6 pounds up this week. HELP!

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  • violinkeri
    violinkeri Posts: 212

    I don't understand what this means?

    It means that everything you stated was completely opposite of the truth, so know you are either severely misinformed, or making a joke.
  • luckyjuls
    luckyjuls Posts: 505 Member
    edited.
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    Some people just don't get enough attention in their real lives...
    The lady was asking for real advice and you decide it's a platform for your new comedy act. Har har. You're so funny.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • Review your food diary.

    Apples, with skin C
    Artichokes (no sauce) PC
    Amaranth PC
    Arugula C
    Asparagus C
    Barley C
    Beans PCF
    Beets C
    Blueberries C
    Bok choy C
    Boysenberries C
    Bran C
    Broccoli PC
    Broccoli sprouts PC
    Brussels sprouts PC
    Cabbage C
    Carrots C
    Cauliflower C
    Celery C
    Chard PC
    Chickpeas PC
    Cherries C
    Citrus fruits C
    Collard greens PC
    Cottage cheese (nonfat) P
    Cucumbers C
    Egg whites
    Endive C
    Fish (broiled, steamed, grilled) PF
    Flaxseed F
    Garlic (fresh) C
    Grapefruit C
    Grapes C
    Hempseed F
    Herbs
    Kale PFC
    Ketchup (homemade, no sugar) C
    Kiwifruit C
    Lentils PFC
    Lettuce (romaine, green or red leaf) C
    Melon honeydew C
    Milk (nonfat) PC
    Mushrooms C
    Mustard C
    Natto PFC
    Nectarines C
    Onions C
    Papayas C
    Peaches C
    Pears C
    Peas P


    Peppers C
    Pineapple C
    Plums C
    Prunes C
    Quinoa PC
    Radishes C
    Raspberries C
    Refried beans (nonfat) PC
    Rice (whole-grain) C
    Salsa (natural, no sugar or oil) C
    Spelt PC
    Shakeology CP
    Spinach PC
    Squash C
    Strawberries C
    String beans PC
    Sweet potatoes C
    Tea (green or black, no sugar)
    Tomato sauce (no sugar) C
    Tomatoes C
    Vinegar
    Water
    Yams C
    Yogurt (nonfat, no sugar) PC
    Zucchini C

    Try eating foods from this list, ONLY. Yes, it's that time of the month, but.........When you exercise you first burn carbs, then fat. Not sure your height or weight but I would say keep your calories to less than 1400 a day. Sodium is crucial too. It makes you retain water, besides it's not good for the heart. A normal adult with NO heart issue with themselves or in the family should be no more than 2500 mg a day, and if there are ANY heart issue and children should be 1300 or less a day. Making better selections and exercising longer will help.
  • luckyjuls
    luckyjuls Posts: 505 Member
    Normally I find you really clever (I've seen you in other posts like the controlling husband/hair tie one) but it really bugs me when someone asks for legit advice and another starts making jokes for no reason. I think there is a time and place and I don't think this is the place. I think it's kind of a bully tactic and I know you don't mean it that way but there's no real reason to do it in this particular thread. You might not have ever felt made fun of, but OP might.
  • kabel4892
    kabel4892 Posts: 167 Member
    T-t-t-t-trollllll!
  • allknowingtomato
    allknowingtomato Posts: 42 Member
    I looked at your diary. i can see many days when you are eating little/no fruits veggies, and most of your foods are processed. so in the short term, i would say that you are retaining water due to TOM and sodium intake. processed foods have tons of sodium.

    It is certainly possible to lose weight eating chocolate and pizza every day. it is just MUCH MUCH MUCH harder to do for most people than eating a diet with more fruits/veggies/lean protein/whole foods. Many of the foods in your diary are calorie-dense foods, so a little miscalculation can put a lot of extra cals in you quickly. As others have mentioned, calorie labels can be off by quite a bit, so it's a good idea to be skeptical of takeaway/processed foods.

    Are you putting EVERYTHING you eat in your diary? or are you hit-and-miss with your tracking? this is also super-important. I struggle with this myself (eat a bad thing and then not tracking out of shame, or knowing i likely went over my cals and not bothering to track so i don't see what i've done). your body will reflect what you do (it is a FLAWLESS tracker lol), so might as well put it in MFP and get the data.

    i don't know your life/schedule, so i don't know why you are relying on so many processed/packaged foods. I think you should try to answer that question for yourself, and really challenge your habits. Are you SO busy that you need to eat that way? or are you reluctant to give up the taste and indulgence of eating chocolate and pizza?

    If it's too little time, you have no excuse for the lack of veg and hand fruit in your diary ( I'm American, but i know Tesco sells apples and a veg salads and chicken!) If it is out of habit or the urge to eat a lot of delicious food, then you have no excuse for not making healthier versions of the stuff you've been eating. I see some veg in there (3/12 you got some good veg), but something is going on with your eating routine that is setting you up to eat 8 cookies, or a whole pizza, or whatever. For me, that's stuff is the result of eating empty calories earlier in the day, and not having a plan for dealing with temptation.

    My personal suggestions to you would be:

    1. Make sure you are tracking flawlessly. read labels, measure your food (with a scale if at all possible), and really capture what your intake is.

    2. make a list of fruits, veggies, and lean, low-carb protein sources (frijj and whole milk belong in the "treats" section and not the protein section of your diary, hon!) and ACTUALLY SCHEDULE when you will eat those foods. If you are not hungry when the time comes to eat, don't eat, but don't eat anything else until you're hungry, then turn to the food you planned. if you are waiting all day to eat to "save" calories, then you are setting yourself up to eat an entire pizza (which, for some people, works. but so far, not for you!). I am better able to eat healthy foods if i don't let myself get too hungry.

    3. on the flip side, do not eat just because it is lunch time/dinner time/ you see a tasty food. (i'm not saying you do, but hear me out). I had a real problem with indulgent food choices until i planned to eat better and then GOT HUNGRY and then ate the food i planned to eat. The snacks in the break room were more appetizing than my open-faced sandwich when i first saw them, but once i was truly hungry, my sandwich hit the spot and fueled me much better than cookies would have. practice getting hungry, then practice eating healthy food when you are hungry.

    4. water water water water water. you say you're tracking, so I assume you're drinking NONE because that's what your diary says.

    5. Be realistic about your expenditures. i try to only eat back half of my exercise calories, because often the calculations are too generous. I think it is good practice to track while giving yourself 2,500 calories/day, but you may not be burning that many if you are sedentary and don't have much muscle mass (even if you are at a higher weight). if you track perfectly and keep under your cal goals for 2 weeks and don't see any change/correction, then i would cut your cals to 2200 and see what happens.

    6. don't weigh yourself every day, if you can't handle the fluctuations. this is especially important leading up to TOM. I wouldn't bother weighing myself starting 3 days before TOM until i'm almost done with my period. i can put on up to 8lbs in water retention during that time, which would emotionally devastate me. now, i weigh myself most days, but only take note of my weight for MFP purposes every 2 weeks. once right after my period ends, and once 2 weeks after that.

    good luck! feel free to add me if you want.
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    I've been eating good. Loadsa veggies and fruit. Exercising every day for at least 30 mins. But on the scales this morning I am up 6lbs!!!!

    And to make matters worse, I got my period this afternoon. I had no tampons so now my favourite panties are ruined.

    What can I do?

    Just break up.
  • kimosabe1
    kimosabe1 Posts: 2,467 Member
    I am always up eight pounds when i have my period. A week before i get it, i am up five pounds......
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    Some people just don't get enough attention in their real lives...
    The lady was asking for real advice and you decide it's a platform for your new comedy act. Har har. You're so funny.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    I didn't see the reply you are quoting, but has anyone pointed out the OP has a *****? I decided to let the fun continue.
  • norrisski
    norrisski Posts: 1,217 Member
    Watch your sodium intake.
  • tracymat
    tracymat Posts: 296 Member
    I gained 8 lbs last week. Period and a new workout program. It SUCKED and I'm still up 2 lbs. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
  • Breathe, it will all be ok. :)

    I always go up 2-3 lbs right before my period. It sucks to get all bloated and gain the weight when you're trying so hard to lose it. the hormones stress you out, too. Just relax, continue to eat right and work out, and it will all be just fine.
  • Frood42
    Frood42 Posts: 245 Member
    Some people just don't get enough attention in their real lives...
    The lady was asking for real advice and you decide it's a platform for your new comedy act. Har har. You're so funny.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:


    anh720 - > When will you be live at London's Apollo? They need some new acts!
  • twoss9112
    twoss9112 Posts: 162 Member
    I think it's great that you are on MFP and ready to lose weight. I think until you start getting in the groove it takes some adjusting to find what your calorie goal should be. Maybe you are over your calorie goal, or not accounting for calories that are really there.

    I also noticed that you do eat out a lot (nothing wrong with that). Often, restaurants mark down (or mark up) their nutritional facts so if you do eat out, I would assume that you are eating 20-30% more calories than it states in the nutritional information or various entries on MFP. If you have a buffer of 20-30%, it is accounting for any misguiding information given and playing it safe. Also, if you know you are eating out ahead of time, try to get a quick snack in instead of not eating all day. It will make you less hungry and then you might not indulge as much at dinner (that's from personal experience).

    I also noticed you had Walmart-2 cupcakes on one of your diary entries, but most of your food items come from Tesco, so I believe you are from the UK? This makes me think that you are trying to find a data entry close to what you ate, but it's always better to try and get that information from where it really comes from as stats vary from item to item all over the world. When in doubt, I just avoid the cupcakes. Some are laden with ingredients I might not know about. Have you thought about making your own and controlling the ingredients?

    Lastly, do you have a food scale? When people told me it was their number one tool I did not believe them but food scales have made my calorie counting so much more accurate. I feel so much more confident in all my diary entries because I know I am measuring everything accurately, down to added spices. Tablespoons and teaspoons, bagh. Now I just zero my scale and pour my ingredients into a container to get what they really weigh in grams/ounces. It really does make a difference, especially when you usually use heaping tablespoons and could be going way over in grammage.

    As for the undies, go get yourself a beautiful new pair!

    All of this ^

    Hopefully I can be as polite, I certainly don't want to sound like I'm being mean or critical, because that isn't helpful.

    Sometimes when the truth stings a little it can be taken as mean, so please know that this is not my intention... But let's be honest, for example there was one day in the diary where you went over the goal by 3200 cals for a total of 5000. 3200 extra calories in one day is a guaranteed 1 pound gain right away. (1 lb = 3500 cal). At the risk of seeming harsh, that is one of the sure fire reasons that you are experiencing a gain, because a whole pizza putting a person 2300 calories over their daily goal is one of the reasons why they might be showing a gain. That's just not a reasonable portion for any person, no matter who they are or what they weigh. Maybe it was an off day for you or something, I don't know - and we all have those, becuse this is a process.

    We're not perfect, sometimes we just need to learn, and when one of the other posters said there was room for improvement, that was probably based on experience - believe me - I was going about this whole logging calories thing and "healthy" eating thing the wrong way when I started. The REALLY wrong way. Surprise, I gained weight. then I slacked off about counting and monitoring too.

    Only when I stopped eating crap, stopped logging "general" things and started logging every morsel individually did I begin to start losing. That meant admitting to myself that I was going about it badly, not putting in the required time to really learn about the process, etc.

    There's no way your diary can be an accurate reflection - "chinese buffet - 2 meal" is in no way an accurate way to figure how many calories, how much fat, sodium, etc is going into your body. "chinese buffet - 2 meal" could mean 600 calories or 2150 calories. I say this becuase I used to log that way too! And it failed me.

    "Oh, I can't find it in here, I'll just grab the closest thing" - or - "Hmm I'm eating salad how do I log it... oh look, it says Ruby Tuesday's salad bar, 2 cups, cool..." - well I have no idea what was **IN** their 2 cups of salad now do I? Maybe it was sliced egg and cheese on top of 4 lettuce leaves or maybe it was 2 cups of cucumber and tomato. The point it it's not what was going into MY mouth. Big surpise I gained weight by logging "something close" or by "eyeballing" or by saying "hmm, ok well that looks like about half, so I will just call it half."

    It just doesn't work like that. There is no polite way to really say this, but again - I don't mean to come of as critical or mean - but the 8 pieces of Domino's pizza and the chinese buffet and the cupcakes have to go. They just do. And we all have our things that have to go, or at LEAST have to be moderated. Like for me... Lays Limon Chips. I can NOT open the bag and just eat "some". And a bag is 410 cals. So until I reach a point of maintenance and learn (better) self control, no Limons for me. Also Chipotle. Huge on cals and sodium. So I modified my usual burrito bowl down to about 450-475 cal and I have it once every couple months. Int he mean time, I make my owl Chipotle-like burrito bowl filling for far les cals than what is in the restaurant one, using most of the same ingredients.

    There are ways to still have things you like every now and again. But in moderation, most definitely.
  • Griffin220x
    Griffin220x Posts: 399
    tmi
  • Mads1997
    Mads1997 Posts: 1,494 Member

    Second, I am sorry about your panties. Soak them in cold water -- but make sure you wear gloves so you don't actually touch the water.

    ...... what?

    My thoughts exactly ...........WHAT?
  • jesz124
    jesz124 Posts: 1,004 Member
    Weight gains, MFP advice, yes. Blood stained panties, MFP advice, No.
  • allknowingtomato
    allknowingtomato Posts: 42 Member
    I think it's great that you are on MFP and ready to lose weight. I think until you start getting in the groove it takes some adjusting to find what your calorie goal should be. Maybe you are over your calorie goal, or not accounting for calories that are really there.

    I also noticed that you do eat out a lot (nothing wrong with that). Often, restaurants mark down (or mark up) their nutritional facts so if you do eat out, I would assume that you are eating 20-30% more calories than it states in the nutritional information or various entries on MFP. If you have a buffer of 20-30%, it is accounting for any misguiding information given and playing it safe. Also, if you know you are eating out ahead of time, try to get a quick snack in instead of not eating all day. It will make you less hungry and then you might not indulge as much at dinner (that's from personal experience).

    I also noticed you had Walmart-2 cupcakes on one of your diary entries, but most of your food items come from Tesco, so I believe you are from the UK? This makes me think that you are trying to find a data entry close to what you ate, but it's always better to try and get that information from where it really comes from as stats vary from item to item all over the world. When in doubt, I just avoid the cupcakes. Some are laden with ingredients I might not know about. Have you thought about making your own and controlling the ingredients?

    Lastly, do you have a food scale? When people told me it was their number one tool I did not believe them but food scales have made my calorie counting so much more accurate. I feel so much more confident in all my diary entries because I know I am measuring everything accurately, down to added spices. Tablespoons and teaspoons, bagh. Now I just zero my scale and pour my ingredients into a container to get what they really weigh in grams/ounces. It really does make a difference, especially when you usually use heaping tablespoons and could be going way over in grammage.

    As for the undies, go get yourself a beautiful new pair!

    All of this ^

    Hopefully I can be as polite, I certainly don't want to sound like I'm being mean or critical, because that isn't helpful.

    Sometimes when the truth stings a little it can be taken as mean, so please know that this is not my intention... But let's be honest, for example there was one day in the diary where you went over the goal by 3200 cals for a total of 5000. 3200 extra calories in one day is a guaranteed 1 pound gain right away. (1 lb = 3500 cal). At the risk of seeming harsh, that is one of the sure fire reasons that you are experiencing a gain, because a whole pizza putting a person 2300 calories over their daily goal is one of the reasons why they might be showing a gain. That's just not a reasonable portion for any person, no matter who they are or what they weigh. Maybe it was an off day for you or something, I don't know - and we all have those, becuse this is a process.

    We're not perfect, sometimes we just need to learn, and when one of the other posters said there was room for improvement, that was probably based on experience - believe me - I was going about this whole logging calories thing and "healthy" eating thing the wrong way when I started. The REALLY wrong way. Surprise, I gained weight. then I slacked off about counting and monitoring too.

    Only when I stopped eating crap, stopped logging "general" things and started logging every morsel individually did I begin to start losing. That meant admitting to myself that I was going about it badly, not putting in the required time to really learn about the process, etc.

    There's no way your diary can be an accurate reflection - "chinese buffet - 2 meal" is in no way an accurate way to figure how many calories, how much fat, sodium, etc is going into your body. "chinese buffet - 2 meal" could mean 600 calories or 2150 calories. I say this becuase I used to log that way too! And it failed me.

    "Oh, I can't find it in here, I'll just grab the closest thing" - or - "Hmm I'm eating salad how do I log it... oh look, it says Ruby Tuesday's salad bar, 2 cups, cool..." - well I have no idea what was **IN** their 2 cups of salad now do I? Maybe it was sliced egg and cheese on top of 4 lettuce leaves or maybe it was 2 cups of cucumber and tomato. The point it it's not what was going into MY mouth. Big surpise I gained weight by logging "something close" or by "eyeballing" or by saying "hmm, ok well that looks like about half, so I will just call it half."

    It just doesn't work like that. There is no polite way to really say this, but again - I don't mean to come of as critical or mean - but the 8 pieces of Domino's pizza and the chinese buffet and the cupcakes have to go. They just do. And we all have our things that have to go, or at LEAST have to be moderated. Like for me... Lays Limon Chips. I can NOT open the bag and just eat "some". And a bag is 410 cals. So until I reach a point of maintenance and learn (better) self control, no Limons for me. Also Chipotle. Huge on cals and sodium. So I modified my usual burrito bowl down to about 450-475 cal and I have it once every couple months. Int he mean time, I make my owl Chipotle-like burrito bowl filling for far les cals than what is in the restaurant one, using most of the same ingredients.

    There are ways to still have things you like every now and again. But in moderation, most definitely.

    This right here. Diary speaks for itself.
  • lindsyrox
    lindsyrox Posts: 257 Member
    1800+ calories from Dominos on Wednesday and all the sodium that goes with it may have something to do with it. I usually take a day or two after a salt binge to fully bloat...
  • r13kaos
    r13kaos Posts: 1
    Use hydrogen peroxide on the panties, color test first in a small area. If it doesn't fade them soak away. Works great!
  • smichelle65
    smichelle65 Posts: 45 Member
    tmi

    This.
  • laylaness
    laylaness Posts: 262 Member
    First, calm down. You might not have known this, but eating veggies during you TOM can make you retain extra water because fruit and veggies are mostly water. So during the week before and week of your TOM, you should avoid veggies and eat extra carbs and foods high in sodium to dry you out. Also, avoid showering so you don't get water logged.

    Second, I am sorry about your panties. Soak them in cold water -- but make sure you wear gloves so you don't actually touch the water.

    Good luck and just stick with it.

    What in the fresh hell...?

    Sodium makes you retain water, you should actually stay at or below 2500mg at most.

    Eat your veggies. They are full of fiber and will help you feel full longer.

    Don't soak them in cold water. Soak them in hot water. And use some baking soda. You can gently scrub out stains with an old toothbrush.
  • Benefits of Celery and Why it’s Good for Weight Loss
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    Health Benefits of Celery
    http://www.organicfacts.net/health-benefits/vegetable/health-benefits-of-celery.html#.UGmqYyF6lTV

    celery is good for water retention also.

    I am on the atkins diet. It is awesome. This diet will not fail anybody. It is effective. http://www.atkins.com/Program/Phase-1.aspx
    I've lost 16 pounds in a month.
  • dlcarroll13
    dlcarroll13 Posts: 65 Member
    First, calm down. You might not have known this, but eating veggies during you TOM can make you retain extra water because fruit and veggies are mostly water. So during the week before and week of your TOM, you should avoid veggies and eat extra carbs and foods high in sodium to dry you out. Also, avoid showering so you don't get water logged.

    Second, I am sorry about your panties. Soak them in cold water -- but make sure you wear gloves so you don't actually touch the water.

    Good luck and just stick with it.

    I would disagree with the idea of cutting out veggies...that's good healthy nutrition. Try to limit salt intake and carbs right before your TOM, but also realize that this is a NORMAL variation in the body. The water fluctuation WILL come off...perhaps don't weigh yourself during this time period and wait until after to avoid the unnecessary stress.
  • TillyMomma
    TillyMomma Posts: 262
    I usually gain about five pounds right before I start, and about halfway through, I'm fine. It sounds like it's probably just your cycle messing with you.
  • CoraGregoryCPA
    CoraGregoryCPA Posts: 1,087 Member
    Yeah. Why can't you touch the water? I'm really confused.

    Second, I am sorry about your panties. Soak them in cold water -- but make sure you wear gloves so you don't actually touch the water.

    ...... what?
  • Elzecat
    Elzecat Posts: 2,916 Member
    First, calm down. You might not have known this, but eating veggies during you TOM can make you retain extra water because fruit and veggies are mostly water. So during the week before and week of your TOM, you should avoid veggies and eat extra carbs and foods high in sodium to dry you out. Also, avoid showering so you don't get water logged.

    :huh: No. Just...no.

    OP: Eat your fruits and veggies and drink lots of water. Shower as you normally would. Exercise as you normally would (that can help w/cramps, too, if that's an issue for you)
    Hydrogen peroxide will take care of blood stains.
    Carry on.
  • dlcarroll13
    dlcarroll13 Posts: 65 Member

    Second, I am sorry about your panties. Soak them in cold water -- but make sure you wear gloves so you don't actually touch the water.

    ...... what?

    She'll just retain the water she absorbs when washing of the panties if she doesn't wear gloves.

    Oh wow....that is definitely now how it works lol
  • randoswife
    randoswife Posts: 32 Member
    I ALWAYS gain when my period starts. Watching my salt intake the week before doesn't seem to help either. I just try not to weigh after I see the scale go up until about a week after my period ends...keeps me from getting too depressed. Just keep doing what you're doing and don't be tempted to peek at the scale until after it's all over + a couple of days.

    As for the panties, pour hydrogen peroxide on the spot (s), let it bubble up, rinse, repeat, then wash. Just don't dry them till the spot is gone.

    Good luck and hang in there! Sometimes being a woman sucks...lol