New Years Eve: Who should you be with?

bettacheckyoself
bettacheckyoself Posts: 570
edited January 7 in Chit-Chat
I am hoping you guys can help me by answering this question....

Situation: You are a Newlywed and your spouse wants to spend New Year's Eve with you and their group of friends (He/She sees friends once or twice a week) at a restaurant that has a dance floor etc.
Any problems with this? (I can add more details if required)



**New Year's Eve in this situation should be spent with........

A) Loved One only
B) Loved One with friends




**please pretend that you are the person in the situation described above if you can
Thank you :flowerforyou:
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  • deeharley
    deeharley Posts: 1,208 Member
    Loved one with friends. The more friends, the better.
  • Dexy_
    Dexy_ Posts: 593 Member
    My partner and I never do anything for NYE because we HAVE NO FRIENDS. If you have the opportunity, BE WITH FRIENDS!
  • Moosycakes
    Moosycakes Posts: 258 Member
    There's no problem with that! You can't keep your loved one all to yourself, and hanging out with a group is great on New Years- especially if it's a chance to get to know your spouse's friends. You can still have that New Years kiss ;)
  • FitBeto
    FitBeto Posts: 2,121 Member
    B.
  • SwimFan1981
    SwimFan1981 Posts: 1,430 Member
    B definitely :happy:
  • allifantastical
    allifantastical Posts: 946 Member
    B for sure.
  • athenaheim
    athenaheim Posts: 496 Member
    I'd help ya if I could but I spend it with my kids only as I am single. I would say just you though.
  • LeenaRuns
    LeenaRuns Posts: 1,309 Member
    My partner and I never do anything for NYE because we HAVE NO FRIENDS. If you have the opportunity, BE WITH FRIENDS!

    Sounds like me.

    FRIENDS!!!!
  • rybo
    rybo Posts: 5,424 Member
    B
  • BadAzzBea
    BadAzzBea Posts: 461
    B -Friends! Arent you with her 24/7? ****, id rather be with friends only :drinker: :bigsmile:
  • Siekobilly
    Siekobilly Posts: 401 Member
    Loved one with friends. It's New Year's Eve, not Valentine's Day ;)
  • lundii
    lundii Posts: 151 Member
    I would prefer A... perhaps B... but I am single.
    I spent those days with my kids for years, but now they are old enough to go to friends...
    Going to bed early is another option... but not the one I really want...
  • Becoming_A_Butterfly
    Becoming_A_Butterfly Posts: 2,534 Member
    **New Year's Eve in this situation should be spent with........

    A) Loved One only
    B) Loved One with friends

    Thre isn't any particular way New Year's Eve SHOULD be spent. I am assuming you wouldn't be posting this question unless you had an issue with the way your spouse would like to spend New Year's Eve, but my only point is, there is no rule about how to spend the evening.

    I don't like crowds or people in general, so to answer the question, I would take either A or B, as long as it was at home and only a small group of people that I actually like.
  • EmilyOfTheSun
    EmilyOfTheSun Posts: 1,548 Member
    B.
  • DMZ_1
    DMZ_1 Posts: 2,889 Member
    Irrelevant premise if boiled down to its essence. You have your midnight kiss in place, which is what really matters.
  • Eyesblu
    Eyesblu Posts: 60
    i'd say B but where are your friends..I think you should be able to spend with yours also..
  • karenjoy
    karenjoy Posts: 1,840 Member
    I think you should spend New Years eve with the one you love, but being in the company of friends at the same time makes it a party and a celebration, rather than just a night x
  • Fox_n_sox
    Fox_n_sox Posts: 283 Member
    Loved one & Friends
  • TheLittleLebowski
    TheLittleLebowski Posts: 143
    For me it would B,
    I hope you have a great time however you spend it though!
  • Minnesota_Nice
    Minnesota_Nice Posts: 414 Member
    I would do A because well there's a story....
  • IamBlackMamba
    IamBlackMamba Posts: 229
    Loved one with friends. It's New Year's Eve, not Valentine's Day ;)

    ^Yep
  • hesn92
    hesn92 Posts: 5,966 Member
    A... I don't like going out. I have to work late new years eve anyway. I wouldn't mind having a get together with friends at someone's home but I don't want to go to some stupid *kitten* club and dance.
  • smantha32
    smantha32 Posts: 6,990 Member
    For myself I vote C: Jared Padalecki. :bigsmile:
  • Redbirdz83
    Redbirdz83 Posts: 153 Member
    B! I'll be with my man and friends...good times!
  • josavage
    josavage Posts: 472 Member
    B.

    We weren't invited to any parties this year and I'm bummed. We always have so much fun when we go out. This year it's just going to be the two of us and it will be a great night but I'll still be a little sad.
  • rgohm
    rgohm Posts: 294 Member
    I say whom ever your more comfortable with. I enjoy being alone with my husband or being with him and our friends. I know my brother and his wife are spending their first New Years together with friends and family.
  • matchbox_girl
    matchbox_girl Posts: 535 Member
    Either, but I always imagined New Years spent with friends and your other half....it's a party, right?!
  • Laces_0ut
    Laces_0ut Posts: 3,750 Member
    B

    Save a for Valentine's Day.


    NYE is about groups of people drinking and having a great time.
  • NewDavenport
    NewDavenport Posts: 83 Member
    Honestly it is up to the person but if it was me, and my husband wanted to spend NYE with me and friends i would be up for it because celebrating the new year with your loved ones and friends is great and at the end of the night you home together and alone anyway and in the future you will have a great memory and later on you may not have time to spend with those friends so its good to spend time with them while you can.
  • libbymcbain
    libbymcbain Posts: 206 Member
    Either is great, it's personal preference.

    If you prefer one thing and your spouse prefers another, could you agree to take it year about? Or one year loved one and their friends, one year loved and your friends, one year cosy night for two.
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