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Turn ons: Being friendly, smiling a lot, beards, absence of vanity.
Turn offs: Being totally sh*tfaced, douchey friends.
Edit: Turn off: Wearing Crocs.0 -
Turn ons: A man who is SMART. Dumb guys really turn me off... big time. A guy who is confident in himself and knows what he wants out of life, doesn't LIE (thats a huge one!!), a guy who can joke around and not be critical of himself or others. And for me with looks, I like the taller lengthy type of guy with a little bit of nerdiness in him. But I think everyone has a nerd side to them, just depends on if a man is.. man enough to show it! I've got different taste than most- but oh well. (:
Turn offs: SMOKING, guys that take pictures of themselves and post it on facebook constantly- I'm a girl, and I don't even do that. Guys that are too into themselves, guys that are rude to others to act cool in front of me or their friends. Oh, and guys that lie. Said that earler. But its huge. Can you tell I've had a cheater as an ex? (:0 -
he needs to be stable.. have a job and WANT to keep working to better his life. must have a decent amount of money so i can be a stay at home wife, with a good allowance that he gives me for things I need on a daily basis and some more. A family man. Does not go out but once a month with his boys (meaning he would rather be with me) not playing video games 24-7!!! staying home with me but actually giving me 3 hours for a movie or dinner with me then he can do his thing at home.. someone taller than me. gives me compliments.! doesnt argue or get jealous but still makes u feel as though he is protecting u and watching over u... and i like spiky hair alot. and humor is also a huge one... but communication is key to any man.... and he cant be a cheater he has to be very loyal.
that being said, dear lord please bring that type of man into my life and ask him to marry me and live happily ever after!!! hahaha... cuz im sure as hell positive that man doesnt exist... Amen...0 -
They must smell good.
They must clean their ears, I can not tolerate earwax it grosses me out.
They need to wear clean clothes, not stained( I'm referring to nonwork or workout clothes of course).
They must be polite and respectful.
They have to have a good work ethic , I don't care what their chosen profession is but they must be motivated at it, even if it is stay at home dad basically they must be a usefull member of society.
They can't be mean or nasty to anyone.
Absolutely no drugs.
The should be able to have a good time.
As far as looks my tastes run the gamut, if I showed you a line up of my former flames you would never guess the same girl dated them all lol. Blond hair, black hair, brown hair, long hair, short hair, tall, short, skinny, stocky, muscles, wirey. Whatever :bigsmile:0 -
Turn on: funny, cooking skills, shower me with compliments
Turn off: chewing sounds, telling me I am wrong in front if friends and family0 -
I love it when a guy loves his parents, is generally positive, and has a passion for life, even if he doesn't know what his career will be yet! I am a Christian, so a man with a strong faith is most important of all. It is nice when he likes to go for walks or bike rides and when he enjoys a good cuddle by the fire with an old book!
Turnoffs...showing off makes me dislike a guy instantly. It is so childish and immature. A guy who is decently confident (but not arrogant!) and who doesn't live for attention is very attractive.
One more thing...just for the record, it is NOT attractive when guys show their boxers--who wants to see that???0 -
Turn on: Cheesy jokes, doesn't take himself seriously, strong (mentally and physically)
Turn off: complaining, the phrase "is everything ok?", jealousy/hot headed0 -
Turn Ons-- Sense of humor, Music Taste, Smell, Eyes, Pays attention, outgoing, adventurous, complimentary, Cooks!
Turn Offs-- doesn't like animals/ holidays, doesn't get along with my friends, makes me feel like i need to impress him0 -
looks- an infectious smile and twinkle in the eye
personality-a good sense of humor, thoughtful, generous and chivalrous, respectful, has integrity
I have a whole list actually0 -
Attraction: Shyness, modesty, derranged sense of humor, workaholic, bookworm, likes video games, handy-men, outdoorsy (northern), real-life smarts, scientists, likes college football (my team), health conscious but not half as bad as me...
Not interested: Beach bums, over-glorifying junk food, stubbornness, poets, hippies, reckless spenders, hates dogs...0 -
He has to be family orientated, funny as *kitten*, confident just short of arrogant.
That's what I am attracted to.
Thankfully my fiance is all of these things.0 -
turn on's: OPEN - new ideas, cultures, experiences - curious about life (other than whats been said above)
turn off's - arrogance. FULL STOP. arrogance turns me off faster than you can say snap!0 -
- Humour
- Accent (preferably American. I'm weird, I know)
- Tall. Anything above 5"11 and I'm in love
- Respectful
- Smart
- Gives me space
- Outgoing
- Someone who takes care of themselves
Turnoffs:
- Bad breath
- Arrogant
- Tries to change me
- Dumb and Ignorant
- Makes me feel like I'm not good enough
- Liar
- Short guys (Sorry
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- Tries to hide me0 -
Turn on:
Funny
nice eyes
nice smile
Smart (this is different for everyone, some people are book smart, some people are street smart it's all good)
Genuine
clean
Turn off:
Smokes
Hairy
obnoxiuosness
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he needs to be stable.. have a job and WANT to keep working to better his life. must have a decent amount of money so i can be a stay at home wife, with a good allowance that he gives me for things I need on a daily basis and some more. A family man. Does not go out but once a month with his boys (meaning he would rather be with me) not playing video games 24-7!!! staying home with me but actually giving me 3 hours for a movie or dinner with me then he can do his thing at home.. someone taller than me. gives me compliments.! doesnt argue or get jealous but still makes u feel as though he is protecting u and watching over u... and i like spiky hair alot. and humor is also a huge one... but communication is key to any man.... and he cant be a cheater he has to be very loyal.
that being said, dear lord please bring that type of man into my life and ask him to marry me and live happily ever after!!! hahaha... cuz im sure as hell positive that man doesnt exist... Amen...
You just described my husband. (Except for the spikey hair). Lol! Funny thing is I wasn't out looking for someone like this, he just fell into my lap, and I lucked out!
Turn on for me: When he surprises me out of the blue to let me know he was thinking about me. His smell. The way he REALLY focuses on me when I talk, like I'm the only person in the room. The way he encourages me to reach my goals and helps to make them happen!
Turn offs: Excessive drinking, smoking, jerky friends, dishonesty.0 -
Turn on- intelligence, empathy, honesty, good with kids/animals, respectfulness, nice smile, humorous, has his own interests separate from mine.
Turn off- clingy, rude, cocky, obsessive, bad grammar/spelling, bad teeth, poor hygiene, too attractive (yes that turns me off), no motivation.0 -
Turn on : Intelligence, intelligence and intelligence
Turn off: Bad teeth0 -
A sense of humor and intelligence will turn a moderately attractive man into a god in my eyes. And I seem to have an affinity for military men, so I guess a certain amount of bravery and giving me that safe feeling helps, too.
Arrogance and a mean spirit will get you nowhere. And a lack of intelligence kills my libido. Also jealousy and poor hygiene. Nothing worse than a stinky man (unless you just worked out or something).0 -
DIdn't we just go over this a week ago?? Guys - really its different. Just as you are not attracted to the same girls your buddy might be; us girls have different taste too!!
For me personally - I am first attracted by eyes and smile is next. After talking I love a strong voice (voice should match the man) and I love a good sense of humor! Intelligent and able to speak about many different things. All these things will come before a super fit body.
Granted the eyes, body and smile is what will first get me to talk to you, but if you can't hold me in a good conversation...Bye bye!!
There are so many aspects of a man that can make him attractive or unattractive. And I think the unattractive list is much shorter to be honest!!
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Turn off: Arrogance, someone who is confident to the point that it becomes embarrassing, vain, No empathy, cocky, no care for their appearance, someone who is stuck on their x-box/games console 24/7, short (I know that's not a nice thing to say as they could have a heart of gold, but it feels weird for me, sorry), liar, commitment issues, sexist
Turn on: Good sense of humour, Caring, intelligent, honest, good with children, lovely smile, someone who loves to make me feel special, nice smell, taller than me (I am 5ft 9 so quite tall for a girl), good cook (I am a chef myself so a foodie is a good match lol) clan and tidy around the house, animal lover.
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Well, I haven't been guy hunting since I was 20 when I met my husband, so while my attractions may be different now, I can certainly remember what I always went for back then. And this is in all honesty, if someone had asked me I would have said all the things these other women are saying; but if I'm speaking the truth, I typically fell for cocky, chest puffed out bad boys. I had so many guy friends back then that were sweet, intelligent, charming and just all around really good people, that never became anything more than friends. I always went for 'that guy' the guy that everyone was waiting for him to walk into the room because he was the most interesting person around, and while some women would say that these attractions lead no where, I would have to say that for me that wasn't the case. I met my husband based on these ridiculous attractions and could not have asked for a better husband/provider/father than he turned out to be. Although, if I got a divorce tomorrow, I would probably seek out someone much different!0
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Turn-ons:
Intelligence, humor, good education, sensitivity, confidence, energy, drive, compassion, an understanding that men enjoy "male privilege," while not apologizing for being a man. Taste, or a willingness to be educated as to taste.
Turn-offs:
Poor hygiene, bad breath, any of the opposites of the traits listed above.0 -
Turn ons: Intelligence, sense of humour, manners, kindness, knows how to let loose and have fun, considerate, and treats me well.
Turn offs: Arrogance, rudeness, being boring, poor hygiene, selfishness.0 -
According to this thread I'm the perfect man... Yet there are no women beating down my door... Oh well.0
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Humor, confidence, & respect for those around him. Smelling good and looking good is just a plus
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Turn ons - intelligent, hard working, treats his mother/step-mother with respect & smells good!
Turn offs - smoking, arrogant & negative attitude
Brownie point earner - accepts & treats my kids like his own (which is why I fell so hard for my man!
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Turn on- Nice, funny, intelligent, and respectful
Turn off- Flirty, self obsessed ,smoking, drugs0
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