Just plain MEAN!

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  • holly1283
    holly1283 Posts: 741 Member
    You may want to talk to a therapist. Not trying to offend, but it may help.
    I agree with this. This is too much anger.
  • lizlkbg
    lizlkbg Posts: 566
    Maybe it was because I grew up so FAT that now I'm a complete semi-psycho *****. I mean, I am demonic sometimes. I'm unapologetic and almost incapable of caring about people I don't know. Does anyone else have an obscene amount of hostility to just little things? I mean you go ******* crazy sometimes, and later wonder WHY you got so ANGRY, and stayed that way for so long? Sometimes I simply don't care about people or their plight. I don't get any pleasure off of it, but I don't care. What makes an entire room cry, has zero effect on me. Am I just mean?

    I am absolutely not qualified in any way to say this, but you sound depressed. Detachment is part of depression. Inability to feel empathy or sympathy. And, seriously, this is a pretty crappy way to go through life, So I agree with those pushing therapy, and I would look into meds too. Be happy and connected. It's more fun that way.
  • lizlkbg
    lizlkbg Posts: 566
    Try doing something kind for someone when you don't have to. Just little things. Smile at someone who looks lonely. Let someone go ahead of you in line etc. I think you will be amazed at the positive response you will receive. You sound like someone who has put up a lot walls so that you don't get hurt again.

    THIS. But do it with an unconditional attitude. I used to get upset when people did not respond to my efforts to be polite and kind, and then I realized that no matter how they responded, *I* was still doing the right thing and striving to be the person I want to be. And the biggest thing ever to keep in mind is that while you generally cannot control someone else's behavior, you can with very little exception control you reaction to it.

    *kitten*'em. Be the person you WANT to be.
  • twill68
    twill68 Posts: 84
    hi wow you sound like you have had a tough go of things in your life! i'm sorry for that", everyone has things they have to deal with. but being overweight doesn't mean that it's everyone Else's fault, so being heartless angry wont make you feel better, you have to move forward, and reach out to others, one's that care about (YOU).. then you can learn to care about yourself!!! try it :wink:

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