Why would you add a friend?

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twinketta
twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
There are lots of new people joining MFP and looking for friends. There are also `long term` people on MFP that add friends

Why would you add a `friend`?

Do you look for similar lifestyles/age/mindset?

Is it because you have had a meeting of minds (aka argument and then you got along)

Or do you just add friends ad hoc?

What does it for you with the whole `friends` thing?
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  • stetienne
    stetienne Posts: 560 Member
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    mostly they have to be fun...

    ...or hot.
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
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    I don't add ; I get added for my great personality.
  • jbutterflye
    jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
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    I rarely take the step to add someone, and only do if I get a strong pull for some reason and/or someone really appeals to me, but that's been quite rare. Otherwise I'll add everyone who invites me, I don't care the reason why.
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
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    I forgot to add about the fun n hot chicks that love guys with great personalities doh...bad me:noway:
  • Terasome
    Terasome Posts: 3,808 Member
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    I don't add ; I get added for my great personality.


    This exactly, oh and my legs/boobs seem to be a great drawcard :blushing:

    I do add if the person really appeals to me, either we get along really well or I think we'd be great friends or they are just funny.
  • MidwestAngel
    MidwestAngel Posts: 1,897 Member
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    Depends on how much they try to flatter me in the FR. I'm vain and like to be told that I'm awesome. Otherwise, automatic decline.
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
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    I don't add ; I get added for my great personality.

    This. Except swap out personality for bewbs.
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,012 Member
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    People add me because of my gif.



    M.F.P. Hottest Person/M.F.P. Most awesome person
    Ice cream afficionado
    "Winning" Certified Instructor
    Been in gifs for 2 years and have studied custom gif creation
    jac-mr-mfp-o.gif
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
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    most people say they like chocolate, that's one thing we have in common and we take it from there. ideal would be if they told me what thread they saw me on or something. I've only sought out to add a couple and it was one had a martini in his pic and don't recall the other. ...probably because of the martini.
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
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    People who make me laugh, with a similar mindset. People who don't mind my brand of nutty.
  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
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    I only add hot chicks.


    And Jac...
  • _noob_
    _noob_ Posts: 3,306 Member
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    I'm told having me as a friend makes people feel better about themselves.
  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
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    I'm told having me as a friend makes people feel better about themselves.

    That's the effing truth right there..
  • crawford4398
    crawford4398 Posts: 441 Member
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    Humor, Encouragement, & skills :blushing:
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
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    I am added for my mind.
    I am not a toy.
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
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    Loving the little stencil/scrawly profile pics going on there..maybe you should add each other :wink:
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
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    I only like posters who are smart, funny and understand fitness.
  • crossfit_lover
    crossfit_lover Posts: 230 Member
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    Some reasons and they're not in any particular order of importance

    1. Mutual Friends

    2. Sense of Humor

    3. Motivational Story

    4. Hot/Attractive - Sorry I like WOMEN.....lol
  • 1ConcreteGirl
    1ConcreteGirl Posts: 3,677 Member
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    Usually something involving the de-gayification of Matt Bomer.
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
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    I only get befriended out of pity.