Were you ever in a relationship where...

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  • mdyorston
    mdyorston Posts: 158
    I was in a relationship for a couple of months with a guy who claimed he was legally separated. We used to stay out all night sometimes, well into the next day. Anyway one day he came over and got in my bed to sleep (without me) and something just clicked in my head. I asked him if he had been lying to me, he said yes. I asked about what and he was like come on let me sleep! REALLY?!!! I picked up the mattress and rolled him right off the other side ! We argued for awhile because he wouldn't leave..."it's the middle of night, where am I supposed to go?" he said.....I don't know, back to your WIFE?! f'n jerk
  • 33Freya
    33Freya Posts: 468 Member
    That sucks that she lied. I tend to ask point blank, and I run from those who are separated (doesn't matter how long or how far apart they live). I tend to run if the divorce was too recent as well.
    I was an A student at the School of Hard Knocks!!
  • angelicasmommy
    angelicasmommy Posts: 303 Member
    I am incredibly naive and gullible. Not so much now because of how many people have lied to me so much.
    Anyways...I met the father of my two year old in the workplace in January of 2009. From the first day we worked together, he hit on me constantly. About 3 months later, we started going out and we actually moved in together that same weekend (I know, so stupid) We had had a threesome with a girl who was a friend of a mutual friend of ours about 3 months into the relationship. Just before our daughter turned 1, I found out he had been cheating on me with that girl for the last 5 months. He also got her pregnant. We broke up and he is still with her. Then last year around November-ish, I found out that while I was pregnant, he also slept with my best friend! We are no longer friends.
    Then a few weeks ago I found out through our mutual friend who is best friends with the woman my ex is with now that they have been sleeping together since our threesome...so basically the WHOLE relationship.
    We were only together for just under 2 years but it still pisses me off and hurts at the same time and I can't figure out HOW I didn't realize this was happening. Now, I find it very hard to trust guys at all anymore. The other night, the guy I am seeing was texting a girl from work and I got a bit angry inside, and jealous. I hate that I will always feel like this because of some *kitten*.
    OH, and when my ex and I first got together, he was still living with his ex" (he said they werent together anymore) because they both were broke and couldn't afford to live on their own yet. He told me all these stories about how she had been cheating on him blah blah and I felt bad for him. I heard something early on about how she accused him of cheating on her with me and I ignored it, thinking she was crazy because they weren't together. Now it all makes sense. I think he cheated on her with me and lied to me.

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