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mandrade4550
mandrade4550 Posts: 47 Member
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Should girls call guys? What goes through your mind when we do call?
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  • ScatteredThoughts
    ScatteredThoughts Posts: 3,562 Member
    Yes

    and

    Yes!
  • Lone_Wolf70
    Lone_Wolf70 Posts: 2,820 Member
    sure, just not after 5pm...or on weekends.
  • matt2442
    matt2442 Posts: 1,259 Member
    if you want...and what runs through my mind? hmm what a rhetorical question!
  • mandrade4550
    mandrade4550 Posts: 47 Member
    Okay but that didn't answer my second question...oh and does a girl calling take the fun out of the chase?
  • Elisirmon
    Elisirmon Posts: 273 Member
    If the guy is into you and wants more then just a hook up then yes...if he is a player then just don't go there....so call!
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Yes, a girl should call a guy. What kind of question is that?
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    If a girl owns a phone and would like to speak to me, calling would generally be a good option. Smoke signals are so hard to see after dark
  • mandrade4550
    mandrade4550 Posts: 47 Member
    Yes, a girl should call a guy. What kind of question is that?



    Well it just seems that when the girl starts calling the guy freaks out sometimes..lol
  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
    Yes, a girl should call a guy. What kind of question is that?



    Well it just seems that when the girl starts calling the guy freaks out sometimes..lol

    if he does, oh well.

    now, dont go calling 8 million times.
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    If a girl owns a phone and would like to speak to me, calling would generally be a good option. Smoke signals are so hard to see after dark

    *makes a note* - No smoke signals after dark otherwise Dav won't respond.....sheesh, that's where I'm going wrong. :laugh:


    And this...
    if he does, oh well.

    now, dont go calling 8 million times.

    One call is fine. If he calls you back cool. If he doesn't, he wasn't that into you. And yes, he for sure saw that you called and got your message.
  • SatchGallamax
    SatchGallamax Posts: 549 Member
    Assuming you have his phone number because he gave it to you, I'd say you're safe to go ahead and give him a call.
  • mandrade4550
    mandrade4550 Posts: 47 Member
    One call is fine. If he calls you back cool. If he doesn't, he wasn't that into you. And yes, he for sure saw that you called and got your message.
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    I agree with this
  • lostinthe619
    lostinthe619 Posts: 98
    Well it just seems that when the girl starts calling the guy freaks out sometimes..lol

    If you call or text every five minutes it's definitely a red flag...

    "*Via text*
    Her: (8:06 AM) Morning sunshine
    Her: (10:20 AM) Whatsup buttercup?
    Her: (12:48 PM) Hey, you there
    You: (1:12 PM) Hey, yeah
    Her: (1:13 PM) Hey!!!!Whatsup? What are you doing today?
    You: (1:30 PM) Not too sure, maybe going to the mall
    Her: (1:31 PM) Cool!! When? Maybe we can meet up and grab lunch ;)<3
    Her: (2:55 PM) Hey, I'm at the mall, where are u? :)
    You: (3:10 PM) McDonalds
    Her: (3:11 PM) Oh, the one by the mall? I'll be right there ;)
    You: (3:15 PM) No no, I'm at the one on the other side of town
    Her: (3:16 PM) Oh that's fine I have gas, cya soon xox
    You: (3:20 PM) No, not on the other side of OUR town. Just on the other side of a town.
    Her: (3:21 PM) Which town?
    Her: (4:00 PM) ??
    Her: (4:30 PM) :(
    Her: (10:45 PM) Hey!:)"

    More signs that you could be or are with a clinger -> http://cakalusa.xanga.com/724498037/item/
  • mandrade4550
    mandrade4550 Posts: 47 Member
    Well it just seems that when the girl starts calling the guy freaks out sometimes..lol

    If you call or text every five minutes it's definitely a red flag...

    "*Via text*
    Her: (8:06 AM) Morning sunshine
    Her: (10:20 AM) Whatsup buttercup?
    Her: (12:48 PM) Hey, you there
    You: (1:12 PM) Hey, yeah
    Her: (1:13 PM) Hey!!!!Whatsup? What are you doing today?
    You: (1:30 PM) Not too sure, maybe going to the mall
    Her: (1:31 PM) Cool!! When? Maybe we can meet up and grab lunch ;)<3
    Her: (2:55 PM) Hey, I'm at the mall, where are u? :)
    You: (3:10 PM) McDonalds
    Her: (3:11 PM) Oh, the one by the mall? I'll be right there ;)
    You: (3:15 PM) No no, I'm at the one on the other side of town
    Her: (3:16 PM) Oh that's fine I have gas, cya soon xox
    You: (3:20 PM) No, not on the other side of OUR town. Just on the other side of a town.
    Her: (3:21 PM) Which town?
    Her: (4:00 PM) ??
    Her: (4:30 PM) :(
    Her: (10:45 PM) Hey!:)"

    More signs that you could be or are with a clinger -> http://cakalusa.xanga.com/724498037/item/

    Definitely not what I do...but this is funny..yea that would freak me out.
  • geekyjock76
    geekyjock76 Posts: 2,720 Member
    Hell yes. I hate always being the one to contact a girl - it feels so one-sided if I'm the one to initiate conversation.
  • FishingGuy75
    FishingGuy75 Posts: 59 Member
    Yes!
  • PhotogNerd
    PhotogNerd Posts: 420 Member
    Yes, a girl should call a guy. What kind of question is that?



    Well it just seems that when the girl starts calling the guy freaks out sometimes..lol

    This is generally true but usually only when you call like 20 times in a day and hammer them with questions about where they were at, with who, did you think about me, etc, etc,etc.

    Call him!
  • CaliforniaSweetheart
    CaliforniaSweetheart Posts: 989
    You could call him and say a bunch of really dirty things and hang up on him....then wait and see if he calls you back. lmao
  • crawford4398
    crawford4398 Posts: 441 Member
    You could call him and say a bunch of really dirty things and hang up on him....then wait and see if he calls you back. lmao




    Hahahaha Yes!!!
  • BurtHuttz
    BurtHuttz Posts: 3,653 Member
    I'm not certain what you mean about women calling men. If you don't have business to conduct, then I don't see why you would. Nor, if it's business, why you would hesitate. If you're referring to telephoning a potential suitor, then it's another matter entirely; and a matter I don't endorse! I'm not certain what sort of a woman would do that but I wouldn't like to meet her in a dark alley. There are certain rules, young lady, that are there to protect you. If you haven't been taught such things then you may well be in for a difficult life.
    With love,
    Burt
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    I'm not certain what you mean about women calling men. If you don't have business to conduct, then I don't see why you would. Nor, if it's business, why you would hesitate. If you're referring to telephoning a potential suitor, then it's another matter entirely; and a matter I don't endorse! I'm not certain what sort of a woman would do that but I wouldn't like to meet her in a dark alley. There are certain rules, young lady, that are there to protect you. If you haven't been taught such things then you may well be in for a difficult life.
    With love,
    Burt

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • twanthe1
    twanthe1 Posts: 407
    Yes.. Call.. Just don't be upset if we don't answer, it's good to be thought of and a call is a thought.
  • mandrade4550
    mandrade4550 Posts: 47 Member
    I guess in the end I just don't get men :ohwell:
  • Dulcemami4ever
    Dulcemami4ever Posts: 344 Member
    Well it just seems that when the girl starts calling the guy freaks out sometimes..lol

    If you call or text every five minutes it's definitely a red flag...

    "*Via text*
    Her: (8:06 AM) Morning sunshine
    Her: (10:20 AM) Whatsup buttercup?
    Her: (12:48 PM) Hey, you there
    You: (1:12 PM) Hey, yeah
    Her: (1:13 PM) Hey!!!!Whatsup? What are you doing today?
    You: (1:30 PM) Not too sure, maybe going to the mall
    Her: (1:31 PM) Cool!! When? Maybe we can meet up and grab lunch ;)<3
    Her: (2:55 PM) Hey, I'm at the mall, where are u? :)
    You: (3:10 PM) McDonalds
    Her: (3:11 PM) Oh, the one by the mall? I'll be right there ;)
    You: (3:15 PM) No no, I'm at the one on the other side of town
    Her: (3:16 PM) Oh that's fine I have gas, cya soon xox
    You: (3:20 PM) No, not on the other side of OUR town. Just on the other side of a town.
    Her: (3:21 PM) Which town?
    Her: (4:00 PM) ??
    Her: (4:30 PM) :(
    Her: (10:45 PM) Hey!:)"

    More signs that you could be or are with a clinger -> http://cakalusa.xanga.com/724498037/item/

    Definitely not what I do...but this is funny..yea that would freak me out.


    Lol this made me laugh because its obvious the guy is not even into her, or she wouldn't have had to push to hang out in the first place.
  • chkn_WANG_Train
    chkn_WANG_Train Posts: 143
    Should girls call guys? What goes through your mind when we do call?

    being a woman of my age.... i usually text if its just to flirt, unless they ask me to call, or if i actually have something to invite them to that is specific to them... which is usually quite flattering..... like 'hey i'm going to this thing, i know its something you would dig' even if they are unavailable they are usually so flattered by the genuine thought and interest that it always leads to THEM calling ME.... its called being real... just be real girlfriend.

    or get snap chat, and suggest they get it and just send them *interesting* photos until they call you,

    or follow burt and find those rules of protection

    have you seen gone with the wind?
  • NotRailMeat
    NotRailMeat Posts: 509 Member
    Lets see.... I've been married to the same woman for 18 years now and SHE called me first.... So, I guess it's alright!
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Okay but that didn't answer my second question...oh and does a girl calling take the fun out of the chase?

    The entire notion that a guy wants to chase is a myth perpetuated by a bunch of book writers saying what their target audience wants to hear and believe.

    Guys do not enjoy rejection any more then you do,get the princess notion out of your head and be willing to be a partner.
  • Minerva624
    Minerva624 Posts: 577 Member
    I'm not a guy but I know for a fact that most guys would not mind getting called. Equal effort from both sides needs to be given in order for a relationship to get stronger and work. If you call then they know you're interested and are sure of yourself which guys love.
  • BrienJD
    BrienJD Posts: 541 Member
    Yes!! Definately!!! Why shouldn't they?
  • drchimpanzee
    drchimpanzee Posts: 892 Member
    You mean like for sex? Yes. Otherwise no.

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