I HATE lying men rant

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  • paintedr3d
    paintedr3d Posts: 40
    WE WANT TO BE GOOD TO YOU AND TREAT YOU NICE BUT YOU MAKE US DO THIS TO YOU! ITS YOU YOU YOU!
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    I am 7 weeks pregnant with my first baby. The father cheated on me and abused me and then left. Recently I met this great guy. Starts talking things were getting serious and I catch him cheating!!! UGH!!! I'm done with men. That is all.

    So far, I haven't heard evidence of you dating an actual man. Have your child, get an education, and hopefully by then you will have figured out why you keep attracting woman-beaters and general losers, and THEN you might actually be able to find and hang on to a real man. Stop blaming everyone with a penis for your problems.

    Suddenly, I'm left wondering whether or not the "great guy" you met and got "serious" with (a mere 7 weeks after conceiving a child with someone else) knew you were pregnant ...

    I know, I know. I'm a horrible, judgmental person. Or whatever.

    Love this lady :).
  • paintedr3d
    paintedr3d Posts: 40
    I am 7 weeks pregnant with my first baby. The father cheated on me and abused me and then left. Recently I met this great guy. Starts talking things were getting serious and I catch him cheating!!! UGH!!! I'm done with men. That is all.
    In all seriousness though if you weren't exclusive it's not cheating.
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    Take care of yourself and your future child. Give it some time, get your life with child established.
    You are young and as hard as it is to do it all alone, you need to. You must not rush into the arms of some less than worthy man, just to give your child a father figure.

    Lean on your parents, siblings, friends
    Study hard and do well.
    Take care of your child.
  • skatardrummer
    skatardrummer Posts: 60 Member
    I'm gonna get slaughtered for this, but I dont feel teenagers should be having sex...to many confused emotions and broken hearts they're not ready for. Few guys your age are ready to parent, and you only will be ready by necessity and grace. Raising a child comes first. No more men for a good while. Raising a child to feel loved and like their home is stable, with one parent or two, is priority now. Bringing men around will confuse a young child. Down the road, I'm sure he/she will want you to be happy. But any hurt and confusion you bring will become theirs. Good parenting is a selfless job. That doesn't mean don't get a baby sitter now and again and go to movies or something with friends ;)
  • Willowana
    Willowana Posts: 493 Member
    I wish I could find a man to use for just sex. They always get attached.

    Anywho, there ARE a lot of cheaters out there, but I have found some good ones along the way. It just didn't work out for other reasons. But given 18 year old boys, MOST are not anywhere near ready to settle down or become fathers.

    You should definitely focus on yourself and your baby. There's a lot to still learn about yourself, and perhaps, your choice in men. If I was still my 18 year old self, I'd be drooling over the headless six pack abs guys on MFP. Now? Give me a hot nerdy guy, and I'll rock his world. :laugh:
  • bulkbrah89
    bulkbrah89 Posts: 15 Member
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    The truth hurts, this kid is going to hurt big time when he/she sees their buddies with their dads.. a father is important in a child's life you're a fool to say otherwise.
  • JeneticTraining
    JeneticTraining Posts: 663 Member
    I think you should focus on yourself - you and the health of your baby
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member

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    The truth hurts, this kid is going to hurt big time when he/she sees their buddies with their dads.. a father is important in a child's life you're a fool to say otherwise.

    Well, I'm worried overall that if she doesn't get her head straight, this baby will really suffer from more than just the lack of a father figure.

    OP, have you considered other options like adoption?
  • kaylaandthestarcatcher
    kaylaandthestarcatcher Posts: 836


    The truth hurts, this kid is going to hurt big time when he/she sees their buddies with their dads.. a father is important in a child's life you're a fool to say otherwise.

    Okay, I guess I'm a fool. Or I know MANY people who grew up in single-parent households and they are perfectly normal, wonderful people. I'm not saying that a father figure isn't beneficial, but it is not necessary to have a good upbringing.
  • 1PatientBear
    1PatientBear Posts: 2,089 Member

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    The truth hurts, this kid is going to hurt big time when he/she sees their buddies with their dads.. a father is important in a child's life you're a fool to say otherwise.
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    You just keep digging yourself deeper. Just because the biological father won't be involved doesn't mean there won't be a man in the kid's life. Whether it's a stepdad, an uncle, a granddad or someone else entirely, there are strong male role models in life who weren't necessarily sperm donors. But by all means, keep sharing the "wisdom" of your 23 years.
  • 2credneck208
    2credneck208 Posts: 501 Member
    I had my friggin tubes tied and got pregnant! So nothing is 100%
  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
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