Losing weight to get back at an ex.

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  • AIZZO4
    AIZZO4 Posts: 404 Member
    Thank you for your input. 40 is the new 30 beautiful

    Thank you for the compliment...or at least that is how I will take it. :smile:
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    Trust me, you look like you are in your early 30's :)
  • quisha916
    quisha916 Posts: 2
    Before I started mfp I was 283 pounds n my ex bf used to make me feel unattractive. He cheated on me with a bunch of females that were slim and pretty. Then one day he left me n called me fat, big, and chunky, and that same day I look at myself in the mirror and said to myself "it's time for a change" I stopped eating junk food and started dieting and exercising and now I lost 37 lbs. I sunt him a pic when I had only lost 35 lbs and he was speechless.
  • BlackBetttie
    BlackBetttie Posts: 423 Member
    I didnt do it for my ex... but man oh man is it fun to watch them start crawling back out of the woodwork!! :bigsmile: :laugh:

    #ohthatsrightgo****yourself
  • BlackBetttie
    BlackBetttie Posts: 423 Member
    Before I started mfp I was 283 pounds n my ex bf used to make me feel unattractive. He cheated on me with a bunch of females that were slim and pretty. Then one day he left me n called me fat, big, and chunky, and that same day I look at myself in the mirror and said to myself "it's time for a change" I stopped eating junk food and started dieting and exercising and now I lost 37 lbs. I sunt him a pic when I had only lost 35 lbs and he was speechless.

    Good for you chick!!! Youre sexy and sassy and you should make that bas tard eat his heart out!!! :drinker:
  • MissMariahLee
    MissMariahLee Posts: 55 Member
    At first that thought kind of crossed my mind. I wanted that satisfaction of seeing him out in public and having his jaw drop so to speak. But then I realized I need to just do it for myself so I will quit settling for less than I deserve and never fall for a cheating, using loser again!
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    I broke up with him so

    however he did make some vicious comments about my weight in regards to his new lady friend

    its okay though he saw me later after I had lost 100 pounds and lost his *kitten* at how gorgeous I am which made me feel good

    bamm boom badamamamamama moonnns
  • BringingSherriBack
    BringingSherriBack Posts: 607 Member
    Losing weight to get back at my ex was never even a thought in my mind. He had seen me at both my highest and lowest adult weights while we were together. When I was at my heaviest, he would make comments and call me fat and lazy and such. I had dropped right at 100 pounds when I found out he was cheating (for the second time I knew of) and he left (glad he did because I would have thrown him out otherwise).
    Anyway it's extremely funny to me that he would make comments about me being fat and lazy when the chick he cheated with and eventually married is as big or bigger then I was at my heaviest.
    Because we have a child together, I have to see him and sometimes the new wife quite frequently. I do however take great pleasure in showing off how great I look to both of them because he made me feel bad about myself and he also allowed her to make comments about my loose skin, having cheated by having WLS and such.
    Funny when she made those comments to me, I was just totally like B**** please! I look better in short shorts and tank top than you ever could so kiss my *kitten*! :tongue:
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    bump
  • Better to lose weight to get back at an ex, than to do it to get an ex back.

    Facts!
  • Autk79
    Autk79 Posts: 286 Member
    Years back I had a ex call me fat all the time. We split up and I lost 30 pounds in 3/4 months busting butt. Ran into him and he told me I looked like a crackhead or like I was sick. Then I realized he was just a jerk all together and I loved being skinny so now its for me and how I look. But he was my motivation at first.

    Thanks ex!! :laugh:
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    The OP is hilarious. Compliments every single women almost.
  • Autk79
    Autk79 Posts: 286 Member
    ^^^^ All woman deserve a compliment sometimes!