Not Nice NSV

TinGirl314

I just don't think it's worth spouting opinions where they're not wanted. The OP has reached her goal (Go you!) but for some of us it takes longer. I'm 26 almost 27 and I'm still 40 pounds over. Not to mention one biscuit/cake/crisp/pastry is not going to kill anyone. Maybe she saved her calories for that in the morning? The point is...who is anyone else to know?

If the comments weren't received positively then where IS the positive?

If someone at work told me to put the cookie down, I would tell them to mind they're own business.

MightyDomo

If someone at work told me to put the cookie down, I would tell them to mind they're own business.

You are much stronger than I! I would be willing to bet that I would walk away without it and break down and cry... but I come from having my weight be made fun of a lot by people who should have supported me growing up.

TinGirl314

If someone at work told me to put the cookie down, I would tell them to mind they're own business.

You are much stronger than I! I would be willing to be that I would walk away without it and break down and cry... but I come from having my weight be made fun of a lot by people who should have supported me growing up.

Pftt...hehe. Being a female who used to be 350 pounds...it's not strength, it's a BS shield.
Though if I'm completely honest it probably would have made me cry when I was alone, so I feel you.

BranMuffin947

I agree with you!!

The other day at work I was looking at the chocolate.. I picked my hand up to grab a bar & one of the cashiers (who I'm only friendly with, I couldn't even tell you her name and who doesn't even know I'm watching my weight) said something along the lines of, "tempting, but you'll regret it later.. I know" lol and I thought she was a saint sent from heaven haha I didn't go for the chocolate =P

Maybe one day that woman will appreciate it, I know I did.

yoovie

yeah this has been happening to me lately too. makes me kind of stabby. my boss is my biggest critic and it doesnt help that im always actually undressed and facing her while she drapes fabric on me. ...



you lost more weight

im sorry

youre making my job difficult

im sorry

dont you ever eat?

not when im on my period

you need to stop dieting

im not dieting

then why are you still losing weight

im not, im losing inches

its the same thing

actually...

brianna hold still oksana go get her a bagel

Treadmillmom1st

You know all your points are valid, I do feel a bit bad now, our office is lighthearted and full of banter I never dreamt for a moment she'd be offended and for the same token she probably didn't realise she came across as defensive.