Why are my MFP friends so unsupportive?

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  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,252 Member
    Even though its an old thread oh well buT imo and idk how exactly active OP is, but, if one is constantly interacting with everyone and supporting everyone on a daily basis having a genuine response on top of it all should feel the right to be somewhat offended…yeah they shouldn't expect people to comment..but who is really so free with time they can sit on mFp all day? no one…but thats it exactly so if the people who do constantly encourage all their friends and no one is like wow i should see what this person day was about and just hit a like button shouldn't be too difficult to do...
    I mean on serious note because I can kind of relate although i don't try to look at it like this so much and yeah its exactly why i don't have 50 or 100 people to support because then you become a tool first and second I don't have time to praise all 50 people like used to be able to.…
    If your lucky to get a list of supporters almost every time you log you either have all female or male friends…
    Its just nice to get some love back and i think most everyone agrees with that.
    A good idea is to pay attention sometimes to who is the MOST consistent and do give some love back…that person did take time to respond….i mean no one doesn't need a oh i see you had an awesome sandwich…but is it really hard to press "like"? As far as I know its not that difficult and i am actually very busy….it does take time to say hi and comment. you don't have to . its just nice. But then again the OP has a right to just kick those to a curb-it is possible to rebuild your list of people who do actually "have time" imo only. there is no right or wrong answer here. Most people here seem to not care about the comments and its the reason for their reactions to OP's complaint…but why do you have friends in the first place if you could care less if anyone comments? I'm just confused by those two opposing reactions from some of you here...

    You get that this year and a half old post was a joke, right? And OP has deactivated.
  • Joannah700
    Joannah700 Posts: 2,665 Member
    u can't expect a parade everytime u do something right.

    But. but..parades are, like, fahhhhhboo!

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    I'm curious as to where they find high heels in their sizes.
    as am I

    In case anyone is still curious, my guess is Nordstrom Rack.

    Or wherever the real kinky boots factory sells their shoes.

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  • RedArizona5
    RedArizona5 Posts: 465 Member
    Even though its an old thread oh well buT imo and idk how exactly active OP is, but, if one is constantly interacting with everyone and supporting everyone on a daily basis having a genuine response on top of it all should feel the right to be somewhat offended…yeah they shouldn't expect people to comment..but who is really so free with time they can sit on mFp all day? no one…but thats it exactly so if the people who do constantly encourage all their friends and no one is like wow i should see what this person day was about and just hit a like button shouldn't be too difficult to do...
    I mean on serious note because I can kind of relate although i don't try to look at it like this so much and yeah its exactly why i don't have 50 or 100 people to support because then you become a tool first and second I don't have time to praise all 50 people like used to be able to.…
    If your lucky to get a list of supporters almost every time you log you either have all female or male friends…
    Its just nice to get some love back and i think most everyone agrees with that.
    A good idea is to pay attention sometimes to who is the MOST consistent and do give some love back…that person did take time to respond….i mean no one doesn't need a oh i see you had an awesome sandwich…but is it really hard to press "like"? As far as I know its not that difficult and i am actually very busy….it does take time to say hi and comment. you don't have to . its just nice. But then again the OP has a right to just kick those to a curb-it is possible to rebuild your list of people who do actually "have time" imo only. there is no right or wrong answer here. Most people here seem to not care about the comments and its the reason for their reactions to OP's complaint…but why do you have friends in the first place if you could care less if anyone comments? I'm just confused by those two opposing reactions from some of you here...

    You get that this year and a half old post was a joke, right? And OP has deactivated.
    no sorry i didn't….. ok never mind hehe:)