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UsedToBeHusky
UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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Help me out.

So let's just say, hypothetically, that a woman you know seems interested. She has sent you a friend request on FB and after accepting, you have chatted briefly, but you are still only mildly interested. What should she do to get you more interested?

Should she:

A. Just admit that she is crushing on you and ask you out.
B. Wait for you to pursue her.

Option C... send you nekkie pics. (I'm just kidding!)
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  • todd6977
    todd6977 Posts: 400 Member
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    A
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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    Thanks. Hopefully some others will share some opinions, but I appreciate your help.
  • teamdj1
    teamdj1 Posts: 265 Member
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    A-is good

    Just me but i would rather the lady make the first move. :flowerforyou:
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
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    D. Flirt with you more to see if any interest sparks.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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    D. Flirt with you more to see if any interest sparks.

    Ah... that's the tricky part... not a lot of flirting has transpired. Just non-verbal cues.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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    Still hoping for more male perspective... bump.
  • ScatteredThoughts
    ScatteredThoughts Posts: 3,562 Member
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    A
  • Shabadu
    Shabadu Posts: 211
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    A
  • resistance_freak
    resistance_freak Posts: 899
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    so do you see each other in person from time to time?
  • trojanbb
    trojanbb Posts: 1,297 Member
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    a. this seems kind of obvious...
  • rcadams97
    rcadams97 Posts: 106
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    A.
  • jmc0806
    jmc0806 Posts: 1,444 Member
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    A
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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    so do you see each other in person from time to time?

    Only on rare occassion. And we work together so it's even less often that we could talk privately.
  • sunsnstatheart
    sunsnstatheart Posts: 2,544 Member
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    A
  • freshvl
    freshvl Posts: 422 Member
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    C for sure
  • lbmore33
    lbmore33 Posts: 1,013 Member
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    A...but why are you waiting...just tell him how you feel ((he already know ur interested))
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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    A...but why are you waiting...just tell him how you feel ((he already know ur interested))

    I've been in this position before and the guy lost interest when I attempted to pursue.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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    This is what happens to women when you play head games. An otherwise confident woman suddenly has no idea how to approach a man she is interested in. But seeing as the decision seems to be unanimous, I'll definitely be fessing up. But now the question is when?

    He finished the brief convo on FB with a "have a good weekend" so I'm thinking approaching him before Monday might give him the wrong impression.

    Thoughts on timing?
  • DaddyCrossfit
    DaddyCrossfit Posts: 35 Member
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    Just non-verbal cues.

    From you or him?
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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    Just non-verbal cues.

    From you or him?

    Both.

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