I keep failing...

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  • mrsmarit
    mrsmarit Posts: 229 Member
    She's deactivated her account now.
  • meeper123
    meeper123 Posts: 3,347 Member
    Oh how sad
  • avocado22
    avocado22 Posts: 19 Member
    Keep going. Sometimes pushing through something when its super tough results in the greatest results in the end. Don't give up on yourself and just remember this is all for you!
  • beattie1
    beattie1 Posts: 1,012 Member
    What a pity! No-one said anything critical or unsupportive. Maybe next time she'll be able to keep going. :sad:
  • Francl27
    Francl27 Posts: 26,371 Member
    What a pity! No-one said anything critical or unsupportive. Maybe next time she'll be able to keep going. :sad:

    Haha. Well, here's my answer.: there's no magic. You just got to be motivated enough. If you're not motivated and determined for a lifestyle change, you'll just keep failing. And nobody can give you that motivation.

    It took me 14 years to be ready to do it, personally. And I think that this time it will stick... but who knows.
  • FrnkLft
    FrnkLft Posts: 1,821 Member
    I think this often happens because you start with an initial burst of motivation, then it wanes.

    This is an awesome article that I hope you will take the time to read. I'm sincere when I say it could change your understanding here:

    http://jamesclear.com/identity-based-habits