Spouse Trying to Sabotage Weight Loss
Hello - looking for some help and support. My wife and I have both been losing a lot of weight recently and have been pretty successful counting calories.
I've noticed that she's been getting a lot more "male" attention and it's starting to make me uncomfortable. I'm not the jealous type but does anyone have suggestions for how I can sabotage her weight loss? Like, change the settings on the food scale, or ?
I've noticed that she's been getting a lot more "male" attention and it's starting to make me uncomfortable. I'm not the jealous type but does anyone have suggestions for how I can sabotage her weight loss? Like, change the settings on the food scale, or ?
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I suggest you take over all food preparation duties and add a few extra tablespoons of olive oil to everything she eats.
Olive oil is good for you, so you don't have to feel bad about it because she'll end up healthy-fat, not unhealthy-fat.0 -
sounds like a plan.0
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Please stop wasting the internet.0
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Tell her you like the big booty b!tches.0
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You're very insecure and you really need to work on your self-esteem instead of conniving to ruin your spouses success.0
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Add some sugar to everything she drinks.0
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I suggest you take over all food preparation duties and add a few extra tablespoons of olive oil to everything she eats.
Olive oil is good for you, so you don't have to feel bad about it because she'll end up healthy-fat, not unhealthy-fat.
I don't want to gain weight too though - - I just want to keep the upper hand, if that makes sense?0 -
get 'er pregnant. that will give you a dual benefit, as you can then extract her HCG and use it to aid your dieting.0
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Just break up.0
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I would recommend adding a coating of oil or spray starch to all of her food, she'll never even know what hit her.0
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[/quote]I suggest you take over all food preparation duties and add a few extra tablespoons of olive oil to everything she eats.
Olive oil is good for you, so you don't have to feel bad about it because she'll end up healthy-fat, not unhealthy-fat.
I don't want to gain weight too though - - I just want to keep the upper hand, if that makes sense?
Completely. That's why I said add it to everything SHE eats. If you prepare/serve the food, she'll never know.0 -
get 'er pregnant. that will give you a dual benefit, as you can then extract her HCG and use it to aid your dieting.
This is also good advice. That'll give you a solid nine months on her.0 -
I don't really understand most of these comments - I don't need jokes I'm just looking for serious ideas. If you think I'm a bad person or whatever that's fine you don't have to comment.0
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get 'er pregnant. that will give you a dual benefit, as you can then extract her HCG and use it to aid your dieting.
This is the best advice ever, just end the thread now.0 -
I've noticed that she's been getting a lot more "male" attention and it's starting to make me uncomfortable.
Do you mean that this excites you? I'm not sure what you're trying to say here.0 -
Applaude her success!
Love Your Wife!~
Become more secure in yourself!
Respect Your Wife!~
Communicate with you spouse!
Find happiness in each other!
Been there.. doing that... It's not easy. It's a struggle every day. But if you don't talk, communicate and trust you could really damage your marriage! I have lost 130 plus pounds.... He has never had a weight issue in his life. He is supportive, loving but insecure. I can understand why. We communicate and work on it one day at a time. But if I found out he was not supporting me and actually sabotaging my health.... well.. the out come would not be pretty! That's a whole lot of broken trust.
Good luck my friend.0 -
Pretend like you're brining home a box of Dunkin Donuts because you love her.
The pretending you just love someone and want to do nice things for them will get her everytime. Make Mac&cheese for dinner, LOTS of extra butter. Candied yams, but tell her they're sugar and fat free. SHe will SWOON over you cooking. You'll get laid and she'll get fat.
More importantly, why didn't you tell me you were married when I sent all those pics?0 -
How dare she!
You deserve better.
Maybe just shave her head in her sleep?0 -
ur not a bad person,its just disgusting that you would sabotage your own wife like this. If you start a thread, then you can't get upset if someone doesn't agree with you, or when someone makes jokes. I think its funny lol0
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I don't really understand most of these comments - I don't need jokes I'm just looking for serious ideas. If you think I'm a bad person or whatever that's fine you don't have to comment.
Really? really? reeeeeeeeeeally?0 -
Really? Dont try to sabatoge her weight loss. For one, if she truly loves you she will not leave you because she lost all this weight. Have trust in your relationship and be proud that you are the lucky guy with this good lookin girl
Tell he she looks good and tell her how you feel. I am sure she will understand. But, do not try to sabatoge her weight loss. Her weight loss is leading to a longer and healthier life, more time to spend with you!! 0 -
ur not a bad person,its just disgusting that you would sabotage your own wife like this. If you start a thread, then you can't get upset if someone doesn't agree with you, or when someone makes jokes. I think its funny lol
Woah, there is no need to attack the OP. Negative comments like this are hardly productive. Aren't we all here for the same thing? To sabotage our more successful partners?0 -
This \m/Just break up.0 -
Applaude her success!
Love Your Wife!~
Become more secure in yourself!
Respect Your Wife!~
Communicate with you spouse!
Find happiness in each other!
Been there.. doing that... It's not easy. It's a struggle every day. But if you don't talk, communicate and trust you could really damage your marriage! I have lost 130 plus pounds.... He has never had a weight issue in his life. He is supportive, loving but insecure. I can understand why. We communicate and work on it one day at a time. But if I found out he was not supporting me and actually sabotaging my health.... well.. the out come would not be pretty! That's a whole lot of broken trust.
Good luck my friend.
^^^^^ THIS!
If she ever found out you want to (or are trying to) sabotage her, you might find yourself alone. Then you don't have to worry about being jealous of your wife because you won't have one.0 -
Hello - looking for some help and support. My wife and I have both been losing a lot of weight recently and have been pretty successful counting calories.
I've noticed that she's been getting a lot more "male" attention and it's starting to make me uncomfortable. I'm not the jealous type but does anyone have suggestions for how I can sabotage her weight loss? Like, change the settings on the food scale, or ?
first off, you really need to get some control over your castle there, bub. why are you allowing your wife to walk outside alone in the first place? the house don't get spic and span by itself. she needs to be home. i get that she has to use some of the allowance you give her to go grocery shopping, but if you tell her she has to go in the late morning/early afternoon, she won't get any male attention because all the men will be at work.
secondly, it's "loosing weight" not "losing weight". get your grammer together, chief.0 -
Add some sugar to everything she drinks.
^ this for the win. lots and lots of sugar.
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EXACTLY!!!!!Applaude her success!
Love Your Wife!~
Become more secure in yourself!
Respect Your Wife!~
Communicate with you spouse!
Find happiness in each other!
Been there.. doing that... It's not easy. It's a struggle every day. But if you don't talk, communicate and trust you could really damage your marriage! I have lost 130 plus pounds.... He has never had a weight issue in his life. He is supportive, loving but insecure. I can understand why. We communicate and work on it one day at a time. But if I found out he was not supporting me and actually sabotaging my health.... well.. the out come would not be pretty! That's a whole lot of broken trust.
Good luck my friend.0 -
I've noticed that she's been getting a lot more "male" attention and it's starting to make me uncomfortable.
Do you mean that this excites you? I'm not sure what you're trying to say here.
Now thats hot0 -
You know, when my husband starts to weigh less than me, I break out the heart-shaped chocolate boxes. Nothing says "I'm better than you" like watching the spiral of self-doubt that comes from 2 lbs of truffles.
Really warms the cockles of your heart.0 -
Well get those male to make out with your wife while you watch
I really don't see a problem.0
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