2 simple questions I need help with?

psuLemon

Be happy with what YOU think it beautiful/acceptable. If you learn to be confident in yourself you will exude it, and THAT is what people are attracted to. The people who are attracted to looks alone don't matter. Honestly? If you think people are going to judge you based on your THIGHS, those are emotional issues. It might sound like I'm coming off harsh, but that's my opinion.

I never said I wasn't confident, I just wanted to know what other people think too, what's so terrible about that?
And as for people attracted to looks alone, very few people are only going to find someone attractive because of looks, or not find them less attractive if they're *****es, but looks are what get you started, what get's someone to want to start knowing you more often then not, yes sometimes you know someone already and then as you get to know them better you start thinking about them in a more romantic sense. But usually you see someone, or someone sees you and you want to get to know them and then you do and if they ALSO have a great personality that meshes well with yours and they agree and find you mututally attractive, you have something there.

And I an tell you no guy is going to measure your thighs. And if you are toned and muscular, guys will not shy away from you. Nothing is sexier than a fit girl, regardless if her legs have muscle or not. I can tell you from my perspective, I would never go near a girl that looked like Skeletor and I personally think a lot of models are hideous due to their eating disorders. Fit is sexy, like the below thread. And she was big in the lower end. Also, guys noticed many other areas on your body before the thighs.


http://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/2011/07/21/meet-staci-your-new-powerlifting-super-hero/