Shaking that sassy *kitten* and getting hit on.

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  • Cameron_1969
    Cameron_1969 Posts: 2,855 Member
    I don't know how to flirt (I'm shy). . will one of you gorgeous ladies teach me?
  • joeysox
    joeysox Posts: 195 Member
    hmmm ive never been flirted with? lol not even my husband flirts with me, he wouldnt have a clue! x
  • d_Mode
    d_Mode Posts: 880 Member
    Flirting is one thing I do best...

    True story!

    Shhhh, stop tellin' all my secrets!
  • kimothy38
    kimothy38 Posts: 840 Member
    If i initiate it, Im ok with it, but if im getting hit on out of nowhere it's akward.
    This sounds like me too.
    There's a core group of 6 (mixed ages and genders) that go to circuit class and we all participate in harmless flirting. It makes the class so much more fun when there's lots of innuendo, smutty jokes and pretend come-ons.
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    Hated it when I was heavy. I thought everything from there just be something wrong with this guy to I bet he's playing a joke on me. I'd do anything to dodge it.
    Now... Love it! Problem is, I'm generally smiliey and friendly to everyone. I don't always get that I'm being hit on until its gone to an uncomfortable place. Like the old dude that tried to pick me up at the gym. Then I try and back peddle and get all flustered. Lol. Still learning!
  • EatClean_WashUrNuts
    EatClean_WashUrNuts Posts: 1,590 Member
    Hated it when I was heavy. I thought everything from there just be something wrong with this guy to I bet he's playing a joke on me. I'd do anything to dodge it.
    Now... Love it! Problem is, I'm generally smiliey and friendly to everyone. I don't always get that I'm being hit on until its gone to an uncomfortable place. Like the old dude that tried to pick me up at the gym. Then I try and back peddle and get all flustered. Lol. Still learning!

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  • elenathegreat
    elenathegreat Posts: 3,988 Member
    I don't know how to flirt (I'm shy). . will one of you gorgeous ladies teach me?

    I see what you did there...bit like teaching a fox how to eat chickens, no?
  • DontStopB_Leakin
    DontStopB_Leakin Posts: 3,863 Member
    I love being hit on. Love it. I especially love the fact that I now get hit on by the kind of guys I could only dream about in highschool.


    Not for the confidence boost, but because it allows me to point ot my wedding ring and yell, "TOO LATE, SUCKAH!" in their face.
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    I hate being hit on, it's quite annoying especially when it's by people who aren't around the same league.
  • elenathegreat
    elenathegreat Posts: 3,988 Member
    I am a born flirt, happily married, but it's almost second nature--almost like breathing;)
  • FreedomReigns
    FreedomReigns Posts: 195 Member
    Flirting is one thing I do best...

    True story!

    Shhhh, stop tellin' all my secrets!

    I will never tell :wink:
  • nickyfm
    nickyfm Posts: 1,214 Member
    I THRIVE on flirting.

    Never realised how much I missed it until I got out of a very unhealthy relationship. I didn't even look at another man during that time period, so when I was back in the real world, I was on fire LOL
  • nickyfm
    nickyfm Posts: 1,214 Member
    I hate being hit on, it's quite annoying especially when it's by people who aren't around the same league.

    I keep thinking your profile pic is a butt!! :laugh:
  • hmmm ive never been flirted with? lol not even my husband flirts with me, he wouldnt have a clue! x

    @joeysox - I find that hard to believe. You look HOT!!! in your profile pic
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    I hate being hit on, it's quite annoying especially when it's by people who aren't around the same league.

    I keep thinking your profile pic is a butt!! :laugh:

    Oh butt it is.
  • I love being flirted with... as long as they know its not going anywhere because i have my beautiful wife and she is the only one for me
  • GiGiBeans
    GiGiBeans Posts: 1,062 Member
    There's an art to flirting and when done well it's fun, when done poorly it's creepy.

    Since I'm kinda evil I like my flirting to result in giant grins and blushing.
  • feeny
    feeny Posts: 110 Member
    I suck at flirting and it makes me feel awkward....I wish I didn't always feel so reserved. Alcohol usually does the trick though :laugh: :blushing:

    haha yep this is me.
  • Married and a confirmed terrible flirt...esp when wine is involved.

    I have noticed, as a (sadly life-time) yoyo dieter that there is a threshold where the lads flirt with me waaaay more...eye contact, checking me out, chatting me up, this threshold starts at 11st (154lbs) and increases in intensity down to my goal (and previous) weight of 10st3lbs (143lbs). When I'm a UK 8/10, it's so noticable that it's even commented upon by my pals.

    In addition, I thank the porn industry for the MILF phenomenon. Nothing like a guy who is as old as jeans in my wardrobe hitting on me to make me feel young again ! :)

    (tongue planted firmly in cheek...because I'm happily married!)
  • jesse1379
    jesse1379 Posts: 239 Member
    I love being hit on. Love it. I especially love the fact that I now get hit on by the kind of guys I could only dream about in highschool.


    Not for the confidence boost, but because it allows me to point ot my wedding ring and yell, "TOO LATE, SUCKAH!" in their face.

    After reading your "About Me" section I am thinking you probably literally get hit on a lot. Like punched and kicked lol.

    Your husband did us all a favor by taking you off the market.

    True Story:)
  • downsizinghoss
    downsizinghoss Posts: 1,035 Member
    what is this "flirting" you speak of? Never tried it.
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    I never realise it when people flirt with me. I just assume that everyone wants to be my friend because I am funny and smart.
  • downsizinghoss
    downsizinghoss Posts: 1,035 Member
    I never realise it when people flirt with me. I just assume that everyone wants to be my friend because I am funny and smart.

    I just have a thing for monkeys.
  • Cranktastic
    Cranktastic Posts: 1,517 Member
    I never realise it when people flirt with me. I just assume that everyone wants to be my friend because I am funny and smart.

    I just have a thing for monkeys.

    ONE! ONE MONKEY! AH HA HA HA HAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    I never realise it when people flirt with me. I just assume that everyone wants to be my friend because I am funny and smart.

    I just have a thing for monkeys.

    And that is why we're friends. :)
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    I never realise it when people flirt with me. I just assume that everyone wants to be my friend because I am funny and smart.

    I just have a thing for monkeys.

    ONE! ONE MONKEY! AH HA HA HA HAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!

    You are KILLING me today.
  • FreedomReigns
    FreedomReigns Posts: 195 Member
    I hate being hit on, it's quite annoying especially when it's by people who aren't around the same league.

    I keep thinking your profile pic is a butt!! :laugh:

    Haha i am guilty of thinking the same thing...had to click on the pic and was wondering where the junk was hidden :bigsmile:
  • I love being hit on. Love it. I especially love the fact that I now get hit on by the kind of guys I could only dream about in highschool.


    Not for the confidence boost, but because it allows me to point ot my wedding ring and yell, "TOO LATE, SUCKAH!" in their face.

    This is the best thing I've read all day! Cheers to that!
  • MandaPaigeSparkles88
    MandaPaigeSparkles88 Posts: 1,289 Member
    I love to flirt and I love it when someone flirts with me. It's even more amazing when a guy tells you you looks absolutely beautiful. I am starting to love the comments now that the weight is coming off. So I welcome them!!
  • avir8
    avir8 Posts: 671 Member
    I only wish that I would get hit on by guys that I liked, it's awkward if a guy I don't like becuase I'm not interested. But then on the flip side I feel that the guys that I like don't like me :(