I really gotta find a man...

HardcoreP0rk
HardcoreP0rk Posts: 936 Member
edited November 12 in Chit-Chat
...that doesn't think it's ok to look through my cell phone, read all my emails, and comb through my text messages. Even if everything is on the up and up, I am handling things that are NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. I'd like to handle them on my own terms.

Is that so wrong?

Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez

#KillMe
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  • ScatteredThoughts
    ScatteredThoughts Posts: 3,562 Member
    #slaphimaroundabit ?
  • HardcoreP0rk
    HardcoreP0rk Posts: 936 Member
    #slaphimaroundabit ?

    pfft...waaaaaaaaaaaay too late for that
  • AZ_Gato
    AZ_Gato Posts: 1,270 Member
    33eosur.jpg

    : )
  • Seraphemz
    Seraphemz Posts: 84 Member
    ...that doesn't think it's ok to look through my cell phone, read all my emails, and comb through my text messages. Even if everything is on the up and up, I am handling things that are NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. I'd like to handle them on my own terms.

    Is that so wrong?

    Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez

    #KillMe

    Are you dating Joe Lauzon??
  • ScatteredThoughts
    ScatteredThoughts Posts: 3,562 Member
    #slaphimaroundabit ?

    pfft...waaaaaaaaaaaay too late for that

    What reasons does he give for doing this? Why are you still with him?

    :smile:
  • m76b
    m76b Posts: 1,498 Member
    :smokin: i know
  • Ldbg289
    Ldbg289 Posts: 236 Member
    I hope you find him! As for me, I need to find one that knows what he wants and sticks to it! Not wishy washy or constantly changing his mind. Anyway, good luck!
  • bannedword
    bannedword Posts: 299 Member
    33eosur.jpg

    : )

    I honestly cannot figure out what body parts are visible in your profile pic.
  • joleciamichelle
    joleciamichelle Posts: 139 Member
    this..lol
    #slaphimaroundabit ?
  • elprincipito
    elprincipito Posts: 1,200 Member
    you mean looking through a girl's personal things is not the right thing to do?
  • WillH1414
    WillH1414 Posts: 58
    If you are accepting applications...let me know!
  • jaxokc
    jaxokc Posts: 26 Member
    He sounds guilty...maybe you should be checking up on him. :(
  • NutellaAddict
    NutellaAddict Posts: 1,258 Member
    #insecure
  • iclaudia_g
    iclaudia_g Posts: 148 Member
    33eosur.jpg

    : )

    I honestly cannot figure out what body parts are visible in your profile pic.

    Me neither. I was like - bicep, *kitten*, hip, bald head - wut wut??
  • SALSACHICA1
    SALSACHICA1 Posts: 66 Member
    Funny, my boyfriend and I JUST talked about this last night. He had a friend ask him why he doesn't go through my phone.. we both agree that if either of us feels a need to go through the other's phone... it is time to move on. Neither of us is hiding any thing, but we both run companies... we need some privacy to handle things!
  • h8fklvr
    h8fklvr Posts: 8
    I hear you Clucking Big Chicken...
  • groomchick
    groomchick Posts: 610 Member
    People generally suspect others of things that they themselves are perfectly capable of... he sounds very insecure. He is either guilty of something or you are giving him a reason to be suspicious...
  • OneEyeUp
    OneEyeUp Posts: 373 Member
    If you are accepting applications...let me know!

    I despise the idea that men must "apply," for the affections of a woman, whereas they basically have to do nothing. It goes both ways, and any woman that states she's "accepting applications," is a woman I instantly want nothing to do with. Don't degrade yourself man.
  • M______
    M______ Posts: 288 Member
    Nothing worse and as constricting than a jealous and controlling partner. I know from experience, as I'm sure many do.

    Never again, not in a million years. NOOOOWAYYYY.
  • HardcoreP0rk
    HardcoreP0rk Posts: 936 Member


    Are you dating Joe Lauzon??

    God, if I were dating Joe, I certainly wouldnt put our personal business on the internet
  • HardcoreP0rk
    HardcoreP0rk Posts: 936 Member

    What reasons does he give for doing this? Why are you still with him?

    :smile:

    His ex wife cheated on him. So now that baggage is my fault. And Im not with him...which is why I need to find a man
  • kathyhull
    kathyhull Posts: 327 Member
    absofriggenlutely! Trust, honesty and open communication are the keys to a good relationship.
  • HardcoreP0rk
    HardcoreP0rk Posts: 936 Member
    He sounds guilty...maybe you should be checking up on him. :(

    I considered that. The "maybe he has a guilty conscience" part...not the "looking through his stuff" part though. Snooping never ends well. Ever.
  • zyxst
    zyxst Posts: 9,149 Member
    33eosur.jpg

    : )

    I honestly cannot figure out what body parts are visible in your profile pic.

    Me neither. I was like - bicep, *kitten*, hip, bald head - wut wut??

    His upper arm.
  • TheWiseCat
    TheWiseCat Posts: 297
    You also need a man with smaller ears.
  • HardcoreP0rk
    HardcoreP0rk Posts: 936 Member
    You also need a man with smaller ears.

    I giggled.
  • TheWiseCat
    TheWiseCat Posts: 297
    You also need a man with smaller ears.

    I giggled.
    I bet he heard that.
  • HardcoreP0rk
    HardcoreP0rk Posts: 936 Member
    You also need a man with smaller ears.

    I giggled.
    I bet he heard that.

    Oh man. Do you know how much you're helping right now? :D
  • ChristiH4000
    ChristiH4000 Posts: 531 Member
    Preach it sister! It's all a matter of trust. I had the guy that didn't trust me, and had to ditch him because it was him who could not be trusted. Found a good one though, so I'm just here to tell you that they really do exist.
  • TheWiseCat
    TheWiseCat Posts: 297
    You also need a man with smaller ears.

    I giggled.
    I bet he heard that.

    Oh man. Do you know how much you're helping right now? :D

    No idea, which is sad because I usually have an ear for these sorts of things.
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