How overweight is TOO overweight?

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mikoodles
mikoodles Posts: 139
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I don't know man... Can you still be attracted to someone EVEN IF they're a tad pudgy? Maybe you're like me and go more for personality... Maybe not. What do you think?
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  • hearthemelody
    hearthemelody Posts: 1,025 Member
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    How overweight is TOO overweight?

    It depends - for what purpose?
  • whitneyps7
    whitneyps7 Posts: 409 Member
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    ya ve dated big guys before cause i liked who they were not wheat they looked like
  • Justkritter
    Justkritter Posts: 143 Member
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    I'd go for someone with more personality even if she's a bit over. A girl can't be judged by that IMO.
  • _DaniD_
    _DaniD_ Posts: 2,186 Member
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    For what, like diabetes errr??
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
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    Thread title is misleading.

    Are you asking at what weight is it not okay to like/love someone? :huh:
  • AllTehBeers
    AllTehBeers Posts: 5,030 Member
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    uhm. I think it comes to personal preference.

    My fiancee started dating me when I was 300 pounds. Go figure.
  • robin52077
    robin52077 Posts: 4,383 Member
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    I've been with guys from 5'2" 130 to 6'4" 350 and everywhere in between.
    For me it is NOT about height, weight, looks, or anything like that, when i decide who I love.
  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
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    I am overweight...but I just bang hot chicks. Is that what you're asking???
  • trophywife24
    trophywife24 Posts: 1,472 Member
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    I like chubby guys so....... yes? I mean like 15-20 pounds chubby, not like.. 50.. 80... 150 pounds chubby. I really dig "built fat" body types.
  • EatClean_WashUrNuts
    EatClean_WashUrNuts Posts: 1,590 Member
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    Nothing to see here....superficial is superficial.
  • _DaniD_
    _DaniD_ Posts: 2,186 Member
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  • Oishii
    Oishii Posts: 2,675 Member
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    I've never been in a position where that's mattered. I've never thought 'Hmmmm... He/she's amazing, but too big for me to sleep with.' Just never been part of the process.
  • fIashforward
    fIashforward Posts: 66 Member
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    I don't know man... Can you still be attracted to someone EVEN IF they're a tad pudgy? Maybe you're like me and go more for personality... Maybe not. What do you think?

    I MUCH prefer overweight women to normal sized, or even chubby women. The bigger the better I say - strange I know
  • mikoodles
    mikoodles Posts: 139
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    Sorry if this was a little misleading. Ive just been doing a bit of thinking about my last relationship. I know how I feel about love and relationships, but many tend to disagree. Not being superficial, I was actually dumped for being too fat, which made me feel just awesome. But it is nice to see that there are genuinely good guys out there who can appreciate a girl for who she is, not her waist size. Thats all :)
  • spiritcrusher
    spiritcrusher Posts: 326 Member
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    Pretty sure overweight means overweight.
  • Justkritter
    Justkritter Posts: 143 Member
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    Sorry if this was a little misleading. Ive just been doing a bit of thinking about my last relationship. I know how I feel about love and relationships, but many tend to disagree. Not being superficial, I was actually dumped for being too fat, which made me feel just awesome. But it is nice to see that there are genuinely good guys out there who can appreciate a girl for who she is, not her waist size. Thats all :)

    Sorry to say it but your prev relationship might have not been worth it if you were dumped for being too fat. I mean like.. I just can't even lol. Its things like that gives guys a bad name lol.
  • srcardinal10
    srcardinal10 Posts: 387 Member
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    I love my boyfriend and his little beer belly :) I can definitely say that I'm someone who is attracted to personality because I hope that no one would be so vain as to disregard me because of my weight.

    Without me it's just aweso!!!!! haha
  • mikoodles
    mikoodles Posts: 139
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    I love my boyfriend and his little beer belly :) I can definitely say that I'm someone who is attracted to personality because I hope that no one would be so vain as to disregard me because of my weight.

    Without me it's just aweso!!!!! haha

    You and your bf are adorable!!! :D I don't know. I keep telling myself weight doesn't matter, but I went on a date about a week ago and I heard from one of the guys friends that he thought I was too heavy... I mean I'm chubby, but Im really not even that big... I just feel surrounded by these superficial guys who won't give me a second look. :(
  • shorty35565
    shorty35565 Posts: 1,425 Member
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    Of course you can still be attracted to them. I find men who are muscled up, skinny, average and a little pudgy attractive. I find up to 25% body fat in men attractive. I guess it all depends on how he looks with the weight. Plenty of men like pudgy girls too. Everyone is different. Ur x is an *kitten*. Don't let it get u down!
  • mikoodles
    mikoodles Posts: 139
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    If anything though, this thread has proved me wrong. Obviously there are quite a few guys out there who are very accepting... I'm probably just looking in the wrong places

    and thanks shorty35565 :) Im definitely starting to figure that out..

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