How do you feel about your S/O watching porn?

MyChocolateDiet

Seriously, if my husband watched porn, I'd be rolling on the floor laughing! We've been together for almost 40 years,so it's a "Been there Done that" sort of thing. (Mostly on my part, although the last 'porn' I watched was the Tommy Lee & Pamela Anderson sex video...and I watched it with my sister. We were most curious as to how Pam Anderson managed to tan certain parts of her anatomy. :bigsmile: )

Would HE watch it now? Certainly not if he had to pay for it...he's tighter than a 40 year old virgin, and by that I mean cheap!

That said, I wouldn't care one way or another.

How to tan "certain parts" or all over.
tanning beds naked. arms up, legs open & spread for half the session. mystery solved.

motown13

My wife and I watch it together. Not often, maybe a few times a year. But my wife prefers it more soft, and I prefer normal..... I don't get into watching anything that looks like it could hurt or demean the otherr person.

firstsip

I watch it for the stories. It's really upsetting how Jorge's not admired for his hard work and intellect by his mean boss lady.

And Johnny never seems to get an actual cash tip, even tho he always gets the pizza there on time! I only watch because I am waiting for Johnny to get his first tip.

He got in more than just the tip.

firstsip

My husband an I do not allow porn into our marriage. We look as marriage and sex as a Holy thing God has set apart between husband and wife and its to create oneness and intimacy between each other. We believe when Jesus said "if a man looks at a woman and even lusts after her in her heart he commits adultery.." (Obviously is works the other way around for women) it lets in sin or gives satan a foothold in our marriage that drives us apart instead of bringing us together like God intends. I knoe this will not be te popular answer but I wanted to add my 2 cents we are born again christians so I guess you could say its for moral reasons yea. I've seen porn and addiction to porn cause to many destroyed relationships...

:indifferent:

sunsnstatheart

My husband an I do not allow porn into our marriage. We look as marriage and sex as a Holy thing God has set apart between husband and wife and its to create oneness and intimacy between each other. We believe when Jesus said "if a man looks at a woman and even lusts after her in her heart he commits adultery.." (Obviously is works the other way around for women) it lets in sin or gives satan a foothold in our marriage that drives us apart instead of bringing us together like God intends. I knoe this will not be te popular answer but I wanted to add my 2 cents we are born again christians so I guess you could say its for moral reasons yea. I've seen porn and addiction to porn cause to many destroyed relationships...

We have a particular fondness for St. Andrew.

Crawkins

I wise person once told me this - It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you come home for dinner!

Beautiful! A very wise person, indeed!

My bf and I watch it together occasionally, but more often alone because of our work schedules.
Together, we choose together what we watch, but for our solo ventures, we keep it don't ask, don't tell. As far as content goes, I don't have any interest in whether he's into hardcore black midget fisting, just like he really doesn't want to know about my tentacle fetish LOL

firstsip

I wise person once told me this - It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you come home for dinner!

Beautiful! A very wise person, indeed!

My bf and I watch it together occasionally, but more often alone because of our work schedules.
Together, we choose together what we watch, but for our solo ventures, we keep it don't ask, don't tell. As far as content goes, I don't have any interest in whether he's into hardcore black midget fisting, just like he really doesn't want to know about my tentacle fetish LOL

I like you.

anaquay

Porn give people an unrealistic expectation of how soon a plumber will come out attend to you

S1NN3R

Watch it together and make some together.

This.

Cr01502

I wise person once told me this - It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you come home for dinner!

Beautiful! A very wise person, indeed!

My bf and I watch it together occasionally, but more often alone because of our work schedules.
Together, we choose together what we watch, but for our solo ventures, we keep it don't ask, don't tell. As far as content goes, I don't have any interest in whether he's into hardcore black midget fisting, just like he really doesn't want to know about my tentacle fetish LOL

I like you.

Me too.

samntha14

Watch it together and make some together.

This it's fun. Keeps the spice in the marriage.

ashleab37

My husband an I do not allow porn into our marriage. We look as marriage and sex as a Holy thing God has set apart between husband and wife and its to create oneness and intimacy between each other. We believe when Jesus said "if a man looks at a woman and even lusts after her in her heart he commits adultery.." (Obviously is works the other way around for women) it lets in sin or gives satan a foothold in our marriage that drives us apart instead of bringing us together like God intends. I knoe this will not be te popular answer but I wanted to add my 2 cents we are born again christians so I guess you could say its for moral reasons yea. I've seen porn and addiction to porn cause to many destroyed relationships...

:laugh:

bluefox9er

In a thread about sexual attraction last night, the topic of porn and porn addiction came up. It's made me very curious about how typical couples feel about it.

Some suggested you should constantly check the history of your s/o's phone and computer to make sure they aren't watching porn.

Others said watching it together is fun and healthy.

My opinion is that it's a generational thing. I think 20/30-something-year olds are way more open minded about porn because we grew up around it being everywhere, and in many cases started viewing it at much younger ages due to its accessibility.

So, tell me, how do you feel about it within your relationship. If you don't view it or want your s/o to watch it, what's your reasoning?
Does personal insecurity have an effect on people's opinions, or is it religious, moral, ect?

arn't you the woman who said her BF dosn't find you sexy??

I can see there's a trend to your posts now..

nokanjaijo

Porn give people an unrealistic expectation of how soon a plumber will come out attend to you

I was literally laughing out loud to that.

pawnstarNate

I would rather make the video with her and watch it later! :P

MelissaL582

My husband and I have been married for almost 10 years and it doesn't bother me at all. We're a laid back kind of couple

DavPul

I watch it for the stories. It's really upsetting how Jorge's not admired for his hard work and intellect by his mean boss lady.

And Johnny never seems to get an actual cash tip, even tho he always gets the pizza there on time! I only watch because I am waiting for Johnny to get his first tip.

And OMG! How does she stay so skinny? That's a lot of damn pizza.

It is a lot of pizza, but she works out a lot because I saw the episode where she was at the gym. Although I'm not sure what certification her personal trainer has because those were certainly some unorthodox workouts. I've heard of NSM, ACE and NASM for personal training, but apparently there's an ATM certification too?

Cr01502

In a thread about sexual attraction last night, the topic of porn and porn addiction came up. It's made me very curious about how typical couples feel about it.

Some suggested you should constantly check the history of your s/o's phone and computer to make sure they aren't watching porn.

Others said watching it together is fun and healthy.

My opinion is that it's a generational thing. I think 20/30-something-year olds are way more open minded about porn because we grew up around it being everywhere, and in many cases started viewing it at much younger ages due to its accessibility.

So, tell me, how do you feel about it within your relationship. If you don't view it or want your s/o to watch it, what's your reasoning?
Does personal insecurity have an effect on people's opinions, or is it religious, moral, ect?

arn't you the woman who said her BF dosn't find you sexy??

I can see there's a trend to your posts now..

Me too.

And I like it.

Crawkins

arn't you the woman who said her BF dosn't find you sexy??

I can see there's a trend to your posts now..

Yeah, though last night he said if he doesn't look at my face it isn't a problem hahahah

A trend? Yes, in fact I have posted 2 whole threads that relate to sex in some way.
Damn me for finding human sexuality to be fascinating.

stephdeeable

It bothers me more that my boyfriend watches Two and a Half Men. Now, that's offensive.