Gentlemen, what qualities do you like in Ladies?

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  • Spartan_Maker
    Spartan_Maker Posts: 683 Member
    Pretty, smart, kind.
  • ts1717
    ts1717 Posts: 101 Member
    Yoga pants!
  • dough21
    dough21 Posts: 216 Member
    That she likes me as much as I like her. That is all.
  • gioisa75
    gioisa75 Posts: 242 Member
    That she likes me as much as I like her. That is all.

    This! And being smart does not hurt
  • liesevanlingen
    liesevanlingen Posts: 508 Member
    fairness? i thought my hubby was the only one who thought that is important. I'm not fair. not really into it. i beleive in "customizing" my friendships/relationships/business offerings to meet people's specific needs/wants/dreams.

    that's so weird, but I guess I am the oddball out as far as fairness, i thought he was weird. maybe it's a result of hearing my daddy always say how "life isnt' fair" and i just ran with it and spun it to being an ok thing.

    i consider fairness like a fantasy like disneyland and all hearts and flowers and like being a realist makes life easier to live.

    well cross me my sister and any daughters I might have off your list.

    That IS fair. It's very much not fair to treat everyone the same, because they're not. What you're doing is far more "fair" than measuring out the same number of chocolate sprinkles on two cookies, for example. I have four kids, all of whom have their own specific needs or desires and I work with that. If one kid wants guitar lessons and I buy him a guitar, I don't buy one for everybody else.
  • chica6578
    chica6578 Posts: 76 Member
    im f***ng crazy... jealous as hell, (but i dont blow up about it), smart only when it comes to books and subjects learned inside of them, but trying to figure my way out of a paper bag, forget it. (little common sense) << But i have a boyfriend, and i let him know how i was before hand. ... so im not sure how i managed to snag one hahahaa. maybe kindness and honesty was high on his list cause im honest to a T..... and he often comments me for being kind / thoutful. ::shrugs:: i dunno. lol
  • Boogage
    Boogage Posts: 739 Member
    All that matters is that there has to be 'a spark' between myself and them. If someone is beautiful on the inside then their outside becomes beautiful in my eyes too
  • browneyedbeaute
    browneyedbeaute Posts: 172 Member
    Gentlemen, serious? Are there any here? Lmao.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    I like bisexual, attention *kitten* mongering funny cute girls.


    I said smart and funny earlier, but I will add quirky/cute. Not sure how to explain it, but those that seem a bit off or "touched" always interest me.
  • ts1717
    ts1717 Posts: 101 Member
    Confidence! Good Dancer. Sultry smile...Experience when needed!!!!
  • ninjakristin
    ninjakristin Posts: 28
    wow....I'm a chic and the first thing I thought a guy would say about the title: "what qualities do you like in ladies?" would be something along the lines of .... well you get the idea :wink:

    I had thought of this as well.
  • BecauseicanHan22
    BecauseicanHan22 Posts: 59
    What an interesting thread....Haha. Didn't guess any of the answers!!
  • gbbhey
    gbbhey Posts: 188
    a pulse is good
  • marinebiologist_girl
    marinebiologist_girl Posts: 300
    What about lesbians/bisexuals? I'm asexual but I'm more attracted to women's bodies, and men's personalities. I think it's universally agreed that everyone likes boobs, and that modesty is typically a good trait, but also the ability to believe in what your have, and who you are.
  • BigAlfrn
    BigAlfrn Posts: 173 Member
    Brains, beauty, boobs, booty and a mute button.
  • ElliieMental
    ElliieMental Posts: 189
    Money
    Boobs
    Legs
    Face
    Money
    Good in bed
    Hot
    Cooks REALLY well
    Cleans
    If she can speak, that's a plus but not certainly not required. But only in moderation.
    Not too dumb
    Really hot.

    I think that covers it.

    You sound sooooo single :laugh:
  • Okapi42
    Okapi42 Posts: 495 Member
    What about lesbians/bisexuals? I'm asexual but I'm more attracted to women's bodies, and men's personalities. I think it's universally agreed that everyone likes boobs, and that modesty is typically a good trait, but also the ability to believe in what your have, and who you are.

    Whew, so it's not just me! I think that's why I tend to make friends with men more than women.
  • Anthonydaman
    Anthonydaman Posts: 854 Member
    Confidence, and very little make up
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    Ability to make a him submit or off the wall batsh_t crazy
  • trojanbb
    trojanbb Posts: 1,297 Member
    Money
    Boobs
    Legs
    Face
    Money
    Good in bed
    Hot
    Cooks REALLY well
    Cleans
    If she can speak, that's a plus but not certainly not required. But only in moderation.
    Not too dumb
    Really hot.

    I think that covers it.

    You sound sooooo single :laugh:

    Don't rub it in. But there are women who fit my description. Somewhere out there, she exists. and she will clean for me, and cook for me, and look damn good doing it.
  • MSmooth747
    MSmooth747 Posts: 55 Member
    NOT CRAZY!
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    Pulse and parts.
  • weelousmurf
    weelousmurf Posts: 37
    Brilliant personality
    Open minded
    Oozing confidence
    Beautiful face
    Incredible humor
    Excellent people skills
    Sexiness
  • jbutterflye
    jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
    Money
    Boobs
    Legs
    Face
    Money
    Good in bed
    Hot
    Cooks REALLY well
    Cleans
    If she can speak, that's a plus but not certainly not required. But only in moderation.
    Not too dumb
    Really hot.

    I think that covers it.

    Meh.
  • weelousmurf
    weelousmurf Posts: 37
    Money
    Boobs
    Legs
    Face
    Money
    Good in bed
    Hot
    Cooks REALLY well
    Cleans
    If she can speak, that's a plus but not certainly not required. But only in moderation.
    Not too dumb
    Really hot.

    I think that covers it.


    Awww man.....iv already got a BF! Dammit.
  • rsm1972
    rsm1972 Posts: 283
    1. Great personality. Also known as inner beauty. It is how a woman makes a man feel comfortable being around her. An easy going and down to earth attitude are what most men seek first when they get to know a woman.

    2. Good sense of humor. This is always part of a man's list. Men enjoy being with someone with whom they can share a good laugh together. It is important that you can get the joke and laugh rather than be insulted about it.

    3. Reliability. Men appreciate women who are reliable and do what they say. Be predictable in a way that they know you are dependable and can be trusted.

    4. Good listener. It is a rare skill that is highly appreciated by most. Being able to listen to what they have to say and to give appropriate feedback or advice is a great plus to win a man's heart. It gives them the sense of comfort, motherly feeling.

    5. Be un-materialistic. Men get turned off with women who are high maintenance and squeeze out of their pockets. While it is the true nature of a man to want to provide, being milked for a woman's personal interest is a different story.

    6. Capabilities and independence. As much as men enjoy being a woman's hero, they appreciate their women to be capable and independent in life. Men like their women to be presentable in front of their family and friends, someone they can be proud of.

    7. Physical appearance. It is down the list but it is also one of the things men look for in a woman. Survey shows that most men do not prefer a woman with a super model body. They prefer women with proportional, healthy composure that are looking after themselves well. It does not mean women need to spend fortunes on beauty maintenance, it is more like personal care and how they present themselves.


    8. Be your self in what ever you do, Be real !!
  • jesz124
    jesz124 Posts: 1,004 Member
    Money
    Boobs
    Legs
    Face
    Money
    Good in bed
    Hot
    Cooks REALLY well
    Cleans
    If she can speak, that's a plus but not certainly not required. But only in moderation.
    Not too dumb
    Really hot.

    I think that covers it.

    You sound sooooo single :laugh:

    Don't rub it in. But there are women who fit my description. Somewhere out there, she exists. and she will clean for me, and cook for me, and look damn good doing it.

    Right, yes thats fine, but one of us needs to get on a plane for this thing to happen....:love::laugh:
  • Sox90716
    Sox90716 Posts: 976 Member
    Confidence, a twisted sense of humor and patience. 3 of the many qualities my angelic spouse possesses!
  • michaela4910
    michaela4910 Posts: 544 Member
    Down to earth
    Positive attitude
    Able to be a lady but also hang comfortably with the guys
    Able to encourage others without pandering to them if they need a kick in the *kitten*
    Sense of humor a must
    Intelligent without being a know it all
    Spiritually minded
    Sensitive to the needs of others especially the weak and beaten down souls we encounter.
    Strong but with a need or desire to be held.
    Independent.
  • sudowpa2
    sudowpa2 Posts: 70
    4 Limbs and a Heartbeat...

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