Is there a difference between a Cougar and a M1L_?

BehindtheScenes
BehindtheScenes Posts: 38 Member
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Just wondering...I want to be one. Now. My patience is low and my frustration is high! I need a few friends to kick my *kitten* and motivate me. Please have a warped sense of humor if I were as good at losing weight as I am at self-deprecation, I'd definitely be in stalking mode right now. Meow.
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  • cwettstain
    cwettstain Posts: 58 Member
    I'm a self-proclaimed expert on this one... There is no difference!

    Whether or not you already are one, if losing weight and toning is your goal, this site is for you. Keep up the enthusiasm and track everything you eat! You will reach your goals!
  • Chadomaniac
    Chadomaniac Posts: 1,785 Member
    hahaha a cougar is a rich older lady that basically takes financial care of her "toy boy" for sexual pleasure , a milf is a hot mom that many men would have sex with... sorted?
  • BehindtheScenes
    BehindtheScenes Posts: 38 Member
    That "rich" part leaves me out, guess my goal is milf.
  • Chadomaniac
    Chadomaniac Posts: 1,785 Member
    lol ok yes a milf is the better option
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    MILF: Is simply a mother. While most would suggest that it is the mother of a teenage child who's guy friends drool over her, it can be pretty much any mother (many strippers fall under this category, even if their kid is simply an infant)

    Cougar is somebody who usually dates (or in a relationship with) a male younger than her. While the number of years male has to be younger can be debated, I would say the age difference is at least 10 years.

    ETA: Good luck with your weight loss journey and I wish you lots of success! :)
  • Chadomaniac
    Chadomaniac Posts: 1,785 Member
    basically same sht i said
  • celshade
    celshade Posts: 131 Member
    That hair! That smile! You're already Milfing pretty hard right now, you're going to light everyone on fire when you reach your goals!
  • BehindtheScenes
    BehindtheScenes Posts: 38 Member
    Okay, definitely going for milf...I don't think I could date someone ten (or more...yikes!) years younger than me.:noway:
  • BehindtheScenes
    BehindtheScenes Posts: 38 Member
    Thank you :blushing:
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    Okay, definitely going for milf...I don't think I could date someone ten (or more...yikes!) years younger than me.:noway:

    I could be very wrong but can't you just go for ... being healthy and fit rather than labeling yourself with such names?
  • Chadomaniac
    Chadomaniac Posts: 1,785 Member
    be a milf :D lol
  • celshade
    celshade Posts: 131 Member
    Sometimes we need a couple of labels to help encourage us to reach our goals!
  • ChadB74
    ChadB74 Posts: 128 Member
    Okay, definitely going for milf...I don't think I could date someone ten (or more...yikes!) years younger than me.:noway:

    I could be very wrong but can't you just go for ... being healthy and fit rather than labeling yourself with such names?
    She clearly stated she has a different personality that isn't for everyone. So she can be fit, she can be healthy and she surely can be a MILF too :) Whatever label motivates her, so be it.......Good luck and in 20 more years, you'll graduate to cougar
  • Sarauk2sf
    Sarauk2sf Posts: 28,072 Member
    basically same sht i said

    No, actually its not. A cougar does not have to take financial care of the younger guy for sex.
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
    I think of a cougar as an older woman who tries to seduce younger men. A milf is a mom who is insanely hot but isn't intentionally trying to get attention.
  • BehindtheScenes
    BehindtheScenes Posts: 38 Member
    I think of a cougar as an older woman who tries to seduce younger men. A milf is a mom who is insanely hot but isn't intentionally trying to get attention.
    "Insanely hot" works for me!
  • kayduro
    kayduro Posts: 249 Member
    Did you happen to watch that new show on TLC tonight about the Cougars? It was like a bad train wreck that I couldn't look away from! Lol
  • Chadomaniac
    Chadomaniac Posts: 1,785 Member
    i said generally not HAVE to lol
  • mandielou1
    mandielou1 Posts: 10
    While I absolutely encourage getting healthy and fit and doing what feels right for you, at the same time, I believe that "sexy" is all in the attitude, and you seem to have plenty of it already! Don't wait! Might as well get out there are start enjoying your journey now! ;-)
  • Sarauk2sf
    Sarauk2sf Posts: 28,072 Member
    i said generally not HAVE to lol

    you are funny - and you didn't
  • BehindtheScenes
    BehindtheScenes Posts: 38 Member
    I could be very wrong but can't you just go for ... being healthy and fit rather than labeling yourself with such names?

    I could go for "being healthy and fit" rather than labeling myself with such names...but I choose not to; how many people on here say, "I want a body like (fill in the blank)? What's the difference? Just because I am setting a goal to look "insanely hot", the healthy and fit part goes without saying.
  • Chadomaniac
    Chadomaniac Posts: 1,785 Member
    i said generally not HAVE to lol

    you are funny - and you didn't
    i dont think u funny ;)
  • Sarauk2sf
    Sarauk2sf Posts: 28,072 Member
    i said generally not HAVE to lol

    you are funny - and you didn't
    i dont think u funny ;)

    I doubt you do.
  • Chadomaniac
    Chadomaniac Posts: 1,785 Member
    i said generally not HAVE to lol

    you are funny - and you didn't
    i dont think u funny ;)

    I doubt you do.
    u very serious , its only monday
  • BehindtheScenes
    BehindtheScenes Posts: 38 Member
    While I absolutely encourage getting healthy and fit and doing what feels right for you, at the same time, I believe that "sexy" is all in the attitude, and you seem to have plenty of it already! Don't wait! Might as well get out there are start enjoying your journey now! ;-)

    Thank you.
  • Sarauk2sf
    Sarauk2sf Posts: 28,072 Member
    i said generally not HAVE to lol

    you are funny - and you didn't
    i dont think u funny ;)

    I doubt you do.
    u very serious , its only monday

    Why am I the serious one? - I thought you were funny - you were not amused.
  • andiechick
    andiechick Posts: 916 Member
    I'd definitely go for MILF...I'm happily married but have been told I'm a MILF and I'm quite proud of that (who just wants to be fit and healthy....that's boring!!!).

    My hubby also has a GILF at our kids school (grandmother, lol!)

    A bit of harmless banter and eyecandy never hurt anyone, and I agree with one of the other posters, don't wait til you think you're there...you're gorgeous, go grab it now. Life is for living not watching :drinker:
  • BehindtheScenes
    BehindtheScenes Posts: 38 Member
    Wow, I never even thought of gilf...I guess I need to change my goal...I have three grand babies (one just turned two today). I am now officially setting my goal to ( insert trumpet fanfare here) GILF!!!
  • andiechick
    andiechick Posts: 916 Member
    Wow, I never even thought of gilf...I guess I need to change my goal...I have three grand babies (one just turned two today). I am now officially setting my goal to ( insert trumpet fanfare here) GILF!!!

    Yeh, you go girl!!! :wink:
  • EvgeniZyntx
    EvgeniZyntx Posts: 24,208 Member
    I'm of two minds. Why use a label that was intended to render women as objects by/and for the porn industry? The general use of MILF comes from that. There is a derogatory root to this term.
    If you are taking possession and really "owning" the sexuality behind this slang that seems fantastic. But I'd be reserved about it, after all, it is literally and initially intended qualification from the view of a (young) man; "mother I'd like ...". I'd some how think that "insanely hot" is less ... derogatory.
    Plus think of the logistics - one can be MILF material - but being a MILF literally means a lot of self-pleasure (nttawwt!).
    Pedantics aside, I often wince when I hear terms like "b!tch", "slut" used for self description (outside the bedroom) and don't see this as THAT much different. My litmus test might be what I would accept at my dinner table.
    On the other hand, use what you want, burn down social mores on the bonfires of coarse and common language. It's a living thing and I need a coffee.

    Edit: stupid autocorrect.

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