and in the room with him? Last just as long as he does?

    I can see your point. That isn't the case though. He is legitimately a nerd. He plays online games and drinks. If it was something suspicious I wouldn't be as upset because then I would have something to understand and work with, but this is just plain stupid. haha
  • vice350z
    vice350z Posts: 1,066 Member
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    Ok... I"m not trying to be the kind of poster that is trying to start trouble. It sounds suspicious. Like maybe he didn't want you staying up because you might check his computer. I wonder what would happen if you stayed up and in the room with him? Last just as long as he does?

    interesting to see if the web browser history is cleared every late night..lol...or if he's smart he uses the incognito window.
    incognito window aka lack of browsing history for the HOURS he is awake.

    aka "i don't want my wife finding out I look at porn" mode.
  • Starbuck2020
    Starbuck2020 Posts: 173 Member
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    Oh hey, maybe he's afraid of the dark and is afraid to sleep without you. But he's too embarrassed to tell you!

    I have single handedly saved your marriage. You're welcome.

    Hilarious :) thanks hehe
  • Starbuck2020
    Starbuck2020 Posts: 173 Member
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    Ok... I"m not trying to be the kind of poster that is trying to start trouble. It sounds suspicious. Like maybe he didn't want you staying up because you might check his computer. I wonder what would happen if you stayed up and in the room with him? Last just as long as he does?

    interesting to see if the web browser history is cleared every late night..lol...or if he's smart he uses the incognito window.
    incognito window aka lack of browsing history for the HOURS he is awake.

    aka "i don't want my wife finding out I look at porn" mode.

    I watch more porn than he does. lol
  • vice350z
    vice350z Posts: 1,066 Member
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    Ok... I"m not trying to be the kind of poster that is trying to start trouble. It sounds suspicious. Like maybe he didn't want you staying up because you might check his computer. I wonder what would happen if you stayed up and in the room with him? Last just as long as he does?

    I can see your point. That isn't the case though. He is legitimately a nerd. He plays online games and drinks. If it was something suspicious I wouldn't be as upset because then I would have something to understand and work with, but this is just plain stupid. haha

    Not that I want to open a can of worms...but is it once in a while drinking or every night drinking? That right there could be a problem.
  • vice350z
    vice350z Posts: 1,066 Member
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    Ok... I"m not trying to be the kind of poster that is trying to start trouble. It sounds suspicious. Like maybe he didn't want you staying up because you might check his computer. I wonder what would happen if you stayed up and in the room with him? Last just as long as he does?

    interesting to see if the web browser history is cleared every late night..lol...or if he's smart he uses the incognito window.
    incognito window aka lack of browsing history for the HOURS he is awake.

    aka "i don't want my wife finding out I look at porn" mode.

    I watch more porn than he does. lol

    and he rather stay up late playing games alone??? haha.
  • Starbuck2020
    Starbuck2020 Posts: 173 Member
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    Yea he drinks every night.
    Thanks to everyone btw. Just talking about it makes me feel less pissed off. I was almost guilted into coming to bed, but I tried to hold my ground tonight. Finishing my episode on netflix.
  • vice350z
    vice350z Posts: 1,066 Member
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    Yea he drinks every night.
    Thanks to everyone btw. Just talking about it makes me feel less pissed off. I was almost guilted into coming to bed, but I tried to hold my ground tonight. Finishing my episode on netflix.

    being able to rant does help. :hug:
  • Starbuck2020
    Starbuck2020 Posts: 173 Member
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    Ok... I"m not trying to be the kind of poster that is trying to start trouble. It sounds suspicious. Like maybe he didn't want you staying up because you might check his computer. I wonder what would happen if you stayed up and in the room with him? Last just as long as he does?

    interesting to see if the web browser history is cleared every late night..lol...or if he's smart he uses the incognito window.
    incognito window aka lack of browsing history for the HOURS he is awake.

    aka "i don't want my wife finding out I look at porn" mode.

    I watch more porn than he does. lol

    and he rather stay up late playing games alone??? haha.

    lol yep. Don't want to get too dirty on here, but I tend to "service" him while he is playing before I go to bed. If I stopped that he might come to bed. haha Doesn't change the fact that I should be able to stay up and enjoy my evening from time to time. It isn't fair.
  • mollz007
    mollz007 Posts: 168 Member
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    Favorite post of today:drinker:
  • Starbuck2020
    Starbuck2020 Posts: 173 Member
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    Favorite post of today:drinker:

    Sweet! I am somedbody now! haha
  • vice350z
    vice350z Posts: 1,066 Member
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    lol yep. Don't want to get too dirty on here, but I tend to "service" him while he is playing before I go to bed. If I stopped that he might come to bed. haha Doesn't change the fact that I should be able to stay up and enjoy my evening from time to time. It isn't fair.

    naaaaaice....he sounds like an unappreciative son of a bees wax. Have a chat with him about it..let him know it bugs you. Of course don't mention "well the people on MFP told me that...."

    Report back to us :)
  • Starbuck2020
    Starbuck2020 Posts: 173 Member
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    lol yep. Don't want to get too dirty on here, but I tend to "service" him while he is playing before I go to bed. If I stopped that he might come to bed. haha Doesn't change the fact that I should be able to stay up and enjoy my evening from time to time. It isn't fair.

    naaaaaice....he sounds like an unappreciative son of a bees wax. Have a chat with him about it..let him know it bugs you. Of course don't mention "well the people on MFP told me that...."

    Report back to us :)

    Roger that. I will discuss it with him in detail (minus MFP) tomorrow and see if he can not be a jerk about it. Tune in next time. :)
  • Chapter3point6
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    Ok... I"m not trying to be the kind of poster that is trying to start trouble. It sounds suspicious. Like maybe he didn't want you staying up because you might check his computer. I wonder what would happen if you stayed up and in the room with him? Last just as long as he does?

    I can see your point. That isn't the case though. He is legitimately a nerd. He plays online games and drinks. If it was something suspicious I wouldn't be as upset because then I would have something to understand and work with, but this is just plain stupid. haha

    Don't assume that he is behaving while playing online games. I got my flirt on many of times while on Pokerstars.
  • Starbuck2020
    Starbuck2020 Posts: 173 Member
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    Ok... I"m not trying to be the kind of poster that is trying to start trouble. It sounds suspicious. Like maybe he didn't want you staying up because you might check his computer. I wonder what would happen if you stayed up and in the room with him? Last just as long as he does?

    I can see your point. That isn't the case though. He is legitimately a nerd. He plays online games and drinks. If it was something suspicious I wouldn't be as upset because then I would have something to understand and work with, but this is just plain stupid. haha


    Don't assume that he is behaving while playing online games. I got my flirt on many of times while on Pokerstars.

    No doubt. He and I started our flirting on WoW haha. He plays online rpg's and such. Still....he is extremely faithful. I even tried hooking him up with a female once because I had this crazy fantasy. I know. TMI. Sorry. No dice. He would seriously rather play games for hours and "defeat the enemy". He knows that he could talk about that sort of thing with me. I am so laid back and open about sex. I love our committed relationship, but I am completely non-threatening to him with the discussion.
  • smnmltn
    smnmltn Posts: 18 Member
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    Maybe he's jealous. If he thinks you have friends and/or interests separate from him, he might be insecure about his place in your life. Even if it's total nonsense, it may very well be the game being played in his head.