"FriendlyEscorts"

BamsieEkhaya

So...what does One do when they find out a friend/acquaintance is actually an "escort". :embarassed:

would you mention it, leave it, run and hide etc...

NOTE: I was not the one who stumbled upon this information, my sister did thanks to pop-up ads, and first thing she did when I arrived was unfortunately show me

KukuDan

Ask if they do mates rates..

gseburn

Never had to face this dilemna. I would say, don't believe every pop-up you see on the Internet. All those sites you may have posted a picture on? Well, they can be used for nefarious purposes sometimes.

kealambert

that's a very random and specific issue. one I've never heard of coming up

MiCool90

you have to be wary of pop up ads... sometimes they pull photos from recently viewed ones and put that photo in its place to make you click on it becos its someone you know... they get money for every click

also, i find it too much of a coincidence that it would pop up randomly

iWaffle

Start keeping notes for a book.

Bring it up if it topic arises in casual conversation.

BamsieEkhaya: "So, it's going to be cool this weekend."
Escort Friend: "Yeah, I hear a cold front is coming in. Time to break out the coats."
BamsieEkhaya: "Where did you get those coats? Your pimp?"

Ta2dchic20

If they're your friend, why does it matter?

Pixi_Rex

Depends on how close you are to said friend. My best friend/other close friend I would straight up ask. If it was someone I didn't really know or we just were not close I would just leave it alone and not say anything.

BuckeyeBoi

Borrow money cuz they will be out of business! J/K their life is their life, just tell them your wont join the business.

FionaAnne22

Ask if they do mates rates..

*giggle*

nbischoff15

Why do anything about it? If you are more 'acquaintances' than close friends, it is likely you aren't sharing all your personal life information with each other.
If you have a problem with escorts in general - then it is up to you to be up front with that person and explain your side of things, but overall, remember it is you who has the issue with it.
If you are concerned for their safety - then yes, say something to them.

Really though, what is the big deal if this person IS an escort?

Meatsies

I had a friend who was an escort for a while. Didn't affect our friendship at all. She's one of my absolute besties & is now all grown up and married and about to have her first baby.

_the_feniks_

If they're your friend, why does it matter?

Winner.

homerjspartan

Ask if they do mates rates..

First thing that popped into my head.......

felice03

I would say it would deserve a "mind your own business"

miadhail

So...what does One do when they find out a friend/acquaintance is actually an "escort". :embarassed:

would you mention it, leave it, run and hide etc...

NOTE: I was not the one who stumbled upon this information, my sister did thanks to pop-up ads, and first thing she did when I arrived was unfortunately show me

Well you will ask the friend/acquaintance what's the discount rate for family and friends :P hehe I kid.

Jokes aside, if I were you, I wouldn't treat him/her any different. S/he is still your friend and unless he/she ran over your dog, drugged your partner, had sex with him and then left him with HIV, and stole your car in the process, then, I won't put too much effort into thinking about this.

No one should be labelled because of what they do for a living. A job is a job. Everyone deserves respect, regardless.

slkehl

I usually just straight up ask my friends about stuff like that. I figure if they found something strange about me somewhere, I'd rather have them come to me so I can talk to them about it rather than form their own preconceived ideas.

Just tell your friend exactly what you told us-"so my sister stumbled across this popup ad for an escort service and they were using your picture..."

bugzinc

Ask if they do mates rates..

Obviously the quote of the day.
I would say, to each is own. Do your thing. Aint gonna hurt no body. It feels good. It's friday night and I just got paid.....Wait A sec...I've been listening to too much New Jack Swing...

littlelaura

you dont need to do anything about it, its not really your concern and if you care about this girl and are truly concerned then just let her know that , period... tell her you consider her a dear friend who you wish the best for and want to always be safe and happy, if you feel the need add she could always come to you with anything, sweet, simple, end of subject she doesnt need to know why your saying something kind to her.

yos314

There were a lot of cases of agencies using images without permission, I would probably bring it up in a "they are not guilty" fashion warning them that some stupid website has been using their likeness to advertise their escort agency. This way, if they are being portrayed badly, they can take it up with a lawyer or something, and if they are actually an escort, it'll be their choice whether they want to bring it up because you made it easy for them to deny it.

If its a good friend that you enjoy being around when you're around them, then it doesn't matter what they do for a living as long as they keep you out of it. The choice on whether you feel comfortable with that is always up to you (well, your sister), but you shouldn't believe pretty much anything you see on those popups.

Dub_D

Well, as long as she is a friendly one.

bugzinc

Well, as long as she is a friendly one.

In that business....probably a Very good trait to have.

BamsieEkhaya

Never had to face this dilemna. I would say, don't believe every pop-up you see on the Internet. All those sites you may have posted a picture on? Well, they can be used for nefarious purposes sometimes.

its legit...I actually checked the site bamm 7 very interesting photos and an intriguing personal thingy about herself ...

slkehl

^I wouldn't tell her that. Just say it was on a popup and you know that pics can be used without permission but you're curious. That would give her a chance to back out if she doesn't want to talk about it.

1ConcreteGirl

My best friend was actually a pretty well known "adult actress" for a while. She's got her master's in biochemistry. She's one of the smartest, funniest, best people I have ever known.

You can tell her you know. Chances are it's tough for your friend to live a life people don't know about.

Other than that, no judgment. Leave people's choices up to them.

cmriverside

Never had to face this dilemna. I would say, don't believe every pop-up you see on the Internet. All those sites you may have posted a picture on? Well, they can be used for nefarious purposes sometimes.

its legit...I actually checked the site bamm 7 very interesting photos and an intriguing personal thingy about herself ...

How does this affect your life?....is she a best friend? Probably not, or you would have known this already. I just don't see any way to bring this up in casual conversation that would end well.

TraciStivers

Never had to face this dilemna. I would say, don't believe every pop-up you see on the Internet. All those sites you may have posted a picture on? Well, they can be used for nefarious purposes sometimes.

Agreed. Someone (not necessarily a friend) may have done it on her behalf. I've done some mean **** to girls I've hated.

Contrarian

"So, I hear you're a hooker, now."

penrbrown

Nothing.

If you like them as a person it shouldn't matter what their job is. Just treat them as you always have and try, for the love of all that's good, TRY not to make jokes about their profession.

JenniBaby85

I would get a "For Sale" sign, and tape it to their bum.

mikeyboy

It's kind of like finding out they are a cab driver...... who cares.