how come i see girls checking me out (psychologist welcome)

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  • bmiller211
    bmiller211 Posts: 222 Member
    but i rarely approach them? its like i know i can get at least a number but i just brush it off and walk away.
    Maybe you are gay??
    :wink:
  • furenaef
    furenaef Posts: 157 Member
    but i rarely approach them? its like i know i can get at least a number but i just brush it off and walk away.
    Maybe you are gay??
    :wink:

    this joke is both new and exciting, its even funnier repeated in this thread for the 10th time.

    bravo
  • chessgeekdavidb
    chessgeekdavidb Posts: 208 Member
    Because you are like Eddie Murphy in the movie "Coming to America".

    "I am looking for a woman to stimulate my mind as well as my loins"
  • Mavrick7a
    Mavrick7a Posts: 1,353
    @furenaef - Here is a serious attempt to answer your question/concern:

    Please allow me to clarify your statement and understand your goals...
    Statement: Women seem to be attracted to you physically, but you either don't act on this attraction and you also rarely find anything in common.

    Goal: Find a match! In order to locate a suitable match, there must be two key ingredients: physical attraction and common interested and goals. The first ingredient is easy: This is a matter of opinion, but only you can tell which girl you like. Unless of course, you are one of those guys that needs approval from the "boys"
    Second ingredient is tough. In order to understand her likes, dislikes, and common goals. You must interact with her. The biggest problem that I find is that many women pretend to be someone to get them to go out. "yeah, I love football, MMA, and want you to spend as much time with your buddlies as you want. Later, they change their mind, don't watch a game on Saturdays or Sundays and constantly grumble about where you were.... You know what I am talking about.

    Don't go to a gym or club to find a match. Too noisy or the girl that you want to meet doesn't have time to share ideas, feelings, and ambitions.

    Tips to find the right girl:
    1. Be yourself.
    2. Don't worry about her physical appearance. Get used to seeing her without makeup, sexy clothes, etc.
    3. Continue going to places that you enjoy, but strive to becoming exceptional at what you do. When you succeed at more tournaments or contest, you will probably run into a few ladies that share your interests.
    4. Lastly, keep in mind that no one is perfect. Ultimately, find someone that you enjoy spending time with. Trust me, dating a model or pornstar is no different than any of the girls that you have dated.

    Good luck!
  • chocl8girl
    chocl8girl Posts: 1,968 Member
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  • Fat_Bottomed_Girl
    Fat_Bottomed_Girl Posts: 355 Member



    and the older then that have kids or are divorced. so do not want

    lol I am neither, but let me guess... -You're one of "those" guys...
  • CharityGC
    CharityGC Posts: 499 Member
    I read somewhere that when women are staring at you it really means they dislike you.
  • Warchortle
    Warchortle Posts: 2,197 Member
    Because you have too much self bro love.

    Not even trolling.
  • EngineerPrincess
    EngineerPrincess Posts: 306 Member
    I've noticed girls who only like shopping and clubbing tend to go for guys who's main hobbies are working out among other sports, maybe that's why you're attracting that type. In order to find different types of girls you really do have to try different places like everyone is suggesting. You do have reading on your side, branch out? Join a book club? Try something that isn't your typical "macho" activity and you'll find different girls. My friends and I are into books and video games and science and have super ambitious goals (even if we do like shopping too,) but then again I do go to an engineering school. We hang out at a) libraries b)university events c) class. The inside of a gym is a foreign land in which I am powerless and do not venture.

    In short, if you want nerd girls, go to nerd places. We're interesting. :drinker: :glasses:

    thing is, 99% of the girls that are into the "good" hobbies dont take care of them selves. yes i would LOVE to find someone you describe, but i have not found any that are that into good hobbies. But i agree with you 100%

    Interesting statistic you threw out there. Hm, I think you're looking for girls slightly wrong. You don't seem to want a featherbrain girl, so why are you looking for girls that dress nice/spend time on makeup 100% of the time? The smart ones often (not always but often) only take the time to dress up and look nice when they go out, the rest of the time they're too busy leading interesting lives. Example: this week everyone at college looks like hell because it's nearly finals and they don't feel like putting on makeup and a pretty facial expression (or showering, for that matter,) but that doesn't mean everyone is ugly. If you don't want a shallow girl, you can't afford to view things shallowly. :tongue:
  • solarpower03
    solarpower03 Posts: 12,161 Member
    You are delusional and cocky, and have wrong impression about yourself! Quality women look beyond flesh.

    do you even lift?

    Cliched! No, I actually wank!

    Let me know your BF% and what multiples of your bodyweight your bench, squat and deadlift.

    LOL im like lmao, age 43, getting mad at an internet joke.

    why are you mad? u comparing yourself with me? compare yourself with your best self. in the end of the day, in real life no one cares what you bench or lift.

    all the negative responses here really make me sad for this day and age. this website was supposed to be a positive website but all you guys do is criticize everything that you dont agree with or god forbid if other ppl have a dif opinion.

    I am not mad mate! I put an opinion and you asked DYEN? Not sure how DYEN is a relevant question in the context and that is why I asked more relevant lifting questions!
  • LookMaNoHands
    LookMaNoHands Posts: 174 Member
    I don't really approach women when they are "checking me out" unless I am just looking for some "quick satisfaction", because when someone is "checking out" another person in that way, that is typically what they are looking for. (no judgement, just being honest)

    As far as "approaching" a woman as a potential romantic interest, there are simply more important things that would draw me in. Not that attractiveness isn't important. I am not saying that. I'm just saying that someone's eyes popping out of their head while they stare at you lifting weights is not necessarily a tell-tale indicator of their suitability as a potential mate.
  • solarpower03
    solarpower03 Posts: 12,161 Member
    I don't really approach women when they are "checking me out" unless I am just looking for some "quick satisfaction", because when someone is "checking out" another person in that way, that is typically what they are looking for. (no judgement, just being honest)

    As far as "approaching" a woman as a potential romantic interest, there are simply more important things that would draw me in. Not that attractiveness isn't important. I am not saying that. I'm just saying that someone's eyes popping out of their head while they stare at you lifting weights is not necessarily a tell-tale indicator of their suitability as a potential mate.

    Well, put mate!
  • matt2442
    matt2442 Posts: 1,259 Member
    I read somewhere that when women are staring at you it really means they dislike you.

    Weird..all this time I thought they wanted a piece of dis
  • dodihere
    dodihere Posts: 490
    I am enjoying all the profile pics of guys this post seems to be getting.

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