Getting Married Young

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  • I got married at 19 and hubby was 23. We will celebrate our 15 th anniversary this year. I think you are over stressing about the marriage. Stop listening to your friends about the hall pass. Whoever suggested that is truly not ready for a commitment and i wonder on the intentions behind that comment. You are not going to be the perfect wife and he's not going to be the perfect husband. It's how you guys handle the mistakes that matter. You can read self help books but the only people who are knowledgeable about the dynamics of your relationship are you two. In my opinion self help books rely on other people's insecurities to make a buck. Trust in yourself and your fiancé to figure out what works for you.

    Here is my advice

    A marriage is full of peaks and valleys. Remember that valleys don't last forever. Hang on during those times.

    Keep your family and friends out of your relationship. Seek each other out for support don't look for support from outside your marriage.