An Opinion please

polarsjewel
polarsjewel Posts: 1,725 Member
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If you texted your girlfriend or boyfriend and they didn't bother to respond to you for two days, how would you react?

This happened to me recently and when I asked if they received the text, I was told "Yes" I asked why there was no response and got "No idea"

Personally, I think it's a pretty s hitty way to treat someone you say you love...

What do you all think?
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  • _noob_
    _noob_ Posts: 3,306 Member
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  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,466 Member
    What was the txt? Was it a question?
  • corn63
    corn63 Posts: 1,580 Member
    So you didn't talk to your significant other for 2 days?


    You have bigger problems than an unnoticed/returned text message.
  • hbrittingham
    hbrittingham Posts: 2,518 Member
    Sometimes I'll email my husband or message him on facebook and he doesn't respond. I asked him why and he said he didn't think he needed to because we had seen each other since or talked on the phone.

    Has this boyfriend/girlfriend talked to you since you sent the text? Did you ask an actual question or did you just send a "hey, how you doing" type of text?
  • quirkytizzy
    quirkytizzy Posts: 4,052 Member
    The "No Idea" part would make me angry. As per the rest, it depends on how well established the relationship is.
  • MinnieInMaine
    MinnieInMaine Posts: 6,400 Member
    Call them and talk about it. I have a friend who is horrid with email and text - she just doesn't care for it and gives the simplest answer she can get away with. So it's much easier to just pick up the phone (even though I'm not a phone talker) and have a conversation and get it over with.
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    It would be done. I hate to say that. But there is a lack of respect there, that is much needed in a loving healthy relationship. Unless of course there was a reason for this like him being out of country/state... abducted by aliens... being audited....
  • moustache_flavored_lube
    moustache_flavored_lube Posts: 849 Member
    This seems like an appropriate response
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  • n2thenight24
    n2thenight24 Posts: 1,651 Member
    I get crazy when it takes him more than 2 minutes. 2 days? Hack his fb page, email, myspace. Find out what the mf'ers up to.

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  • Bethie_B
    Bethie_B Posts: 292 Member
    I would think that person is not my boyfriend/girlfriend....
  • dinosnopro
    dinosnopro Posts: 2,177 Member
    Depends. Does my wife know about said girlfriend ? If yes then I would be pissed. If she doesn't know then I would say I dodged a bullet.
  • _Elemenopee_
    _Elemenopee_ Posts: 2,665 Member
    My opinion would be to seek help.
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    Just break up.
  • RosscoBoscko
    RosscoBoscko Posts: 632 Member
    Not to be the bearer of doom, but when that happened to me, the response I got when finally got hold of them was to be dumped!!
  • CaddieMay
    CaddieMay Posts: 356 Member
    Burn his house down.
  • 76tech
    76tech Posts: 1,455 Member
    Does he know he's your boyfriend?
  • perfectingpatti
    perfectingpatti Posts: 1,037 Member
    If you texted your girlfriend or boyfriend and they didn't bother to respond to you for two days, how would you react?

    If I hadn't heard from my boyfriend for two days, I would question the relationship.
  • ami5000psu
    ami5000psu Posts: 391 Member
    Are you sure you're his girlfriend?
  • BlackStarDeceiver
    BlackStarDeceiver Posts: 590 Member
    Only invest emotion in people that invest it back in you. Don't waste your time on people that don't.
  • theCarlton
    theCarlton Posts: 1,344 Member
    Not talking for 2 days, and then the "no idea" part signifies a distancing to me. If this is the first time, I wouldn't be alarmed. But if it isn't, I'd be distancing myself as well. You can always leave when you don't like the way a partner is treating you. Good luck.

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