Cougars

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  • BDEGAND
    BDEGAND Posts: 53
    What's not to luv about a puppy?

    Exactly!
  • BDEGAND
    BDEGAND Posts: 53
    What's not to luv about a puppy?

    Lol. They are adorable. But so much work. Granted, I'm only 31 but the younger 20's often have little experience in running a household, are constantly mentally masturbating with lofty ideals, and are still trying on different personas. I need something more stable than that.

    This isn't all young folks, of course. But enough of them to keep me out of the 20's dating pool.

    I guess I would agree if I were talking about a long term relationship. I'm not meaning that.....I just meant having a little fun friend :wink:
  • molvira
    molvira Posts: 5
    I have no problem with cougars. They are experienced and willing to teach....
  • Koldnomore
    Koldnomore Posts: 1,613 Member
    I don't think it would really matter for most people as long as all involved are adults. I have dated men anywhere between 15 years younger and 29 years older at various times in my life. Personally, I find men who are my age (40) and older are far too set in their ways with 'ideals' of the way that a woman should act, dress, look, think. Those notions are normally not even close to the way that I am thus even if they find me attractive I normally find that I have next to nothing in common with them. This is the same for men who are any more than about 7 or 8 years younger. My current boyfriend is 5 years my junior and we get along magnificently.
  • fruitloop2
    fruitloop2 Posts: 437 Member
    What's not to luv about a puppy?

    Lol, love this! Get 'em young and train them right :wink: My husband is younger than me...granted only by a few years but still younger :smile:
  • Docmahi
    Docmahi Posts: 1,603 Member
    <--- loves cougars

    willing to be your cub
  • KevinMassine
    KevinMassine Posts: 54
    As long as its not a Moutain Lion Its all Good :smokin:
  • PeanutButterLuver
    PeanutButterLuver Posts: 910
    Meooooowwwww
  • april_mesk
    april_mesk Posts: 694 Member
    What's not to luv about a puppy?

    Lol. They are adorable. But so much work. Granted, I'm only 31 but the younger 20's often have little experience in running a household, are constantly mentally masturbating with lofty ideals, and are still trying on different personas. I need something more stable than that.

    This isn't all young folks, of course. But enough of them to keep me out of the 20's dating pool.

    I agree. If I was single, it would be just something to play with (a puppy), but not anything serious...Not trying to be rude but being honest like OP asked... ;) I have had a 28 yr old after me for awhile now and I am 39... love my husband so, no go. I suppose it's flattering...
  • giselle71
    giselle71 Posts: 19
    Age ain't nothing but a number! For me what matters is that someone can stimulate you intellectually as well as physically and because people develop differently, this can happen at varying ages. As someone on here posted as well, as long as they're both ADULTS, and they're both happy, then so what....

    Society can be too judgemental at times. If it works for you then perfect! No one can live your life for you or determine your happiness.
  • snoopytwins
    snoopytwins Posts: 1,759 Member
    It's creepy, they're old enough to be their mothers.

    So, what age is a cougar? I was called one yesterday by a friend jokingly because I was checkin out a guy who was obviously in his late 20's. I'm 36 (almost 37)
    This makes you a puma...not a cougar. Go team puma. :wink:
  • BDEGAND
    BDEGAND Posts: 53
    It's creepy, they're old enough to be their mothers.

    So, what age is a cougar? I was called one yesterday by a friend jokingly because I was checkin out a guy who was obviously in his late 20's. I'm 36 (almost 37)
    This makes you a puma...not a cougar. Go team puma. :wink:

    :laugh:
  • Increditim
    Increditim Posts: 159
    Meooooowwwww

    Why do I suddenly want to be a younger man?
  • The_WoIverine
    The_WoIverine Posts: 367 Member
    I'd like to stay around & chat but I have to drive my 22 y/o boy toy home to his parents house.

    Looking for a second boy toy? Oh wait, I'm 34, never mind, I'm not young enough :sad:
  • lift_big10
    lift_big10 Posts: 8
    they have more experience right? =P
  • Docmahi
    Docmahi Posts: 1,603 Member
    It's creepy, they're old enough to be their mothers.

    So, what age is a cougar? I was called one yesterday by a friend jokingly because I was checkin out a guy who was obviously in his late 20's. I'm 36 (almost 37)
    This makes you a puma...not a cougar. Go team puma. :wink:

    its true ^^
  • Docmahi
    Docmahi Posts: 1,603 Member
    Meooooowwwww

    yowza
  • jffrydale
    jffrydale Posts: 32 Member
    Shouldn't be considered any different than when guys are with younger women...If your still attracting attention from those younger than you evidently you're doing something right....
  • lphillp
    lphillp Posts: 13
    Age is just a number. I am 29 and my boyfriend is 22, he is more mature than any guy I have been with. Plus he keeps me feeling young, its not a bad thing at all.
  • cgrout78
    cgrout78 Posts: 1,628 Member
    I think the other day I read that like 30-40 was a puma and over 40 was a cougar?

    On the opposite side...what about older men and younger women? As long as both parties are legal and enjoy each other...who cares? I'm not here to judge anyone.
  • 17ChargerGirl17
    17ChargerGirl17 Posts: 441
    Well I guess I'm a cougar. LOL
    I'm 44 and my boyfriend is 30.
    He is more mature then most men I know my own age. Has a great work ethic and loves me and my kids.
    I never thought I would ever be with someone that much younger then me, but I have come to believe that
    It's really no ones business and age really doesnt matter if you love someone and are truly happy.
  • BDEGAND
    BDEGAND Posts: 53
    I think the other day I read that like 30-40 was a puma and over 40 was a cougar?

    On the opposite side...what about older men and younger women? As long as both parties are legal and enjoy each other...who cares? I'm not here to judge anyone.

    So, you would agree to an 18 year old having sex with a 40 year old???? ewwww not me! Having kids, I still feel like the laws are a bit off :noway:
  • dfonte
    dfonte Posts: 263 Member
    I'm all about it
  • fitfreakymom
    fitfreakymom Posts: 1,400 Member
    It's creepy, they're old enough to be their mothers.

    So, what age is a cougar? I was called one yesterday by a friend jokingly because I was checkin out a guy who was obviously in his late 20's. I'm 36 (almost 37)

    That's not so creepy , cougar means around 35+

    Um sorry I am over 35 and not a cougar lol
  • bellesouth18
    bellesouth18 Posts: 1,071 Member
    over 60 is a sabertooth

    That means I'll qualify for sabertooth status soon. ;( Honestly, I'd feel ridiculous being with a man 15-20+ years my junior. We just wouldn't have much in common--too much of a generation gap. But it doesn't mean I don't look.

    Hey, I'm very appreciative of the male form. Just because I'm on a diet doesn't mean I can't look at the menu! I went to a powerlifting event in February. There were a lot of younger guys checking me out, too. A good ego boost for sure!
  • wardamn3agle
    wardamn3agle Posts: 80
    I prefer older women. They know what they want and they're not whiney little drama queens. Where are all the cougars at?
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    It's creepy, they're old enough to be their mothers.

    So, what age is a cougar? I was called one yesterday by a friend jokingly because I was checkin out a guy who was obviously in his late 20's. I'm 36 (almost 37)

    That's not so creepy , cougar means around 35+

    Um sorry I am over 35 and not a cougar lol

    I never said you had to be.
  • fitfreakymom
    fitfreakymom Posts: 1,400 Member
    If I was single I am not sure I would be attracted to someone a lot younger than me, I would probably date my own age or a bit older.
  • servilia
    servilia Posts: 3,452 Member
    The question was about sleeping with someone in which case who cares as long as they're legal. Relationships can be trickier though
  • Irish_Eyes81
    Irish_Eyes81 Posts: 808 Member
    I'm not a cougar ....yet ;) (31) I sure do plan on looking great as I age.

    With that being said I see no issues with it if there's a connection and they both are adults about it, lol

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