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I have two children at the moment, but see my 6 year old every second weekend. So me and my husband have the baby of 5 months now and we cant decide if we want another child. I have a lot of mixed feellings about it.
I have always wanted 2 kids in the house and would like to try for a girl, but I dont know if I want to put my body through it again. How many of you have had 3 full term pregnancies and regained your bodies back? More importantly how much loose stomach skin do you have after 3 pregnancies? I am not one of those lucky ladies that dont get marks or my skin just shrinks right back to normal.
I have loose skin after 2 pregnancies and am afraid of the more deflated balloon look around and falling over my belly button. I know the older you get the less elastic your skin becomes so dont even want to imagine what my stomach might look like after another pregnancy.
I know it sound like a selfish reason not to have another child, but I know I wont like myself if my skin is even more saggy than it is at the moment and know I wont ever be able to go for a tummy tuck.
Whats the pro's and cons of one or more children?
Are all only children spoilt ?
Oh and please if you want to leave a rude or sarcastic message - please rather not leave any at all thanks.
I have always wanted 2 kids in the house and would like to try for a girl, but I dont know if I want to put my body through it again. How many of you have had 3 full term pregnancies and regained your bodies back? More importantly how much loose stomach skin do you have after 3 pregnancies? I am not one of those lucky ladies that dont get marks or my skin just shrinks right back to normal.
I have loose skin after 2 pregnancies and am afraid of the more deflated balloon look around and falling over my belly button. I know the older you get the less elastic your skin becomes so dont even want to imagine what my stomach might look like after another pregnancy.
I know it sound like a selfish reason not to have another child, but I know I wont like myself if my skin is even more saggy than it is at the moment and know I wont ever be able to go for a tummy tuck.
Whats the pro's and cons of one or more children?
Are all only children spoilt ?
Oh and please if you want to leave a rude or sarcastic message - please rather not leave any at all thanks.
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Oh and please if you want to leave a rude or sarcastic message - please rather not leave any at all thanks.
You can't tell me what to do.0 -
I have loose skin after 2 pregnancies and am afraid of the more deflated balloon look around and falling over my belly button. I know the older you get the less elastic your skin becomes so dont even want to imagine what my stomach might look like after another pregnancy.
I know it sound like a selfish reason not to have another child, but I know I wont like myself if my skin is even more saggy than it is at the moment and know I wont ever be able to go for a tummy tuck.
If this is your primary concern or one of them, I'd say stick with what you have. Enjoy your two beautiful children. There are many people in this world that can't even have one.0 -
I know it sound like a selfish reason not to have another child, but I know I wont like myself if my skin is even more saggy than it is at the moment and know I wont ever be able to go for a tummy tuck.
Perhaps you should stop now. You really shouldn't even have the possibility to direct any resentment towards a child for making your skin saggy.0 -
Oh and please if you want to leave a rude or sarcastic message - please rather not leave any at all thanks.
You can't tell me what to do.
LIKE +10000 -
generally the rule of thumb is, if you have to ask these questions on a public fitness site forum, you're better off saying NO.
so just NO.0 -
If you're so unsure about having another child that you're asking strangers for pros & cons, then don't have another child.0
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I have loose skin after 2 pregnancies and am afraid of the more deflated balloon look around and falling over my belly button. I know the older you get the less elastic your skin becomes so dont even want to imagine what my stomach might look like after another pregnancy.
I know it sound like a selfish reason not to have another child, but I know I wont like myself if my skin is even more saggy than it is at the moment and know I wont ever be able to go for a tummy tuck.
If this is your primary concern or one of them, I'd say stick with what you have. Enjoy your two beautiful children. There are many people in this world that can't even have one.
AGREE!0 -
If you're so unsure about having another child that you're asking strangers for pros & cons, then don't have another child.0
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generally the rule of thumb is, if you have to ask these questions on a public fitness site forum, you're better off saying NO.
so just NO.
^^^^ Agree with Alex0 -
Kids suck, sell the ones you have and go on vacation!0
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I know it sound like a selfish reason not to have another child, but I know I wont like myself if my skin is even more saggy than it is at the moment and know I wont ever be able to go for a tummy tuck.
Perhaps you should stop now. You really shouldn't even have the possibility to direct any resentment towards a child for making your skin saggy.
My thoughts exactly. I am dying for kids, and I don't care what it might do to my body. If they aren't worth it to you, then don't bring them into this world. They don't ask to be born.0 -
Is it rude or sarcastic to say that it is sad that you are even asking this? It's a baby...a beautiful wonderful thing, and you are worried about your skin? It is what it is...you bring blessings into the world, and then you do your best to kick but, and not worry about it.0
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I have loose skin after 2 pregnancies and am afraid of the more deflated balloon look around and falling over my belly button. I know the older you get the less elastic your skin becomes so dont even want to imagine what my stomach might look like after another pregnancy.
I know it sound like a selfish reason not to have another child, but I know I wont like myself if my skin is even more saggy than it is at the moment and know I wont ever be able to go for a tummy tuck.
If this is your primary concern or one of them, I'd say stick with what you have. Enjoy your two beautiful children. There are many people in this world that can't even have one.
This...a 1,000 times this.0 -
Selfish to worry about loose skin :huh:0
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Oh and please if you want to leave a rude or sarcastic message - please rather not leave any at all thanks.
You can't tell me what to do.
Also this. Free country (and site)0 -
You won't be young forever. As you age, your breasts will sag and your skin will become more loose whether or not you have any more children.
Personally, I will still be loving and enjoying my seven children long after my looks have faded.0 -
I know it sound like a selfish reason not to have another child, but I know I wont like myself if my skin is even more saggy than it is at the moment and know I wont ever be able to go for a tummy tuck.
Perhaps you should stop now. You really shouldn't even have the possibility to direct any resentment towards a child for making your skin saggy.
^^^This
I'm of the opinion that you should that this sort of decision should be based solely on whether you feel your family is complete, or not. But really, if you are that concerned about your body afterwards, you probably shouldn't have more children.0 -
I have two children at the moment, but see my 6 year old every second weekend. So me and my husband have the baby of 5 months now and we cant decide if we want another child. I have a lot of mixed feellings about it.
I have always wanted 2 kids in the house and would like to try for a girl, but I dont know if I want to put my body through it again. How many of you have had 3 full term pregnancies and regained your bodies back? More importantly how much loose stomach skin do you have after 3 pregnancies? I am not one of those lucky ladies that dont get marks or my skin just shrinks right back to normal.
I have loose skin after 2 pregnancies and am afraid of the more deflated balloon look around and falling over my belly button. I know the older you get the less elastic your skin becomes so dont even want to imagine what my stomach might look like after another pregnancy.
I know it sound like a selfish reason not to have another child, but I know I wont like myself if my skin is even more saggy than it is at the moment and know I wont ever be able to go for a tummy tuck.
Whats the pro's and cons of one or more children?
Are all only children spoilt ?
Oh and please if you want to leave a rude or sarcastic message - please rather not leave any at all thanks.
You seem like a great mom. If you are worried so much about loose skin maybe you should adopt.0 -
crank em out like puppies!
Then when you get a reality tv show out of it you can afford skin reduction surgery.0 -
crank em out like puppies!
Then when you get a reality tv show out of it you can afford skin reduction surgery.
Yes!!!0
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