Pregnancy 2010 - Week 13

00Angela00

Jalara - Thanks for asking, I'm feeling pertty good. I rarely feel nauseas, but stil vomit every once in awhile in the morning. I won't even feel sick, it's kind of strange. I'll eat breakfast and will get up and do a couple of things and then will gag ... and then vomit. haha, pregnancy is so weird. I'm glad to be feeling better though. After last Sunday I keep getting scared over every little pain. Yesterday we went to the Sounders soccer game and on the way I was having really bad pains and I couldn't remember if it was the same as the cramping I felt when I bled. I ended up being a little constipated and it was fine, but I was really scared! *sigh, I haven't felt the baby move since that one time too, so I'll feel better once I feel that little body moving and stretching and kicking. :-)

Randy and I are working on our finances which has proven to up my stress level as well. :-( That and school is enough for me to try and figure some way to relax my body. We have about $20,000 in debt which is about a third of our annual income, so it's a big deal. Two of our three debts have interest rates of over 27% and 18%!!! So we really really really need to get those paid off since we're drowning in interest. Has anyone read the bood "Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey"? It's incredible, super motivational and totally practical. We're going to start doing Dave Ramsey's method again, but it still feels overwhelming trying to plan for a baby at the same time. I feel like there's so much to spend on baby! Anyway all that just happened yesterday so we'll see how our first week goes.

Zekesmom

Happy Easter to all:)
Been pretty busy this week so I haven't had much time to come on here and post. I'm down 2.8lbs for the week and hoping next week is this good too. We're having mexican food for supper which I think will be better for food than ham.

adegonia

I LOVED FPU. We managed to pay off my credit cards and now just have the house and 2 car payments. The hardest part is sticking with it (we bought a new truck last Monday.) You can do it though once you get the debt snowball going you breathe much easier.

I am super excited yesterday my DH decided that we don't need to wait until August to start trying!! I found the closest dumpster and chucked my remaining pills in there before he could change his mind. When I got pregnant with my daughter my sister had just found out she was pregnant (they were born 25 days apart.) My sister is now 7 weeks pregnant but is bleeding and having cramps like mentioned in this thread. She goes in today to see if she is still pregnant. I am so emotionally torn right now excited, worried, hopeful. I just hold on to God's promise in Romans 8:28 that all things work for the good of those who love the Lord and are called according to his purpose"

sboothe24

Kiffypooh- me and my husband have been trying to get pregnant for almost 3 years now and I've had 3 miscarriages and possibly a 4th that wasnt confirmed. But I do know that some bleeding and spotting in early pregnancy is normal. Sometimes its old blood (like from implantation). Some cramping is also normal as long as it isnt in your lower back and as long as it isnt constant nagging pains. But if at any time you feel nervous and uncertain, go to the doctor. Lots of changes are happening right now and every pregnancy is different so there is no telling what symptoms you will have if any. Congrats on being pregnant and for the time being relax and enjoy the fact that you have concieved and had almost made it to 7 weeks so far. It's a blessing so enjoy every single minute I hope I helped ease your mind

kiffypooh

I LOVED FPU. We managed to pay off my credit cards and now just have the house and 2 car payments. The hardest part is sticking with it (we bought a new truck last Monday.) You can do it though once you get the debt snowball going you breathe much easier.

I am super excited yesterday my DH decided that we don't need to wait until August to start trying!! I found the closest dumpster and chucked my remaining pills in there before he could change his mind. When I got pregnant with my daughter my sister had just found out she was pregnant (they were born 25 days apart.) My sister is now 7 weeks pregnant but is bleeding and having cramps like mentioned in this thread. She goes in today to see if she is still pregnant. I am so emotionally torn right now excited, worried, hopeful. I just hold on to God's promise in Romans 8:28 that all things work for the good of those who love the Lord and are called according to his purpose"

That is so exciting!!!! I'm sending baby dust your way.

Will you post what happens at your sisters appointment today. My dr called and she is out sick today so they had to move my appointment to 2:45 tomorrow. This has been the longest weekend ever and I want to scream, but what can I do? I asked if there was anyone in the office today that could help me find out what's going on, but no one is in there. I'm trying to relax and although I had cramping and some blood clots yesterday I feel much better today. It's nothing like my normal period or even remotely close to my last miscarriage, so there's a little glimmer of hope left. 2:45 tomorrow can not come fast enough. Best of luck to your sister!!

kiffypooh

Kiffypooh- me and my husband have been trying to get pregnant for almost 3 years now and I've had 3 miscarriages and possibly a 4th that wasnt confirmed. But I do know that some bleeding and spotting in early pregnancy is normal. Sometimes its old blood (like from implantation). Some cramping is also normal as long as it isnt in your lower back and as long as it isnt constant nagging pains. But if at any time you feel nervous and uncertain, go to the doctor. Lots of changes are happening right now and every pregnancy is different so there is no telling what symptoms you will have if any. Congrats on being pregnant and for the time being relax and enjoy the fact that you have concieved and had almost made it to 7 weeks so far. It's a blessing so enjoy every single minute I hope I helped ease your mind

I'm sorry for your struggles, it's so frustrating when it comes so easily to so many other people. I am truly blessed with my amazing daughter and will always be thankful for her. I want to grow my family, but I would always be happy if it were just her, me and my hubby (our dog too). Thank you for the support. I just want my appointment to get here so I know where I'm at.
Best of luck to you!!!! and it does ease my mind a little. Thank you!

00Angela00

I'm so frustrated right now, sometimes I swear I feel like I can't do anything right. If I do what will make my coworkers happy than it's not necessarily the best for the patients or docs, and if I do what makes the docs happy my coworkers are pissed ... etc etc etc. I'm so sick of work place drama! Grow the F up!

adegonia

Kiffypooh-apparently she lost the baby last night. The doctor confirmed it today. She told me that she knew that she lost it before she went. She had sharp pains Friday, Cramps and spotting Saturday, and physically lost it Sunday night. The doctor told her on Saturday that it's not abnormal to bleed a little but I think she knew what was happening was beyond normal.(This was going to be her 4th baby) I feel just aweful for her. She is my bestfriend. I am going to wait to tell her we are trying because I don't want to hurt her. UGGHH!

Sorry I don't mean to make the mood so heavy in here. I am excited to officailly be trying and my prayers go out to all the Mommies and soon to be Mommies in the group!


Edited to add- Sis called from the doc apparently this was implantation bleeding and she is not 7 weeks but 4 weeks. She must have tested positive 2-3 days after conception and has high hormones....maybe twins

kiffypooh

Angela - Sorry to hear work sucks. Sounds like a frustrating situation, I hope it gets better.

Adegonia - So did she or didn't she? I'm confused by your update.

tahmed

Angela - I am sorry to hear about your work. I am in a similar situation with several people who think that acting like 14 year olds is acceptable. It is so very frustrating.

Jalara - Are you able to start working out again yet? How are you feeling? Did the absess go away, or do you have to go in again?

So I think I am officially stuck. I really haven't gained or lossed anything in over a month now (bouncing between 194-196). This is what happened last year. The minute I hit 194, I got stuck. I gave up last year, and I am really worried that I am going to give up again. I was really set on being 170 before starting to TTC. But I am nowhere close, and now I am less than 3 months away from trying, and I haven't made much progress. I am really trying to stick with it though. I am working out more than ever, and I am staying within my calories, eatting my exercise calories.....I just don't know what to do. I have read a lot of the posts on plateus, and have tried a couple of the suggustions, but it is so frustrating not seeing any progress when I am working so hard! Anyone have any advice, or have been in my position?

adegonia

Kiffypooh-We still don't know for sure. She is still bleeding. They checked her hormone levels this morning and she will find out later if she is still pregnant....what a rollercoaster.

kiffypooh

Kiffypooh-We still don't know for sure. She is still bleeding. They checked her hormone levels this morning and she will find out later if she is still pregnant....what a rollercoaster.

You and your sister are in my thoughts today!!!

kiffypooh

Angela - I am sorry to hear about your work. I am in a similar situation with several people who think that acting like 14 year olds is acceptable. It is so very frustrating.

Jalara - Are you able to start working out again yet? How are you feeling? Did the absess go away, or do you have to go in again?

So I think I am officially stuck. I really haven't gained or lossed anything in over a month now (bouncing between 194-196). This is what happened last year. The minute I hit 194, I got stuck. I gave up last year, and I am really worried that I am going to give up again. I was really set on being 170 before starting to TTC. But I am nowhere close, and now I am less than 3 months away from trying, and I haven't made much progress. I am really trying to stick with it though. I am working out more than ever, and I am staying within my calories, eatting my exercise calories.....I just don't know what to do. I have read a lot of the posts on plateus, and have tried a couple of the suggustions, but it is so frustrating not seeing any progress when I am working so hard! Anyone have any advice, or have been in my position?

Have you been sticking to program pretty consistently? I find sometimes a cheat day (not super over board) will jump start my weight loss again. Or if I haven't been drinking a lot of water. Have you changed up your exercise routine lately? Just some thoughts.

tahmed

Angela - I am sorry to hear about your work. I am in a similar situation with several people who think that acting like 14 year olds is acceptable. It is so very frustrating.

Jalara - Are you able to start working out again yet? How are you feeling? Did the absess go away, or do you have to go in again?

So I think I am officially stuck. I really haven't gained or lossed anything in over a month now (bouncing between 194-196). This is what happened last year. The minute I hit 194, I got stuck. I gave up last year, and I am really worried that I am going to give up again. I was really set on being 170 before starting to TTC. But I am nowhere close, and now I am less than 3 months away from trying, and I haven't made much progress. I am really trying to stick with it though. I am working out more than ever, and I am staying within my calories, eatting my exercise calories.....I just don't know what to do. I have read a lot of the posts on plateus, and have tried a couple of the suggustions, but it is so frustrating not seeing any progress when I am working so hard! Anyone have any advice, or have been in my position?

Have you been sticking to program pretty consistently? I find sometimes a cheat day (not super over board) will jump start my weight loss again. Or if I haven't been drinking a lot of water. Have you changed up your exercise routine lately? Just some thoughts.

I am hitting the water like crazy, and am running to the bathroom just as much:blushing: But maybe I should try to change my workout. I typically do 30 minutes on the elliptical and 10 minutes of weight training (alternating arms/legs). I have been trying to up the intensity of the cardio, but maybe I need to walk/jog on the treadmill or somthing. Thanks for the suggustions.

adegonia

I ate whatever I wanted for 3 day and then when back to counting and it was enough to get me over the hump. I had been so discourged because I lost down to 141 then back up to 143. I'm down to 140 and holding now. The theory is it shocks your system of diet mode and when you go back to eating right you lose again. It was my last attempt before giving up but it worked for me. Let us know and good luck!

PS-Thanks Kiffypooh for your kindness. As of right now her levels aren't increasing so things aren't looking so good. She will know for sure Friday.

shoppingqueen34

So we went to get our first ultra sound today and got some really great pics! We also found out what we are having....... A GIRL! So excited and kind of shocked. Secretly thought it was a boy, but so excited!!!!

kiffypooh

Shoppingqueen - VERY exciting. I didn't realize I wanted a girl (when I was pregnant with my daughter ) until they told me I was pregnant with a girl. I always thought I wanted a boy, but I was SO excited I guess I was wrong :laugh:

So, went to the appointment today and there is no baby. We had another miscarriage and have to wait 2-3 cycles to start trying again. We are doing good, we a re truly lucky to have our daughter. I guess the nice thing about the weekend is I got to deal with a lot of stuff before hand and now I have my hubby home for 2 days to help me with our daughter. Thank you all for your support and just being here all weekend to listen, it made a huge difference in things for me, thank you!!!! :flowerforyou: Trying to look at the bright side and that is that I get to continue getting healthy for my current and our next child. Anyone want to set some weight loss goals with me for the end of June? I'm leaning to 20 lbs loss, but need to really look at the numbers and see if they are realistic or not. Who's in???

Caliwaters25

Hey everyone sorry I have been MIA in the last week. It was spring break and just worked lots of overtime. I think I may have gained a 1lb because of all the stress eating. I finally found a prenatal vitamin I am going to try. I am excited because my husband and I decided to TTC this month. I am excited but I want to keep a level head in case I don't get pregnant right away just because I don't want to be disappointed. If we are still doing challenges let me know. Thanks

kiffypooh

Hey everyone sorry I have been MIA in the last week. It was spring break and just worked lots of overtime. I think I may have gained a 1lb because of all the stress eating. I finally found a prenatal vitamin I am going to try. I am excited because my husband and I decided to TTC this month. I am excited but I want to keep a level head in case I don't get pregnant right away just because I don't want to be disappointed. If we are still doing challenges let me know. Thanks

Which prenatal have you decided on. I'm about to run out of mine and was thinking I wanted to get a good one this time.

shoppingqueen34

Shoppingqueen - VERY exciting. I didn't realize I wanted a girl (when I was pregnant with my daughter ) until they told me I was pregnant with a girl. I always thought I wanted a boy, but I was SO excited I guess I was wrong :laugh:

So, went to the appointment today and there is no baby. We had another miscarriage and have to wait 2-3 cycles to start trying again. We are doing good, we a re truly lucky to have our daughter. I guess the nice thing about the weekend is I got to deal with a lot of stuff before hand and now I have my hubby home for 2 days to help me with our daughter. Thank you all for your support and just being here all weekend to listen, it made a huge difference in things for me, thank you!!!! :flowerforyou: Trying to look at the bright side and that is that I get to continue getting healthy for my current and our next child. Anyone want to set some weight loss goals with me for the end of June? I'm leaning to 20 lbs loss, but need to really look at the numbers and see if they are realistic or not. Who's in???

KIFFY - I'm so sorry! I'm thinking of you and wishing you nothing but the best!! Get back on track with your goals and treat yourself to something good. You deserve it!

You're right about the girl....I thought I wanted a boy, but when the tech said girl all I could think of was fun, pink dresses. LOL

00Angela00

congrats shoppingqueen on the girl! We wanted a boy when we found out we were pregnant and then as it got closer and we were looking at stuff I started wanting a girl ... everything is so cute! But we got our boy so we'll do girl next time. haha

jalara

The new week is up! I'll see you all there!

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