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    Posts: 110 Member
    edited January 2 in Chit-Chat
    You had a bad sex life? If so, what would be the deal breaker in your relationship?


    I had to add, this isn't about me and my husband; it's steaming off a debate on Facebook. I was just curious on others responses.

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    • Posts: 734 Member
      No, I couldn't. Sex is too important. If I really liked the guy I would put in some effort to trying to get it to improve, showing him what to do etc, but if the sex is no good, I wouldn't be able to stay in it for long. It's such a huge part of a relationship and if you aren't satisfied you'll lose interest eventually, start noticing other men etc. Well, for me anyway...
    • Posts: 1,760 Member
      Just break up.
    • Posts: 110 Member
      I'm the same way. I love sex, just don't get it enough.
    • Posts: 510 Member
      Ask your self and your partner what you want from the relationship. Over time, sex changes. If you are in a relationship for great sex, the relationship may not last. If you support each other's goals and dreams, if you sync over recreational pursuits, if you share values and spiritual principles, then there is a good chance the relationship will last through a shakey period of crumby sex.
    • Posts: 329 Member
      Is he trainable?
    • Posts: 5,044 Member
      Is he trainable?

      ^^THIS! You are only 19 get to work on it!!:flowerforyou:
    • Posts: 110 Member
      Just break up.

      It's not really about me. It's steaming off a debate on Facebook. lol. Just asking to see what others think lol.
    • Posts: 6,033 Member
      Of course I'd stay... The only way to get better at sex is to practice, and I like practicing.
    • Posts: 443 Member
      Is he trainable?
      now this is a good woman! lol
    • Posts: 110 Member
      Of course I'd stay... The only way to get better at sex is to practice, and I like practicing.

      Let's say he isn't interested in sex. You all haven't had sex in about a year. What then?
    • Posts: 172
      Is he trainable?

      This! A lot of what constitutes good sex can be taught, partner willing. The process can be educational and adventurous and great fun for all concerned.

      (Partner *not* willing, sex may be the least of your priblems.)
    • Posts: 110 Member
      Ask your self and your partner what you want from the relationship. Over time, sex changes. If you are in a relationship for great sex, the relationship may not last. If you support each other's goals and dreams, if you sync over recreational pursuits, if you share values and spiritual principles, then there is a good chance the relationship will last through a shakey period of crumby sex.

      I love your answer! Very wise. :)
    • Posts: 580 Member
      sex isnt everything in a relationship....its nice...bonding etc but not all....a good relationship should be based on respect, love and the ability to communicate with other honestly....best friend kind of situation....unless its more about the other person getting it from somewhere else...whether its another woman/man or porn sites etc..... then ya it would be done!
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      This! A lot of what constitutes good sex can be taught, partner willing. The process can be educational and adventurous and great fun for all concerned.

      (Partner *not* willing, sex may be the least of your priblems.)

      If he/she isn't willing, how do you get him/her to be interested?
    • Posts: 1,200 Member
      You had a bad sex life? If so, what would be the deal breaker in your relationship?


      I had to add, this isn't about me and my husband; it's steaming off a debate on Facebook. I was just curious on others responses.
      but i don't see how that can't be improved....unless she wasn't around much ever then yea noooo.
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      Let's say he isn't interested in sex. You all haven't had sex in about a year. What then?

      i would assume something was wrong with him.

      im imagining this as my fiance....i would not leave him over this. i luff him.
    • Posts: 580 Member
      Ask your self and your partner what you want from the relationship. Over time, sex changes. If you are in a relationship for great sex, the relationship may not last. If you support each other's goals and dreams, if you sync over recreational pursuits, if you share values and spiritual principles, then there is a good chance the relationship will last through a shakey period of crumby sex.

      great answer!
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      Let's say he isn't interested in sex. You all haven't had sex in about a year. What then?

      A year? Get him to a doctor. Otherwise ... Long-term, if all he wants to be is buddies? Get him to a new apartment or at least a separate bedroom. Or at a minimum, set up a standing account at Good Vibrations.
    • Posts: 1,911 Member
      You had a bad sex life? If so, what would be the deal breaker in your relationship?

      In a year ? therapy and a physical. if he's just seriously not interested and not interested in fixing this, I couldn't continue
    • Posts: 329 Member
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      If he/she isn't willing, how do you get him/her to be interested?

      I've never met a heterosexual healthy man that isn't interested in sex. Ever.

      See a doctor, maybe somethings wrong with him.
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      i would assume something was wrong with him.

      im imagining this as my fiance....i would not leave him over this. i luff him.

      I took it as my husband also. I love him for who he is, and all he does for our family but over time I would question.
    • Posts: 496 Member
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      I've never met a heterosexual healthy man that isn't interested in sex. Ever.

      See a doctor, maybe somethings wrong with him.

      I'm sorry, do you have to be a heterosexual man to be interested in sex?
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      I've never met a heterosexual healthy man that isn't interested in sex. Ever.

      See a doctor, maybe somethings wrong with him.

      Hmm, something in the closet? :O lol.
    • Posts: 329 Member
      I would assume either he was sick or he was getting it somewhere else.
    • Posts: 209 Member
      Sex is important on so many levels.. No sex = deal breaker.
    • Posts: 8,138 Member
      It depends. If the sex is bad but he is enthusiastic, there is hope. If he just has a low sex-drive, then it probably won't improve.
    • Posts: 3,515 Member
      I don't think so. I am spoiled by my b/f. :)
    • Posts: 4,251 Member
      Depends on the reason why it was bad, and if they cared to improve it.
    • Posts: 1,436 Member
      when you are married, its for life. if you're not married, you shouldn't be having sex.
    • Posts: 6,033 Member
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      Let's say he isn't interested in sex. You all haven't had sex in about a year. What then?


      Check his text messages.
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