Would you stay in a relationship if?

Ocarina

I don't think it's a big deal. I would never force it upon someone and as a person myself I don't require it that much. I honestly think it boils down to both person's expectations. If they both keep each other happy whether there is sex or not then it shouldn't be an issue.

iAMsmiling

Been married for 17 years. A few years back, my wife's sex drive just went away.
She's been to doctors, we've been to counseling. Nothing. Nada.
I know it hurts her to feel like she feels. She doesn't "mean it." It just is.

Should I divorce the woman I love, the mother of my children, because I pretty much don't ever "get any?"

Doesn't sound like the vows I took.

magj0y

Been married for 17 years. A few years back, my wife's sex drive just went away.
She's been to doctors, we've been to counseling. Nothing. Nada.
I know it hurts her to feel like she feels. She doesn't "mean it." It just is.

Should I divorce the woman I love, the mother of my children, because I pretty much don't ever "get any?"

Doesn't sound like the vows I took.

Totally agree with you. But if I wasn't yet married, and while this may sound shallow.. if we were in our young 20s, I'm sorry..
I'm just not strong enough to do that.

I hope your wife can find some sort of solution!

iAMsmiling

If we were just dating, I'd end it. I would not commit to a life sans sex. But, once committed....