Terrible experince while shopping...I'm just trying to vent.
rozsbluejay
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I went to the mall with some friends of mine. After that we went to some store. As we were walking out of the store some guys that were inside their car started shouting out to my friend "hey there" "hey miss" "excuse me miss" "hey beautiful" my friend was annoyed but I kinda wanted to defend her so I turned around and he shouted "not you fat *kitten*....ugly b-i-t-c-h" I just walked away. In the end he yelled out "I still love you.....not you fatty eww" :ohwell:
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The kind of people who shout out of cars, aren't the kind of people whose opinion should upset you. They're morons. Karma will get them one day. I'm so sorry you had to go through this. :flowerforyou:0
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I wish I could get my hands on him and kick his teeth in !!!:flowerforyou:0
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This makes me so angry! Why are people so ****ing cruel!? You dont deserve that and its not true so dont believe it for a second! People like that should be euthanized. Dont let this get you down, those people arent worth ****.0
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Ugh, that's horrible. I'm sorry you experienced it. :-(
And please remember that the simple fact that you are taking steps to better yourself now makes you a thousand times more beautiful than you were back when you weren't. You're both beautiful AND determined.0 -
It's easier to lose weight than gain brain cells. And guess what...you're losing weight! Keep up the good work and write off the jerks who have nothing better to do than think up stupid insults.0
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I feel your pain. I used to get taunted by juveniles in their cars as well. You just keep doing what you're doing. They'll get theirs!0
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If there is a next time - remember that you might be fat now but they are ugly. You will NOT always be fat, but they will ALWAYS be ugly.
Keep your chin up you dont need their opinions.0 -
I went to the mall with some friends of mine. After that we went to some store. As we were walking out of the store some guys that were inside their car started shouting out to my friend "hey there" "hey miss" "excuse me miss" "hey beautiful" my friend was annoyed but I kinda wanted to defend her so I turned around and he shouted "not you fat *kitten*....ugly b-i-t-c-h" I just walked away. In the end he yelled out "I still love you.....not you fatty eww" :ohwell:
Something similar happened to me when I was walking/riding a bike on two different occasions. It's what made me afraid to exercise outside. However, you should be proud of yourself, you've lost 7 pounds! That's the size of a baby, and soon enough you will be close and closer to your goal weight. Smile and hold your head high! You're pretty now, and I can't wait to see your glow from finally reaching your goal weight and enjoying being healthy!0 -
I'm so sorry you had to go through this, I know from similar experiences how awful it is, how small they make you feel. Just think how crappy their lives and personalities are, if all they can do is make fun of people to deflect attention from how pathetic and dumb they really are. It's sad that's how some people act, but we will all get stronger and more awesome whilst they're stuck in first gear for the rest of their lives.0
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What an absolute tool... this is clearly his expression that he feels embarrassed and annoyed that your friend didn't give him the attention he wanted, and now wants to prop up his poor inflated ego by slagging someone off. It don't reflect on you at all, just him, What an idiot, don't let it get yu down. xxxxxx0
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What an *kitten*.
I have been insulted by people from their cars for years. It's like they feel safe because they can just drive off and not have to confront their own a$$holery. F them. They. Are. Not Worth. It. YOU ARE. *(*(*(*hugs*)*)*)*0 -
I am sorry to hear that this happened to you. Its such a terrable feeling and its so incredably hurtful. It amazes me the cruelty of some people that see us heavier people as " less than" others. It used to bother me quite a bit too when i would hear those kind of comments or be ignored while who ever i was with got the attention. But, remember we are doing what we can to make ourselves better people ( inside and out) and sadly you just cant fix stupid. We are one up on them!
Stay strong and hold your head high and know that you are going in the right direction! Dont let anyone , ANYONE make you feel like you are not worth it. Dont give them that power . It seems with every pound i drop my attitude and confidence gets better. It will do that for you too.
Keep going you are doing great!0 -
To be honest with you--- I used to be one of them people. Not that i would yell out obscenties to heavier set people. But I would yell mom or dad and stuff along them lines, because it made me feel better. Maybe they were doing it for them reasons?? more than likely though they were being *kitten* because some people have a big ego. But god always takes care of the good. Be proud of who ou are and dont let an idiot like him affend you, because you are perfect the way you are!!!0
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wow...that was obnoxious.
Don't let the tactless people in the world get you down!0 -
s, because it made me feel better. Maybe they were doing it for them reasons??
Course they were; the only reason people do crap like that is as a sad way to make themselves feel big, it isn't because of YOU it is because of THEM and their problem!
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What a horrible experience, I'm so sorry to hear this happened to you. Nobody should ever have to go through that.0
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The kind of people who shout out of cars, aren't the kind of people whose opinion should upset you. They're morons. Karma will get them one day. I'm so sorry you had to go through this. :flowerforyou:
In a ideal work, yes. But most a lot of overweight people don't have enough confidence to not be bothered by that kind of comments.
I have a bad temper. I think I would have walked up to his car and punched him in the face.0 -
First of all what a jerk. You should have kicked him in the balls. i know it made you feel bad but you are here trying to make yourself better. one day men will say how beautiful you are. My problem is everyone keeps asking me if i am pregnant all my weight is in my stomach. Just let it roll of your shoulders and next time think of a very sarcastic thing to say to get them back. Love yourself. Don't let others bring you down.0
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You were insulted by the kind of guys who think ladies love it when you not only shout at them from inside a car, but insult their friends. (I wonder if that car shouting strategy ever works for anyone, ever) I wouldn't worry too much about it, tbh.0
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That's awful, don't let people like that get to you.0
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If there is a next time - remember that you might be fat now but they are ugly. You will NOT always be fat, but they will ALWAYS be ugly.
Keep your chin up you dont need their opinions.
agree! what freakin twits!! you have to wonder how ugly they are - inside and out.0 -
That freaking *kitten* hole. Excuse my language. I'm so so very sorry that you had to go through that. Just be strong and keep pushing forward. I wish that I could find that idiot and b***h slap him a hundred times.0
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Ugh...that really stinks! I had an experience like this when I was out running once. A car of guys drove by and one said, "Get it girl," which I started to take as a compliment...until another guy yelled out "THUNDER THIGHS!!!!" Thankfully I used it as fuel in the moment and ran harder, but if I hadn't been at it for a while at that point I probably never would have run outside again!0
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Oh that is so terrible. I am so sorry that happened to you! Clearly you did not deserve such treatment. Try not to let it get you down. Have a better day today! I think you are beautiful.0
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Stay focused and keep doing what you're doing. For now, like the other person posted, these guys are jerks. You're working toward improving your life. You can lose the weight. These guys will always be jerks. You can get into better physical shape, but "you can't 'fix' stupid" as that comedian says, and these guys sound stupid.
Stay on track, ma. USE THIS TO FIND YOUR STRENGTH TO KEEP MOVING YOURSELF FORWARD TOWARDS YOUR GOAL.
Other people have reached their goals, small goals at first, but goals all the same. You're already here on this site, which means you want to reach your goal.
You're stronger than you think.
You can do it.
You WILL do it.
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He will see you a year from now and hit on you and you can smack him down good, or someone else will get him. Just stay the course. Kharma works in crazy ways.0
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I went to the mall with some friends of mine. After that we went to some store. As we were walking out of the store some guys that were inside their car started shouting out to my friend "hey there" "hey miss" "excuse me miss" "hey beautiful" my friend was annoyed but I kinda wanted to defend her so I turned around and he shouted "not you fat *kitten*....ugly b-i-t-c-h" I just walked away. In the end he yelled out "I still love you.....not you fatty eww" :ohwell:
Just some middle-school mentality cowardly prick who shouts out of cars because he's too cowardly to do it to your face.
Pay them no mind.0 -
Arrrrgh, I don't know you, but I want to give you a huge hug because I know how that feels. I've always been terrified of people for that reason. Nothing quite that bad has happened to me as an adult, only as a kid and from other kids. But I still remember that day.
What someone said earlier is true... it sucks that it happened, but the type of people who shout things like that from cars are not really people you should let bother you anyway. They are very obviously crappy people who don't deserve a second thought. What young guys in groups will do/say to "impress" their friends is so ridiculous. You can't take anything they say seriously, they are living jokes.
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That is terrible.! People that treat others in this manner are only insecure with themselves and need to put someone else down in order to make themselves feel better. Continue on your journey and hold your head up high. You and only you have the control right now...don't let anyone steal that control from you!0
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What a jerk. I'm sorry that happened to you. :frown:
Screw that guy. You're improving yourself, but he'll always be an idiot.0
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