Fill your hole / holes

Skinny_minny_mo
Skinny_minny_mo Posts: 1,272 Member
in Motivation and Support
What you fill your holes with will determine your happiness.

We all have holes. We all need to fill them. Sometimes we fill them with people. Sometimes with food. Sometimes with shoes. Try this. Try filling your holes with verbs instead of nouns. Fill your holes with experiences.

I think many of us have a habit of desperately filling our emptiness with external things. And by doing so, we believe it or he or she will complete us. But if we do this, we will begin to lose ourselves because we are filling ourselves with projections instead of our truth. There is no stretch.

If we fill our emptiness with experiences, trips, dates, alone time, rides, workouts, building, creating, expressing, what scares us, excites us, makes us feel alive, even relationships as long as we are not filling it with the person, we will start to find ourselves.

A hole is not supposed to be filled with something or someone.

It’s a space for life.

An invitation to discover

you.

- Angry

i adore the angry therapist and had to share :heart:
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  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,466 Member
    Air tight.
  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
    um
  • drmerc
    drmerc Posts: 2,603 Member
    filling holes makes me happy
  • Alex_is_Hawks
    Alex_is_Hawks Posts: 3,499 Member
    I like my holes full.
  • WinnerVictorious
    WinnerVictorious Posts: 4,733 Member
    i call shenanigans on this thread title.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    You mean like... with jelly?



    *doughnuts on the brain*
  • Skinny_minny_mo
    Skinny_minny_mo Posts: 1,272 Member
    i call shenanigans on this thread title.

    tsk tsk dirty minds!
  • Chief_Rocka
    Chief_Rocka Posts: 4,710 Member
    As they say in the US Navy, there is no wrong hole.
  • doorki
    doorki Posts: 2,576 Member
    Damn, someone beat me to airtight. Are you only interested in holes or are hands and armpits also accessible?
  • LuckyLeprechaun
    LuckyLeprechaun Posts: 6,296 Member
    Filling holes is recommended.
  • maab_connor
    maab_connor Posts: 3,927 Member
    i call shenanigans on this thread title.

    shenanigans has been called. the counsel will now meet...
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    You rang?
  • Skinny_minny_mo
    Skinny_minny_mo Posts: 1,272 Member
    As they say in the US Navy, there is no wrong hole.


    sooo drop any soap lately? :tongue:
  • Skinny_minny_mo
    Skinny_minny_mo Posts: 1,272 Member
    i call shenanigans on this thread title.

    shenanigans has been called. the counsel will now meet...

    there is a DEEPER message here people. Focus!
  • doorki
    doorki Posts: 2,576 Member
    i call shenanigans on this thread title.

    shenanigans has been called. the counsel will now meet...

    there is a DEEPER message here people. Focus!

    DEEPER? Well, that would depend on the crew as well as the equipment and the environmental capacity.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    i call shenanigans on this thread title.

    shenanigans has been called. the counsel will now meet...

    there is a DEEPER message here people. Focus!

    I like this chick! :laugh: :laugh:
  • IntoTheSky
    IntoTheSky Posts: 390 Member
    A deeper message about the holes? Perhaps it is time to take a hiatus on filling them?
  • Windy_
    Windy_ Posts: 1,012 Member
    I need someone to fill my holes O.o
  • BeccaLevine
    BeccaLevine Posts: 315 Member
    i call shenanigans on this thread title.

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  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,393 Member
    I agree. I could use a long vacation on a beach. . . with or without holes. Okay, without. Don't want to break an ankle.
  • Windy_
    Windy_ Posts: 1,012 Member
    As they say in the US Navy, there is no wrong hole.

    Funny....I say that too!
  • Cait_Sidhe
    Cait_Sidhe Posts: 3,150 Member
    A hole is not supposed to be filled with something or someone.
    Um... Heh...
  • AngryDiet
    AngryDiet Posts: 1,349 Member
    So you're saying that we shouldn't fill our holes with people or things which stretch us?

    That seems a bit too generalized.

    I think it's a personal decision. What might fit one person's holes might dangerously stretch another's.
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    I enjoy helping people fill holes...
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    I fill mine with beer, cheese, and cured meats.
  • Skinny_minny_mo
    Skinny_minny_mo Posts: 1,272 Member
    Damn, someone beat me to airtight. Are you only interested in holes or are hands and armpits also accessible?

    as the post says, this is .."An invitation to discover you... "

    it's all in your hands :smile:
  • doorki
    doorki Posts: 2,576 Member
    i call shenanigans on this thread title.

    shenanigans has been called. the counsel will now meet...

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  • _Elemenopee_
    _Elemenopee_ Posts: 2,665 Member
    Not all of my holes require filling...to each their own
  • iAMsmiling
    iAMsmiling Posts: 2,394 Member
    "Any old port in a storm...any old hole."
  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
    I will make sure to let my husband know . . . and make pie (I like pie).

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