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  • angdpowers
    angdpowers Posts: 311 Member
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    Said
  • CapsFan17
    CapsFan17 Posts: 198
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    My husband was 23 when we started dating and I was his first girlfriend. Don't give up, it will happen when its meant to. :flowerforyou:
  • angdpowers
    angdpowers Posts: 311 Member
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    Rejection is part of a single man's life. Join the club. Even the best looking men get rejected all the time. Sometimes the girl is not rejecting YOU, they are rejection the situation. Don't take it personally, and don't be bitter. This just part of life.

    Go where the girls are, cast a wide net, be friendly, be interesting, learn how to make small talk, try to understand their point of view.

    dude, she is out there somewhere, wondering where on earth you are....make sure you aren't in the basement playing COD instead of meeting her.

    Said it PERFECTLY!! You keep doing the same thing, you get the same results!!

    I'm obviously not a guy but it ALWAYS happens when you AREN'T looking for it!
  • jr1985
    jr1985 Posts: 1,033 Member
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    Hang in there man... they say nice guys finish last... but they usually finish with a hot wife and an nice bank account... give it time!
  • fatnomore201220132014
    fatnomore201220132014 Posts: 130 Member
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    Hey, you're not alone. I'm 23 and I've never had a boyfriend. Im in no rush either :)
  • sudowpa2
    sudowpa2 Posts: 70
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    Saying and doing are two different things.....

    It just seems like it doesn't exists where I live.... I live in a Military town... If you are not supporting the benefits you really don't get the second look. I know that it sounds bad, but its true. Been living here for 23 years plus I have been in the military...

    I think I just need to leave this city and move to a bigger city where my odds are better.
  • fbmandy55
    fbmandy55 Posts: 5,263 Member
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    The man I am with is my 3rd, yes 3rd real boyfriend. I am going to be 26 in a few months. :tongue: I find that 'when you stop looking" the really do find you.
  • iceqieen
    iceqieen Posts: 897 Member
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    People who keep telling him to stop playing games obviously don't know all that many who play...

    *a gamer who knows plenty of people who are social AND play games.. AND have met their romantic partner through games*


    to the OP: as has been said many ways now - keep meeting people, and things will happen.
  • lebac
    lebac Posts: 63
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    Yeah, wait for 15-20 more years until you get desperate... or indifferent.
  • Artemis00diana
    Artemis00diana Posts: 90
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    Im 23 and have never had a boyfriend either ;) dont worry Im sure its gonna be worth the wait
  • faster_than_flash
    faster_than_flash Posts: 114 Member
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    You'll be fine. The longer you wait - the more girls (and guys) settle on what they want.

    Soon you'll be able to hook anyone ;-)
  • bearkisses
    bearkisses Posts: 1,252 Member
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    People who keep telling him to stop playing games obviously don't know all that many who play...

    *a gamer who knows plenty of people who are social AND play games.. AND have met their romantic partner through games*


    to the OP: as has been said many ways now - keep meeting people, and things will happen.

    yeah, this happens, but not by sitting and gaming by yourself. i would recommend going to some cosplay crap but that may be too far out of some people's bubbles.
  • bearkisses
    bearkisses Posts: 1,252 Member
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    all you single people should just pair off already....
  • missbrayapple
    missbrayapple Posts: 11
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    Don't feel bad... I never had a wife or girlfriend who ever treated me with respect. She stepped all over me because I was too nice.


    Just goes to show that I will never be that nice again..... Nice guys will always finish last.

    Wow yea dude with this woman-hating mentality you WILL always finish last. I dated plenty of douches in my life but it was the guy that was sweet, respectful and inexperienced that stole my heart. all women (even those that don't want to admit it) want a romeo on some level. even if the most romantic thing he does is buy a cheesy card at valentines day it means he's tried.

    Yes there are girls that treat good guys badly. we call those little girls. any real woman will appreciate a true kindhearted man.
  • gonzo2802
    gonzo2802 Posts: 15
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    Here's a link where you might meet some. I guessed Albuquerque but you can just change the location to fit your needs.

    http://albuquerque.craigslist.org/w4m/

    Are you trying to help him get a girlfriend or an escort? :embarassed:
  • jenny95662
    jenny95662 Posts: 997 Member
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    I did not have my first boyfriend till I was 21 years old when I lost weight and felt better and had confidence :)
  • PatrickSwayzesGhost
    PatrickSwayzesGhost Posts: 300 Member
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    Here's a link where you might meet some. I guessed Albuquerque but you can just change the location to fit your needs.

    http://albuquerque.craigslist.org/w4m/
    Are you trying to help him get a girlfriend or an escort? :embarassed:
    A "girlfriend experience". :bigsmile:
  • appelsiinipuu
    appelsiinipuu Posts: 97 Member
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    Ya know what they say: Picky and Lonely are two best friends. :wink:

    I have to crack up when I hear my friends say they want to be loved for who they are but yet want that person to be hot, rich and well rounded.

    I know what you mean! Sometimes it sure seems that the longer someone is single, the pickier they keep getting.. determined to find that 'perfect' one.
  • sissiluv
    sissiluv Posts: 2,205 Member
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    Rejection is part of a single man's life. Join the club. Even the best looking men get rejected all the time. Sometimes the girl is not rejecting YOU, they are rejection the situation. Don't take it personally, and don't be bitter. This just part of life.

    Go where the girls are, cast a wide net, be friendly, be interesting, learn how to make small talk, try to understand their point of view.

    dude, she is out there somewhere, wondering where on earth you are....make sure you aren't in the basement playing COD instead of meeting her.

    SO THIS. I don't care how cute you are, if you're a total stranger approaching me on the street asking if I want to go out somewhere, it's just not happening. I'd be a whole lot more pliant to trading numbers if you tried to get to know me, and I got to know you, first. Hence why small talk is such a good thing.
  • sudowpa2
    sudowpa2 Posts: 70
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    I don't hate women... I just see the red flags a lot clearer. I guess I am more careful. Nothing wrong with wanting to protect yourself. Sorry if what I said was taken out of context.

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