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  • Starbuck2020
    Starbuck2020 Posts: 173 Member
    Yea he drinks every night.
    Thanks to everyone btw. Just talking about it makes me feel less pissed off. I was almost guilted into coming to bed, but I tried to hold my ground tonight. Finishing my episode on netflix.
  • vice350z
    vice350z Posts: 1,066 Member
    Yea he drinks every night.
    Thanks to everyone btw. Just talking about it makes me feel less pissed off. I was almost guilted into coming to bed, but I tried to hold my ground tonight. Finishing my episode on netflix.

    being able to rant does help. :hug:
  • Starbuck2020
    Starbuck2020 Posts: 173 Member
    Ok... I"m not trying to be the kind of poster that is trying to start trouble. It sounds suspicious. Like maybe he didn't want you staying up because you might check his computer. I wonder what would happen if you stayed up and in the room with him? Last just as long as he does?

    interesting to see if the web browser history is cleared every late night..lol...or if he's smart he uses the incognito window.
    incognito window aka lack of browsing history for the HOURS he is awake.

    aka "i don't want my wife finding out I look at porn" mode.

    I watch more porn than he does. lol

    and he rather stay up late playing games alone??? haha.

    lol yep. Don't want to get too dirty on here, but I tend to "service" him while he is playing before I go to bed. If I stopped that he might come to bed. haha Doesn't change the fact that I should be able to stay up and enjoy my evening from time to time. It isn't fair.
  • mollz007
    mollz007 Posts: 168 Member
    Favorite post of today:drinker:
  • Starbuck2020
    Starbuck2020 Posts: 173 Member
    Favorite post of today:drinker:

    Sweet! I am somedbody now! haha
  • vice350z
    vice350z Posts: 1,066 Member


    lol yep. Don't want to get too dirty on here, but I tend to "service" him while he is playing before I go to bed. If I stopped that he might come to bed. haha Doesn't change the fact that I should be able to stay up and enjoy my evening from time to time. It isn't fair.

    naaaaaice....he sounds like an unappreciative son of a bees wax. Have a chat with him about it..let him know it bugs you. Of course don't mention "well the people on MFP told me that...."

    Report back to us :)
  • Starbuck2020
    Starbuck2020 Posts: 173 Member


    lol yep. Don't want to get too dirty on here, but I tend to "service" him while he is playing before I go to bed. If I stopped that he might come to bed. haha Doesn't change the fact that I should be able to stay up and enjoy my evening from time to time. It isn't fair.

    naaaaaice....he sounds like an unappreciative son of a bees wax. Have a chat with him about it..let him know it bugs you. Of course don't mention "well the people on MFP told me that...."

    Report back to us :)

    Roger that. I will discuss it with him in detail (minus MFP) tomorrow and see if he can not be a jerk about it. Tune in next time. :)
  • Chapter3point6
    Chapter3point6 Posts: 1,233
    Ok... I"m not trying to be the kind of poster that is trying to start trouble. It sounds suspicious. Like maybe he didn't want you staying up because you might check his computer. I wonder what would happen if you stayed up and in the room with him? Last just as long as he does?

    I can see your point. That isn't the case though. He is legitimately a nerd. He plays online games and drinks. If it was something suspicious I wouldn't be as upset because then I would have something to understand and work with, but this is just plain stupid. haha

    Don't assume that he is behaving while playing online games. I got my flirt on many of times while on Pokerstars.
  • Starbuck2020
    Starbuck2020 Posts: 173 Member
    Ok... I"m not trying to be the kind of poster that is trying to start trouble. It sounds suspicious. Like maybe he didn't want you staying up because you might check his computer. I wonder what would happen if you stayed up and in the room with him? Last just as long as he does?

    I can see your point. That isn't the case though. He is legitimately a nerd. He plays online games and drinks. If it was something suspicious I wouldn't be as upset because then I would have something to understand and work with, but this is just plain stupid. haha


    Don't assume that he is behaving while playing online games. I got my flirt on many of times while on Pokerstars.

    No doubt. He and I started our flirting on WoW haha. He plays online rpg's and such. Still....he is extremely faithful. I even tried hooking him up with a female once because I had this crazy fantasy. I know. TMI. Sorry. No dice. He would seriously rather play games for hours and "defeat the enemy". He knows that he could talk about that sort of thing with me. I am so laid back and open about sex. I love our committed relationship, but I am completely non-threatening to him with the discussion.
  • smnmltn
    smnmltn Posts: 18 Member
    Maybe he's jealous. If he thinks you have friends and/or interests separate from him, he might be insecure about his place in your life. Even if it's total nonsense, it may very well be the game being played in his head.
  • vice350z
    vice350z Posts: 1,066 Member
    Battlefield 3 > WoW :)
  • Starbuck2020
    Starbuck2020 Posts: 173 Member
    Maybe he's jealous. If he thinks you have friends and/or interests separate from him, he might be insecure about his place in your life. Even if it's total nonsense, it may very well be the game being played in his head.

    This is probably very true. I am always pushing for him to have friends and a social life, but he would be happy if I never left the house or talked to anyone. Ugh. The issues. haha I love him so much, it is just this kind of thing that drives me crazy.
  • Starbuck2020
    Starbuck2020 Posts: 173 Member
    Battlefield 3 > WoW :)

    WoW lost my support with the latest patches and expansion. It is dead to me. haha
  • basillowe66
    basillowe66 Posts: 432 Member
    You have your rights like he has his. It's healthy to go to bed at the same time but if he only wants you to go to bed with him to pleasure him, then thats wrong. What about your needs when he stays up
  • Starbuck2020
    Starbuck2020 Posts: 173 Member
    You have your rights like he has his. It's healthy to go to bed at the same time but if he only wants you to go to bed with him to pleasure him, then thats wrong. What about your needs when he stays up

    He just wants me to go to bed so I am sleeping when he is sleeping. He acts like if he goes to bed it means bedtime for me too. Only he can stay up late apparently.
  • HSingMomto7Kids
    HSingMomto7Kids Posts: 345 Member
    No other offense to other men here but some MEN! My husband is the same exact way with some things. For my husband it is priority. All the things I try to talk with him about things being priority it is his weakness, but oh my gosh when I have not for example made a dentist appointment yet for my son it is priority. It should not be this way!!! It should be a two-way street is for sure. I am not in a good place in my marriage, so I am sure how to get your husband to listen. I always blame it on only thinking one one side of the brain though. lol
  • mama4loca
    mama4loca Posts: 181
    Ok... I"m not trying to be the kind of poster that is trying to start trouble. It sounds suspicious. Like maybe he didn't want you staying up because you might check his computer. I wonder what would happen if you stayed up and in the room with him? Last just as long as he does?

    hmmm...
  • Starbuck2020
    Starbuck2020 Posts: 173 Member
    Issue has been discussed and (I hope) resolved.
  • Starbuck2020
    Starbuck2020 Posts: 173 Member
    It was just lonlines. I pointed out how unfair it was today and he apologized.
  • ChristineMarie89
    ChristineMarie89 Posts: 1,079 Member
    wow some guys are insensitive jerks. id go out there one night when hes awake take his drink and plop down n watch tv while drinking it. xD
  • Starbuck2020
    Starbuck2020 Posts: 173 Member
    wow some guys are insensitive jerks. id go out there one night when hes awake take his drink and plop down n watch tv while drinking it. xD

    lol. I think the problem is he is very sensitive and didn't think about my needs. No worries. Problem solved. Thanks to everyone for letting me vent about it.
  • Invictus195
    Invictus195 Posts: 112
    He's guilty of something he's doing and in turn thinking you'd be doing whatever it is that he's doing if you're up late too. This is guilt being expressed. Just my $.02
  • Starbuck2020
    Starbuck2020 Posts: 173 Member
    He's guilty of something he's doing and in turn thinking you'd be doing whatever it is that he's doing if you're up late too. This is guilt being expressed. Just my $.02

    Not his personality at all, but thanks for the $.02...can I have like $20 instead :)
  • vice350z
    vice350z Posts: 1,066 Member
    so did you say something to him?

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