What is the most romantic thing a spouse can do for you?

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  • skinnyinnotime
    skinnyinnotime Posts: 4,078 Member
    Separate from me!

    Solar!!
  • jenniferwren
    jenniferwren Posts: 189
    Do somethin, anything, without being asked :laugh:
  • LissaK1981
    LissaK1981 Posts: 219 Member
    I got a handmade valetines day card once
  • Lind5ay90
    Lind5ay90 Posts: 376 Member
    Foot massage! :) And leave sweet, love notes in random places.
  • HeidiCooksSupper
    HeidiCooksSupper Posts: 3,831 Member
    Sometimes, when hubby goes to the grocery store, he picks up one of those inexpensive bouquets of flowers along with the groceries and gives them to me with a kiss.
  • Endman
    Endman Posts: 894
    I'm bumping this because I need all the help I can get.
  • BondBomb
    BondBomb Posts: 1,781 Member
    I hate to call out people on my friends list...
    But one of my guy friends knows I am really into shoes. And he contacted me for info on which Christian Louboutin's to get his significant other. We figured out how to get her size/what style should would like. And he totally surprised her with a pair. He put a lot of thought and effort into it. Unfortunately he doesn't have any brothers :sad:
  • Lone_Wolf70
    Lone_Wolf70 Posts: 2,820 Member
    oral
  • bushidowoman
    bushidowoman Posts: 1,599 Member
    Get to know me and things that are special to me. My hubby finally decided to learn martial arts so that we can spend more time together and bought some sparring equipment so he can spar with me. And he's always looking for good martial arts movies to watch with me. I think that's romantic!
    He also picks fresh flowers while on his walks/runs and leaves them beside my laptop or on my dresser.
  • messy_Missy16
    messy_Missy16 Posts: 349 Member
    I got a handmade valetines day card once

    i've always wanted one of those. Store bought ones are soo mainstream
  • ShannonKN
    ShannonKN Posts: 152 Member
    A guy I dated for a long time made 12 little cards cut out of red construction paper to look like roses and glued them into a white paper cone so that they would look like a bouquet. Inside of each of those cards, he wrote a reason why he loved me. I kept that for years. My husband (years later, not the same guy) likes to randomly surprise me with little things that make it clear he's been listening to me, sometimes better than I've been listening to myself. I think the most romantic part of any gesture that we do for each other is the extent to which my husband and I make a point to really make the other one feel appreciated and loved.
  • grandmastime
    grandmastime Posts: 57 Member
    rub my feet and legs after a long day at work.
  • CaseyKrause
    CaseyKrause Posts: 3
    Respect the fact that I am trying to loose weight and not make me five egg omelets and four pieces of toast for breakfast like he doesn't want me to succeed.
  • 2stepscloser
    2stepscloser Posts: 2,900 Member
    For men, anything to do with sex is considered romantic :love:
  • PaleoChocolateBear
    PaleoChocolateBear Posts: 2,844 Member
    For men, anything to do with sex is considered romantic :love:

    Throw in a sandwich afterwards and they can have my black card for a month
  • Justjamie0418
    Justjamie0418 Posts: 1,065 Member
    Separate from me!

    AMEN!!!!

    But if I had a spouse that didn't totally suck- I would say the most romantic thing they could do is plan a day spent being lazy together, all snuggled up in bed. I'm relatively easy to please :laugh:

    I third, or 4th? this. and in doing so, LET ME SLEEP!
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,486 Member
    oral

    FTW. Thank you, you are correct.
  • TheWiseCat
    TheWiseCat Posts: 297
    Leave me alone.


    I <3 space
  • sally_jeffswife
    sally_jeffswife Posts: 766 Member
    Hand written card on no special occasion.....or one time my hubby wrapped himself up in wrapping paper
  • m76b
    m76b Posts: 1,498 Member
    put his name on my divorce papers???!!!!:drinker: :laugh:
  • MB_Positif
    MB_Positif Posts: 8,897 Member
    Not fart. Clearly I have been married too long.
  • TheWiseCat
    TheWiseCat Posts: 297
    oral

    FTW. Thank you, you are correct.

    Well if that isn't already customary in the relationship (both ways), I'd be ditching it.
  • 2stepscloser
    2stepscloser Posts: 2,900 Member
    an entire weekend full of sex, food, sleep & more sex

    Need a "like" button. I guarantee this response was formulated by my hubby!
  • JJordon
    JJordon Posts: 857 Member
    Zip her lips. I enjoy the sound of silence. I'm not much of a talker.
  • kf4vkp
    kf4vkp Posts: 164 Member
    It's a very person specific thing.... For some people it's a massage, for some it's doing the chores so they don't have to, for some it will be watching the kids so that they can go have me time....


    You should talk to your spouse to find out what its their particular thing.
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,486 Member
    oral

    FTW. Thank you, you are correct.

    Well if that isn't already customary in the relationship (both ways), I'd be ditching it.

    No, no, it's customary, but when you're married for a long time you have to make it seem more special by saying it's a romantic gesture. That way then there is less you have to do as customary romance cuz what is considered romantic by many is actually pretty stupid.

    You have to SELL it to your spouse as pure romance.
  • KellyRUNS2Bthinner
    KellyRUNS2Bthinner Posts: 13 Member
    Lmao now that is funny. I dont believe in Romance. Give me a full day at the gym and an unlimited suppky of protein bars and shakes and go watch your football.
  • artickb22
    artickb22 Posts: 411 Member
    Perfect romantic day: coffee on the back porch then hitting some trials for hiking followed by some fishing in the early afternoon and a baseball game at night. Yup, that'll do it!
  • tuckerrj
    tuckerrj Posts: 1,453 Member
    DON'T make you guess what they want, OR make you wonder what you've done wrong this time. Dammit, men aren't mind readers. The "you should know what I want", or "you should know what you've done wrong" attitude is ridiculous!!!
  • KellyRUNS2Bthinner
    KellyRUNS2Bthinner Posts: 13 Member
    Zip her lips. I enjoy the sound of silence. I'm not much of a talker.
    Lmao. I love the man answers.:smile::laugh:

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