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polarsjewel

If you texted your girlfriend or boyfriend and they didn't bother to respond to you for two days, how would you react?

This happened to me recently and when I asked if they received the text, I was told "Yes" I asked why there was no response and got "No idea"

Personally, I think it's a pretty s hitty way to treat someone you say you love...

What do you all think?

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spade117

What was the txt? Was it a question?

corn63

So you didn't talk to your significant other for 2 days?


You have bigger problems than an unnoticed/returned text message.

hbrittingham

Sometimes I'll email my husband or message him on facebook and he doesn't respond. I asked him why and he said he didn't think he needed to because we had seen each other since or talked on the phone.

Has this boyfriend/girlfriend talked to you since you sent the text? Did you ask an actual question or did you just send a "hey, how you doing" type of text?

quirkytizzy

The "No Idea" part would make me angry. As per the rest, it depends on how well established the relationship is.

MinnieInMaine

Call them and talk about it. I have a friend who is horrid with email and text - she just doesn't care for it and gives the simplest answer she can get away with. So it's much easier to just pick up the phone (even though I'm not a phone talker) and have a conversation and get it over with.

oregonzoo

It would be done. I hate to say that. But there is a lack of respect there, that is much needed in a loving healthy relationship. Unless of course there was a reason for this like him being out of country/state... abducted by aliens... being audited....

moustache_flavored_lube

This seems like an appropriate response

n2thenight24

I get crazy when it takes him more than 2 minutes. 2 days? Hack his fb page, email, myspace. Find out what the mf'ers up to.

Bethie_B

I would think that person is not my boyfriend/girlfriend....

dinosnopro

Depends. Does my wife know about said girlfriend ? If yes then I would be pissed. If she doesn't know then I would say I dodged a bullet.

_Elemenopee_

My opinion would be to seek help.

jnichel

Just break up.

RosscoBoscko

Not to be the bearer of doom, but when that happened to me, the response I got when finally got hold of them was to be dumped!!

CaddieMay

Burn his house down.

76tech

Does he know he's your boyfriend?

perfectingpatti

If you texted your girlfriend or boyfriend and they didn't bother to respond to you for two days, how would you react?

If I hadn't heard from my boyfriend for two days, I would question the relationship.

ami5000psu

Are you sure you're his girlfriend?

BlackStarDeceiver

Only invest emotion in people that invest it back in you. Don't waste your time on people that don't.

theCarlton

Not talking for 2 days, and then the "no idea" part signifies a distancing to me. If this is the first time, I wouldn't be alarmed. But if it isn't, I'd be distancing myself as well. You can always leave when you don't like the way a partner is treating you. Good luck.

AngelicxAnnihilation

I haven't spoke to my guy in 2 days almost but I know that he just got a job offer and was going a few hours away. Unless you guys had some sort of communication like that where he said he had to go do something or he is going to hang out with whoever, I would recommend thinking about leaving him. Especially if he is or has made a habit out of doing this to you because it's really not okay.

HopefulLeigh

If you texted your girlfriend or boyfriend and they didn't bother to respond to you for two days, how would you react?

This happened to me recently and when I asked if they received the text, I was told "Yes" I asked why there was no response and got "No idea"

Personally, I think it's a pretty s hitty way to treat someone you say you love...

What do you all think?

I frequently text my husband and get no response. Usually the reason is that he's busy. No idea is generally a response that means, "No idea. " He may have thought he responded. He may have been busy. It might not have been important to him to respond. Frankly, if it's that earth shattering, I'll call him.

n2thenight24

Burn his house down.

Omg, I was gonna say this, but decided to keep it a little less crazy. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

stephdeeable

Cats make great pets.

Momf3boys

I think that you already know the answer to your question but you're looking for people to justify it. Personally...if I don't hear from my SO for 2 days something is wrong....forget not answering the text message..that's probably the least of your worries.

polarsjewel

Let me give a little background

It was a long distance relationship. We've been dating since September, but have not seen each other since November. She was my girlfriend, and yes my husband knew about it :blushing:

It makes me said that this happened, but I think the long and short of it is, that she's just not that into me

Lifting_Knitter

Forgot? Sometimes I forget to text back.

infamousmk

How long have you guys been dating? Did you ask a question or say something that would definitely warrant a response? Have you talked about that subject since? Did you already check his text messages?

iulia_maddie

He answered "no idea"? He is not that interested. Move on. Or burn his house down. Whatever.

jnichel

Forgot? Sometimes I forget to text back.

I don't text back on purpose. I hate texting. Of course, my wife knows this and only texts me when it's either really important or she doesn't expect a response.